Top 180 Adrienne Rich Quotes (2025 Update)
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101. “The mother’s battle for her child with sickness, with poverty, with war, with all the forces of exploitation and callousness that cheapen human life needs to become a common human battle, waged in love and in the passion for survival.”

— Adrienne Rich

102. “To do something very common, in my own way.”

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103. “No woman is really an insider in the institutions fathered by masculine consciousness.”

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104. “One line typed twenty years ago can be blazed on a wall in spraypaint to glorify art as detachment or torture of those we did not love but also did not want to kill.”

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105. “There is no ‘the truth,’ ‘a truth’ – truth is not one thing, or even a system. It is an increasing complexity.”

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106. “Lesbian existence comprises both the breaking of a taboo and the rejection of a compulsory way of life. It is also a direct or indirect attack on the male right of access to women.”

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107. “If I cling to circumstances I could feel not responsible. Only she who says she did not choose, is the loser in the end.”

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108. “The suppressed lesbian I had been carrying in me since adolescence began to stretch her limbs...”

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109. “We are, none of us, ‘either’ mothers or daughters; to our amazement, confusion, and greater complexity, we are both.”

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110. “But before we were mothers, we have been, first of all, women, with actual bodies and actual minds.”

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111. “Art, whose honesty must work through artifice, cannot avoid cheating truth.”

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112. “Whatever happens with us, your body will haunt mine.”

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113. “War is an absolute failure of imagination, scientific and political. That a war can be represented as helping a people to ‘feel good’ about themselves, or their country, is a measure of that failure.”

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114. “Can you remember? when we thought the poets taught how to live?”

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115. “I believe that words can help us move or keep us paralyzed, and that our choices of language and verbal tone have something – a great deal – to do with how we live our lives.”

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116. “Love, our subject: we’ve trained it like ivy to our walls.”

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117. “Freedom. It isn’t once, to walk out under the Milky Way, feeling the rivers of light, the fields of dark – freedom is daily, prose-bound, routine remembering. Putting together inch by inch the starry worlds. From all the lost collections.”

— Adrienne Rich

118. “The body has been made so problematic for women that it has often seemed easier to shrug it off and travel as a disembodied spirit.”

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119. “Our personalities seem dangerously to blur and overlap with our mother’s; and, in a desperate attempt to know where mother ends and daughter begins, we perform radical surgery.”

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120. “To seek visions, to dream dreams, is essential, and it is also essential to try new ways of living, to make room for serious experimentation, to respect the effort even where it fails.”

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121. “When relationships are determined by manipulation, by the need for control, they may possess a dreary, bickering kind of drama, but they cease to be interesting. They are repetitious; the shock of human possibilities has ceased to reverberate through them.”

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122. “Go back so far there is another language go back far enough the language is no longer personal.”

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123. “I touch you knowing we weren’t born tomorrow, and somehow, each of us will help the other live, and somewhere, each of us must help the other die.”

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124. “The worker can unionize, go out on strike; mothers are divided from each other in homes, tied to their children by compassionate bonds; our wildcat strikes have most often taken the form of physical or mental breakdown.”

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125. “Writers matter in a society to the extent that we can help that society hear its unvoiced longing, encounter its erased and disregarded selves, break with complacency, numbness, despair.”

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126. “When I talk of taking a trip I mean forever.”

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127. “Women’s Studies can amount simply to compensatory history; too often they fail to challenge the intellectual and political structures that must be challenged if women as a group are ever to come into collective, nonexclusionary freedom.”

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128. “We move but our words stand become responsible for more than we intended and this is verbal privilege.”

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129. “When we discover that someone we trusted can be trusted no longer, it forces us to reexamine the universe, to question the whole instinct and concept of trust. For a while, we are thrust back onto some bleak, jutting ledge, in a dark pierced by sheets of fire, swept by sheets of rain, in a world before kinship, or naming, or tenderness exist; we are brought close to formlessness.”

— Adrienne Rich

130. “Those who speak largely of the human condition are usually those most exempt from its oppressions – whether of sex, race, or servitude.”

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131. “I feel more helpless with you than without you.”

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132. “Even before I wholly knew I was a lesbian, it was the lesbian in me who pursued that elusive configuration. And I believe it is the lesbian in every woman who is compelled by female energy, who gravitates toward strong women, who seeks literature that will express that energy and strength. It is the lesbian in us who drives us to feel imaginatively, render in language, grasp, the full connection between woman and woman.”

— Adrienne Rich

133. “I have a notion that genius knows itself; that Dickinson chose her seclusion, knowing she was exceptional and knowing what she needed.”

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134. “I long to create something that can’t be used to keep us passive: I want to write a script about plumbing, how every pipe is joined to every other.”

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135. “Memory says: Want to do right? Don’t count on me.”

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136. “Heterosexuality has been forcibly and subliminally imposed on women. Yet everywhere women have resisted it, often at the cost of physical torture, imprisonment, psychosurgery, social ostracism, and extreme poverty.”

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137. “Strangers are an endangered species...”

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138. “The channel of art can only become clogged and misdirected by the artist’s concern with merely temporary and local disturbances. The song is higher than the struggle.”

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139. “A poem can’t free us from the struggle for existence, but it can uncover desires and appetites buried under the accumulating emergencies of our lives, the fabricated wants and needs we have had urged on us, have accepted as our own. It’s not a philosophical or psychological blueprint; it’s an instrument for embodied experience.”

— Adrienne Rich

140. “The world tells me I am its creature I am raked by eyes brushed by hands I want to crawl into her for refuge lay my head in the space between her breast and shoulder abnegating power for love as women have done or hiding from power in her love like a man I refuse these givens the splitting between love and action I am choosing not to suffer uselessly and not to use her I choose to love this time for once with all my intelligence.”

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141. “For now, poetry has the capacity – in its own ways and by its own means – to remind us of something we are forbidden to see.”

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142. “One does not give birth in a void, but rather in a cultural and political context. Laws, professional codes, religious sanctions, and ethnic traditions all affect women’s choices concerning childbirth.”

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143. “The unconscious wants truth, as the body does. The complexity and fecundity of dreams come from the complexity and fecundity of the unconscious struggling to fulfill that desire. The complexity and fecundity of poetry come from the same struggle.”

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144. “If we had time and no money, living by our wits, what story would you tell?”

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145. “I don’t think we can separate art from overall human dignity and hope.”

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146. “There is always an unspeakable where, perhaps, the nucleus of the living relation between the poem and the world resides.”

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147. “The liar has many friends, and leads an existence of great loneliness.”

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148. “I think poets should work in the non-literary, non-academic world, get to know more than a workshop or a university.”

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149. “The avoidance of pain – physical or psychic – is a dangerous mechanism, which can cause us to lose touch not just with our painful sensations but with ourselves.”

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150. “These scars bear witness but whether to repair or to destruction I no longer know.”

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