Top 300 Ann Brashares Quotes (2025 Update)
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101. “Wish for what you want, work for what you need. -Carmen’s grandmother.”

— Ann Brashares

102. “I’m afraid of time... I mean, I’m afraid of not having enough time. Not enough time to understand people, how they really are, or to be understood myself. I’m afraid of the quick judgements or mistakes everybody makes. You can’t fix them without time. I’m afraid of seeing snapshots, not movies.”

— Ann Brashares

103. “I did love her. I’ve loved her from the first time I saw her.”

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104. “To write a story, I think you really have to open yourself up to the world.”

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105. “There are moments in your life when the big pieces slide and shift. Sometimes the big changes dong happen gradually but all at once. That’s how it was for us. That was the day we discovered that friends can do things for you that your parents can’t.”

— Ann Brashares

106. “She hadn’t chosen the brave life. She’d chosen the small, fearful one.”

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107. “What happened to me by myself felt partly dreamed, partly imagined, definitely shifted and warped by my own fears and wants. But who knows? Maybe there is more truth in how you feel than in what actually happens.”

— Ann Brashares

108. “Once Paul told her that the beach was like him because it changed every day but it never made any progress. Later she remembered thinking that a normal person might have begun by saying that he was like the beach.”

— Ann Brashares

109. “She was alive, and they were dead. She had to try to make her life big. As big as she could. She promised Bailey she would keep playing.”

— Ann Brashares

110. “She felt like parts of her soul were missing, had left her body long ago. It had happened not in Greece three months ago, but long before that. It was in Greece that she’d realized those parts had left her and were not coming back.”

— Ann Brashares

111. “What you leave behind is the people you loved. You leave yourself in them.”

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112. “Wear them, they will make you brave.”

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113. “Her need was as big as the stars, and he was down there on the beach, so quiet she could hardly hear him.”

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114. “It was wrong. But it was worth it.”

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115. “Gestating characters feels something like the mental equivalent of gestating a baby. In both cases, to create them you lose yourself. Or at least you reshape yourself to encompass them.”

— Ann Brashares

116. “How many times could you give up on someone you loved?”

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117. “But it was smell that carried memory.”

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118. “Carmen: “I want you to leave me alone, but not ignore me. I want you to miss me when I go away to college, but not be sad. I want you to stay exactly the same, but not be lonely or alone. I want to do the leaving, and not have you ever leave me.”

— Ann Brashares

119. “She existed in her friends; there she was. All the parts of herself she’d forgotten. She knew herself best when she was with them.”

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120. “I want to go where you’re going. I’m not scared of dying. I want to stay together and come back together. You said that souls cohere. I want to stay with you.”

— Ann Brashares

121. “I killed her once and died for her many times and I still have nothing to show for it. I always search for her ; I always remember her. I carry the hope that someday she will remember me.”

— Ann Brashares

122. “Relief is a short-lived emotion, passive and thin. The agony of doubt disappears, leaving little memory of how it really felt. Life aligns behind the new truth.”

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123. “A loving soul was always more beautiful over the long haul, but actual prettiness was fleeting.”

— Ann Brashares

124. “So far, she’d been her usual lame self: solitary and routine-loving, carefully avoiding any path that might lead to spontaneous human interaction. Lena Kaligaris.”

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125. “There was a moment in between, a moment flung free in the midst of the transition, when he made contact. That was the moment she would dwell on.”

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126. “There was love expressed in the places you usually forget to look.”

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127. “Forget Jack, I’m in love with the cold, dirt floor.”

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128. “She was so much softer then, so much more willing to fall in love, or believe she was.”

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129. “In a flash of wonderment she saw firm, continuous ground under her feet, stretching from back then to right now and on and on as far as her eyes could take her.”

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130. “She wanted him to notice her so much.”

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131. “Bridget’s anger evaporated and the sadness came back. The anger was easier. She owned and contolled it, whereas the sadness owned her.”

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132. “Love made you admire funny things about a person, like how good she was at remembering to return her library books and at slicing cucumbers very thin. She was a veritable wonder at pulling a splinter out of her foot.”

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133. “He tricked himself into thinking that she would look into his eyes and remember, that love would conquer all.”

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134. “Could she kiss him? Would he allow her that? Was that something he could pretend was nothing? What about making love? Could she just open up her legs and pull him inside her and have him all she wanted and later give her assent that it was nothing?”

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135. “I killed her once and died for her many times.”

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136. “That seemed a sad thing about human nature – how much more time we spend thinking about what we don’ have, or have lost, than about what we have.”

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137. “She could understand and analyze and predict the exact outcome of her crazy, self-destructive behavior and then go ahead and do it anyway.”

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138. “She used to cry roughly three times a year. Now she seemed to cry three times before breakfast. Could that be considered progress?”

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139. “If you didn’t have a choice, you had to make a choice. If you didn’t have options, you made some. You couldn’t just let this world happen to you... he didn’t see eternity. He saw this girl and this moment and this one slim chance.”

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140. “She discarded whole chunks of life that obsessed other people. She didn’t torture people she loved, nor did she hunger for them. She kept it simple.”

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141. “You hold on to old experiences: injuries, injustices, and great love affairs, too. And you hold them in your joints and your organs, and wear them on your skin.”

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142. “Together or apart, no matter how far apart, we live in one another. We go on together.”

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143. “In a way it scared me, having a summer of experiences and feelings that belonged to me alone. What happened in front of my friends felt read. What happened to me by myself felt partly dreamed, partly imagined, definitely shifted and warped by own fears and wants. And who knows? Maybe there is more truth in how you feel than in what actually happens.”

— Ann Brashares

144. “Lena was an introvert. She knew she had trouble connecting with people. She always felt like her looks were fake bait, seeming to offer a bridge to people, which she couldn’t easily cross.”

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145. “Sometimes it is a relief to be invisible.”

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146. “They needed to grieve alone was what Tibby’s dad said. Lena wondered if really there was any choice in that. Everyone grieved alone.”

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147. “It was funny to hear her voice aloud. Her thoughts and perceptions usually existed so deep inside her, they rarely made it to the surface without a deliberate effort.”

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148. “Maybe we tried so hard to be like the Sisterhood because it was easy for them and we wanted it to be easy for us. Because they were lucky and we wanted to be lucky too. They had wonder, and we didn’t have any. We looked for the magic, but we didn’t fine it. We waited for the magic, but it didn’t find us.”

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149. “Why does he have to be my boyfriend? Are you inferior if you don’t have a boyfriend? Why does everybody have to be in love with somebody?”

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150. “All my life, everybody has seen me a certain way. What do you see?”

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