Top 500 Ann Patchett Quotes (2026 Update)
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351. “When we do things differently, and very often we do, I remind myself that it is rarely a matter of right and wrong. We are simply two adults who grew up in different houses far away from one another.”

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352. “Everything looks so logical going backwards – Yes, of course, that’s what we did – but going forward it’s something else entirely. Going forward, the lights may as well be off.”

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353. “The world is full of things we’re better off not knowing.”

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354. “In my family, there were happy Thanksgivings and tolerable Easters, but Christmas was a holiday we failed at with real vigor.”

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355. “Cal!′ Beverly called out over the crowd... But Cal looked back at her as if it were some weird coincidence that his name was Cal and this complete stranger had said something to someone who was also named Cal. He turned away. Jeanette stood just beside her, looking at the strap of her little shoulder bad, staring at it. Had anyone had this child tested?”

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356. “Transcendentalist movement?”

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357. “It sounded so nostalgic when he said it, the three of us, as if we had once been a unit instead of just a circumstance.”

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358. “Our parents divorced when I was four. I have many memories from early childhood, and though there are plenty of scenes in which both of my parents are present, I was too young to understand that they were married. They simply existed in the same house to take care of us. The explanation of what marriage was, and that it was over, all came in a single afternoon.”

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359. “You keep someone always for what he or she is worth to you, for what you can trade her for, money or freedom or somebody else you want more. Any person can be a kind of trading chip when you find a way to hold her.”

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360. “They were her kidnappers, sailing her across the lawn and into the backseat of the car, lifting up her feet while pivoting her around in a way that was disturbingly professional, as if stealing old people was what they did.”

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361. “We pretended that what we had lost was the house, not our mother, not our father. We pretended that what we had lost had been taken from us by the person who still lived inside.”

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362. “I decided I was going to make up a novel, and that the novel was going to get me out of the restaurant. The novel was going to be my getaway car.”

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363. “But in her day, Emily had been a beast, a teenage girl so riven with hormones and rage that her two younger sisters decided it would be easier to just be good. Emily had raised sufficient hell for all of them put together.”

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364. “She put no stock in dreams. To her they were just a television left on in another room.”

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365. “In that way the accident was like his mother’s death. It did not recede so much as hover, waxing and waning at different intervals but always there. It happened in the past and it was always happening. It happened every single minute of the day.”

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366. “It was a victory for all the girls that they remembered not to scream.”

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367. “We’re in a cherry orchard.” Emily raises her voice. “Who’s going to cancel us? The dog?”

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368. “How much sadness could be averted by taking the time to notice all the people we have come to ignore? Would we in fact be safer and not more at risk if we asked someone to voice his feelings rather than wait until he looked for other means of making himself heard?”

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369. “We look back through the lens of what we know now, so we’re not seeing it as the people we were, we’re seeing it as the people we are, and that means the past has been radically altered.”

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370. “It was an awful thing to never really have the chance to hold somebody until she was dead.”

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371. “Most days now I have a headache and I worry that some tiny Amazonian animal is eating a hole through my cerebral cortex, and the only thing I want in the world, the only thing that would give meaning or sense to this existence, would be the chance to lay my head in your lap. You would put your hand in my hair, I know you would do that for me. Such is your bravery, such is my good fortune.”

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372. “No matter how many years ago I’d stopped playing Emily, she is still here. All of Grover’s Corners is in me.”

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373. “He said it in languages he knew he need not include, Serbo-Croation and Cantonese, just because there was comfort in speaking and no one tried to stop him. ‘Stand up,’ is not a message that needed translation in the first place. People are sheep about certain things. When some begin to stand, the rest will follow.”

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374. “It’s not more complicated than that,” she said. “That’s all there is: Does he make you better and do you make him better?” Look.”

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375. “Few will have the greatness to bend history itself, but each of us can work to change a small portion of events, and in the total of all those acts will be written the history of this generation. Each time.”

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376. “Maeve was an Icelandic truck driver at heart, no weather stopped her.”

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377. “Somewhere along the line Teddy’s love for his mother had become his love for Father Sullivan, and his love for Father Sullivan became his love for God. The three of them were bound into an inextricable knot: the living and the dead and the life everlasting. Each one led him to the other, and any member of the trinity he loved simply increased his love for all three. The question wasn’t did he ever think of his mother. The question was did he ever think of anything else.”

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378. “Hazel, listen to me. I’m going to tell you something important, you need to be brave.′ I then explained to the dog how I have told myself for so many years that my career fell apart because I wasn’t any good, but now I’m starting to think it all fell apart because I had ceased to be brave. ‘If this were a movie, I’d be drowning in regret now. But I’m telling you, Hazel, it doesn’t feel anything like regret. It feels like I just missed getting hit by a train.”

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379. “We were regular girls who would’ve had no idea how to make adults feel judged based on their lack of theatrical experience.”

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380. “Some children were lucky enough to have their Potter novels banned by witch-hunting school boards and micromanaging ministers. Is there any greater job than a book you’re not allowed to read, a book you could go to hell for reading?”

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381. “The sound he was making was the sound Cal had made right before he died, that same high-pitched whistling that was, if not the opposite of breathing, at least the very end of breathing. “It’s.”

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382. “You’re not a mushroom who popped up after a rain. You have parents.”

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383. “Boys at Columbia went to class and boys in Harlem went to war, a reality not suspended for a friendly Saturday pick-up game.”

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384. “That’s why you can eat cheesecake,′ she said, and sighed. ‘Because you don’t. That’s the way it works.”

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385. “So I’ve come to Chicago to have a drink,” he said. “I’m living in Iowa City for now. Have you ever been to Iowa City?” “I.”

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386. “Back then I didn’t know you weren’t supposed to give your whole heart to a baby that isn’t yours.”

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387. “Things changed again after that, change being the one constant.”

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388. “Conversely, I am now capable of forgetting entire novels that I’ve read, and I’ve been influenced not at all by books I passionately love and would kill to be influenced by. Think about this before you let your child have an iPad.”

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389. “That’s not possible.” Pallace disagreed. “It’s possible, not optimal.”

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390. “Gen, with his genius for languages, was often at a loss for what to say when left with only his own words.”

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391. “She had loved Bert Cousins, and then grown used to him, then was disappointed in him, and then later, after he left her with four small children, she had hated him with the full force of her life. But in the airport when she was twenty-two, her love for him had precluded all thoughts of ever not loving him.”

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392. “I learned the most from sticking with my dream even when all signs told me it was time to let go.”

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393. “She has a point,” Cousins said. He never would have stood back here making sandwiches, though he felt he could use a sandwich, that he wanted one, and so he poured himself another drink.”

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394. “Maeve had a stack of Henry James novels on her bedside table. The Turn of the Screw? Was that what they wanted?”

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395. “I promote the books I love tirelessly, because a book can so easily get lost in the mad shuffle of the world and it needs someone with a loud voice to hold it up and praise it. I am that person.”

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396. “One of us was sleeping and I didn’t know which one of us it was.”

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397. “There was no explanation for how the school, which was the major source of misery in their lives, could have been transformed into the most compelling place on earth simply by virtue of its being Saturday. What a difference a day makes, Albie’s.”

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398. “The general wisdom around here is if you can’t get it at Wal-Mart, you don’t need it.” Sabine looked up at the brown building, which was itself the size of another parking lot. “I’ve never actually been in one of these.” “Go on,” Kitty said. Sabine shook her head. “I’ve just never had any reason to.” Kitty stubbed out her cigarette and replaced her mitten. “Well, you are in for a treat.”

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399. “Forgiveness was at the heart of everything. Because I could not ask, I could not be forgiven.”

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400. “Ripley’s announcement that I wasn’t going to be acting on one foot was my first glimpse into the future.”

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