Top 300 Anna Quindlen Quotes (2024 Update)
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51. “Socialized medicine, some still cry, but it’s long been socialized, with those covered paying for those who are underinsured. American medicine is simply socialized badly, penny wise and pound foolish.”

— Anna Quindlen

52. “You write to suit some sense in yourself and trust that that will resonate with a certain wider readership.”

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53. “My sister is a public school teacher. She makes far far less money than I do, and gets almost no public attention for her work. Yet I believe what she does is infinitely more important and more difficult than what I do.”

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54. “Fashions in bigotry come and go. The right thing lasts.”

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55. “When someone asks you where you come from, the answer is your mother... When your mother’s gone, you’ve lost your past. It’s so much more than love. Even when there’s no love, it’s so much more than anything else in your life. I did love my mother, but I didn’t know how much until she was gone.”

— Anna Quindlen

56. “People always blame the girl; she should have said no. A monosyllable, but conventional wisdom has always been that boys can’t manage it.”

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57. “Look at the view and you’ll never be disappointed.”

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58. “All the things we don’t say, all the words we swallow, and it makes nothing but trouble.”

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59. “And a great misunderstanding is that children think their parents are grown-up, and parents feel obliged to act as if they were.”

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60. “The pursuit of otherness, the sense that we are somehow different than our brothers and sisters, no matter where we find them, allows for all the other great evils: racism, sexism, homophobia, violence against gay people and against women.”

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61. “People who wish to salute the free and independent side of their evolutionary character acquire cats. People who wish to pay homage to their servile and salivating roots own dogs.”

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62. “Ideas are only lethal if you suppress and don’t discuss them. Ignorance is not bliss, it’s stupid. Banning books shows you don’t trust your kids to think and you don’t trust yourself to be able to talk to them.”

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63. “I will never understand people who think that the way to show their righteous opposition to sexual freedom is to write letters full of filthy words.”

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64. “Guilt is what separates humans from animals.”

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65. “The world is full of women blindsided by the unceasing demands of motherhood, still flabbergasted by how a job can be terrific and tortuous.”

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66. “There is only room in the lifeboat of your life for one, and you always choose yourself, and turn your parents into whatever it takes to keep you afloat.”

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67. “Here is the real domino theory – gay man to gay man, bisexual man to straight woman, addict mother to newborn baby, they all fall down and someday it will come to you.”

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68. “All parents should be aware that when they mock or curse gay people, they may be mocking or cursing their own child.”

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69. “Reading is not simply an intellectual pursuit but an emotional and spiritual one. It lights the candle in the hurricane lamp of self; that’s why it survives.”

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70. “Speech is the voice of the heart.”

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71. “It’s so much easier to write a resume than to craft a spirit.”

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72. “The purse is the mirror of the soul.”

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73. “Amid attempts to protect elephants from ivory poachers and dolphins from tuna nets, the rights of children go remarkably unremarked.”

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74. “I only really understand myself, what I’m really thinking and feelings, when I’ve talked it over with my circle of female friends. When days go by without that connection, I feel like a radio playing in an empty room.”

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75. “America is a country that seems forever to be toddler or teenager, at those two stages of human development characterized by conflict between autonomy and security.”

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76. “I can’t think of anything to write about except families. They are a metaphor for every other part of society.”

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77. “Loss as muse. Loss as character. Loss as life.”

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78. “Choose the kids. There will be plenty of time later to choose work.”

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79. “Sometimes I remind myself that I almost skipped the party, that I almost went to a different college, that the whim of a minute could have changed everything and everyone. Our lives, so settled, so specific, are built on happenstance.”

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80. “My home was in a pleasant place outside of Philadelphia. But I really lived, truly lived, somewhere else. I lived within the covers of books.”

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81. “I’m going to live long enough to live in an America that will assume universal health care is a basic right. That will be amusing and terrific.”

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82. “That’s what makes life so hard for women, that instead of thinking that this is the way things are, we always think it’s the way we are.”

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83. “And sometimes you do everything right and something bad just happens. It’s as simple, and as scary, as that.”

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84. “You just can’t tell or calibrate motive or intelligence or sense. So I don’t read anything unless someone tells me that it’s really smart or illuminating. I don’t read any reviews anymore and it’s been really liberating.”

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85. “It is hard to find someone who will give your children a feeling of security while it lasts and not wound them too much when it isfinished, who will treat those children as if they were her own, but knows – and never forgets – that they are yours.”

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86. “There is a lot of talk now about metal detectors and gun control. Both are good things. But they are no more a solution than forks and spoons are a solution to world hunger.”

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87. “Every reader, I suspect, has a book like this somewhere in his or her past, a book that seemed to hold within it, at that moment, all the mysteries of the universe.”

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88. “I am a good friend to my husband. I have tried to make my marriage vows mean what they say. I show up. I listen. I try to laugh.”

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89. “Real friends offer both hard truths and soft landings and realize that it’s sometimes more important to be nice than to be honest.”

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90. “But it’s important, while we are supporting lessons in respecting others, to remember that many of our youngest kids need to learn to respect themselves. You learn your worth from the way you are treated.”

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91. “I conveniently forgot to remember that people only have two hands, or, as another parent once said of having a third child, it’s time for a zone defense instead of man-to-man.”

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92. “You cannot be really first-rate at your work if your work is all you are.”

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93. “I hadn’t written a love story before and I hadn’t written a novel with a happy ending before.”

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94. “What had I expected of the first child? Everything. Rocket scientist. Neurosurgeon. Designated hitter. We talked wisely at cocktail parties about the sad mistake our mothers had made in pinning all their hopes and dreams on us. We were full of it.”

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95. “Decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves.”

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96. “By the time you kill and mount what you catch, it has lost that very thing that made it worth having. I knew this only as a vague sense of disappointment at age 10; not until later did I recognize it as a metaphor for much of life.”

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97. “All of us want to do well. But if we do not do good, too, then doing well will never be enough.”

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98. “I stopped going to mass, and boy, it was painful for me, and it was certainly painful for my family, but I just couldn’t ratify their behavior and their decisions anymore by showing up on Sundays.”

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99. “Familiarity breeds content.”

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100. “When I’m falling, my girlfriends are my soft landing.”

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