Top 200 Anne Tyler Quotes (2024 Update)
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101. “I never think about the actual process of writing. I suppose I have a superstition about examining it too closely.”

— Anne Tyler

102. “I just want to be told a story, and I want to believe I’m living that story, and I don’t give a thought to influences or method or any other writerly concerns.”

— Anne Tyler

103. “I liked to dwell on these shortcomings now. It wasn’t only that I was wondering why they had ever annoyed me. I was hoping they would annoy me still, so that I could stop missing her.”

— Anne Tyler

104. “I can never tell ahead of time which book will give me trouble – some balk every step of the way, others seem to write themselves – but certainly the mechanics of writing, finding the time and the psychic space, are easier now that my children are grown.”

— Anne Tyler

105. “If her time had been her own, she would have worked in the garden. That always soothed her spirits.”

— Anne Tyler

106. “My writing day has grown shorter as I’ve aged, although it seems to produce the same number of pages.”

— Anne Tyler

107. “Smells could bring a person back clearer than pictures even could.”

— Anne Tyler

108. “There was a certain liberation in talking to a man who didn’t have a full grasp of English. She could tell him anything and half of it would fly right past him, especially if the words came tumbling out fast enough.”

— Anne Tyler

109. “Isn’t a memorial service meant to comfort the living?”

— Anne Tyler

110. “The very thing that attracts you to someone can end up putting you off.”

— Anne Tyler

111. “Bravest thing about people is how they go on loving mortal beings after finding out there’s such a thing as dying.”

— Anne Tyler

112. “In real life I avoid all parties altogether, but on paper I can mingle with the best of them.”

— Anne Tyler

113. “Houses need humans,” Red said. “You all should know that. Oh, sure, humans cause wear and tear – scuffed floors and stopped-up toilets and such – but that’s nothing compared to what happens when a house is left on its own. It’s like the heart goes out of it. It sags, it slumps, it starts to lean toward the ground.”

— Anne Tyler

114. “She wished she had had a mother. Well, she had had a mother, but she wished she’d had one who had taught her how to get along in the world better.”

— Anne Tyler

115. “Farmers are patient men. They got to be. Got to see those seeds come up week by week, fraction by fraction, and sweat it out for some days not knowing yet is it weeds or vegetables...”

— Anne Tyler

116. “Peculiar, isn’t it?” he said. “First you’re scolding your children and then all at once they’re so smart they’re scolding you.”

— Anne Tyler

117. “Their growing up amounted, therefore, to a gradual dimming of the light at her bedroom door, as if they took some radiance with them as they moved away from her. She should have planned for it better, she sometimes thought. She should have made a few friends or joined a club. But she wasn’t the type. It wouldn’t have consoled her.”

— Anne Tyler

118. “I really believe that most people who seem scary are just sad.”

— Anne Tyler

119. “And all at once I had no one to trade looks with.”

— Anne Tyler

120. “She collected and polished resentments as if it were some kind of hobby.”

— Anne Tyler

121. “He was impressed that someone so old still wanted so fiercely to live.”

— Anne Tyler

122. “Sooner or later, even the sharpest pain became flattened.”

— Anne Tyler

123. “Sometimes Willa felt she’d spent half her life apologizing for some man’s behavior. More than half her life, actually. First Derek and then Peter, forever charging ahead while Willa trailed behind picking up the pieces and excusing and explaining.”

— Anne Tyler

124. “Justine’s childhood was dark and velvety and it smelled of dust.”

— Anne Tyler

125. “I didn’t really choose to write; I more or less fell into it.”

— Anne Tyler

126. “But why you would want to catch flies, hah? Answer me that, vinegar girl.”

— Anne Tyler

127. “It was beginning to get a bit cooler out, thank heaven. One thing she was never going to adjust to was how you needed constant air conditioning here. People were dependent upon it in the same way that space travelers were dependent upon their oxygen tanks. It seemed possible that if the electricity went off, they could actually die. When Willa thought about that too long, it made her feel kind of panicky.”

— Anne Tyler

128. “Of course it seemed strange without Peter, but at least she could stay out as long as she liked without worrying she was neglecting him.”

— Anne Tyler

129. “It wasn’t what you said”, he told her.“It was how I felt when you said it”.”

— Anne Tyler

130. “The real adventure, he thought, is the flow of time; it’s as much adventure as anyone could wish.”

— Anne Tyler

131. “My stories are never quite good enough.”

— Anne Tyler

132. “People like Eunice just never had quite figured out how to get along in the world. They might be perfectly intelligent, but they were subject to speckles and flushes; their purses resembled wastepaper baskets; they stepped on their own skirts.”

— Anne Tyler

133. “Some people are aware of everything that is going on everywhere at every moment in their lives.”

— Anne Tyler

134. “During all the months when she had been absent, there were so many things I have saved up to tell her, so many bits of news about the house and the neighborhood and friends and work and family, but now they seemed inconsequential. Puny. Move far enough away from an event ans it sort of levels out, so to speak – settles into the general landscape.”

— Anne Tyler

135. “Point of view is not something I consciously decide. Almost always, when I come up with a plot I find that the point of view has automatically arrived with it, part and parcel of the story.”

— Anne Tyler

136. “What’s the point of living if you don’t try to do things better?”

— Anne Tyler

137. “You know how you just have to touch your child, sometimes? How you drink him in with your eyes and you could stare at him for hours and you marvel at how dear and impossibly perfect he is?”

— Anne Tyler

138. “She started to speak, but then stopped. Anything she could think of to say seemed a mistake. In fact, speech in general seemed a mistake. It struck her all at once that dealing with other human beings was an awful lot of work. from Back When We Were Grownups.”

— Anne Tyler

139. “The disappointments seemed to escape the family’s notice, though. That was another of their quirks: they had a talent for pretending that everything was fine. Or maybe it wasn’t a quirk at all. Maybe it was just further proof that the Whitshanks were not remarkable in any way whatsoever.”

— Anne Tyler

140. “Sometimes he fantasised that at the end of his life, he would be shown a home movie of all the roads he had not taken, and where they would have led.”

— Anne Tyler

141. “People who hadn’t suffered a loss yet struck me as not quite grown up.”

— Anne Tyler

142. “I’m too shy for personal appearances, and I’ve found out that anytime I talk about my writing, I can’t do any writing for many weeks afterward.”

— Anne Tyler

143. “Why Americans always begin inch by inch with what they say?”

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144. “On weekends, she had once told us, she liked to go to Stebbins hardware and ask the gray-haired men who clerked there how to fix a sagging door, or what to do about a curling wallpaper seam. She really did need their advice, she said; but also, she found it a comfort. It took her back to the time when her father was alive.”

— Anne Tyler

145. “Abby had a little trick that she used any time Red acted like a cranky old codger. She reminded herself of the day she had fallen in love with him.”

— Anne Tyler

146. “I suspect that marriage is like parenthood: every last one of us is an amateur at it...”

— Anne Tyler

147. “I spend about a year between novels.”

— Anne Tyler

148. “It seemed jobs kept disappointing him, as did business partners and girlfriends and entire geographical regions.”

— Anne Tyler

149. “Liam really enjoyed a good movie. He found it restful to watch people’s conversations without being expected to join in. But he always felt sort of lonesome if he didn’t have someone next to him to nudge in the ribs at the good parts.”

— Anne Tyler

150. “She loved them so much that she felt a kind of hollowness on the inner surface of her arms whenever she looked at them – an ache of longing to pull them close and hold them tight against her. The three little boys were such a clumped-together tangle, always referred to as a single unit, but Abby knew how different each was from the next.”

— Anne Tyler