Top 300 Doris Lessing Quotes (2024 Update)
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101. “Envy has always hidden behind moral indignation.”

— Doris Lessing

102. “In the writing process, the more the story cooks, the better. The brain works for you even when you are at rest. I find dreams particularly useful. I myself think a great deal before I go to sleep and the details sometimes unfold in the dream.”

— Doris Lessing

103. “Oh cat, I’d say, or pray: be-ootiful cat! Delicious cat! Exquisite cat! Satiny cat! Cat like a soft owl, cat with paws like moths, jewelled cat, miraculous cat! Cat, cat, cat, cat.”

— Doris Lessing

104. “But children can’t be a center of life and a reason for being. They can be a thousand things that are delightful, interesting, satisfying, but they can’t be a well-spring to live from. Or they shouldn’t be.”

— Doris Lessing

105. “I find myself increasingly shocked at the unthinking and automatic rubbishing of men which is now so part of our culture that it is hardly even noticed.”

— Doris Lessing

106. “Anna was saying to herself: why do I always have this awful need to make other people see things as I do? It’s childish, why should they? What it amounts to is that I’m scared of being alone in what I feel.”

— Doris Lessing

107. “The older I get the more secrets I have, never to be revealed and this, I know, is a common condition of people my age. and why all this emphasis on kissing and telling? Kisses are the least of it.”

— Doris Lessing

108. “Intelligence forbids tears.”

— Doris Lessing

109. “The difficulty of writing about sex, for women, is that sex is best when not thought about, not analysed.”

— Doris Lessing

110. “I am sure everyone has had the experience of reading a book and finding it vibrating with aliveness, with colour and immediacy. And then, perhaps some weeks later, reading it again and finding it flat and empty. Well, the book hasn’t changed: you have.”

— Doris Lessing

111. “There is no such thing as a frigid woman, there are only incompetent men.”

— Doris Lessing

112. “Political correctness is the natural continuum from the party line. What we are seeing once again is a self-appointed group of vigilantes imposing their views on others. It is a heritage of communism, but they don’t seem to see this.”

— Doris Lessing

113. “This is a catastrophic universe, always; and subject to hidden reversals, upheavals, changes, cataclysms, with joy never anything but the song of substance under pressure forced into new forms and shapes.”

— Doris Lessing

114. “Women often get dropped from memory, and then history.”

— Doris Lessing

115. “The critics slap labels on you and then expect you to talk inside their terms.”

— Doris Lessing

116. “Space or science fiction has become a dialect for our time.”

— Doris Lessing

117. “What is terrible is that after every one of the phases of my life is finished, I am left with no more than some banal commonplace that everyone knows.”

— Doris Lessing

118. “Better Counsel comes overnight.”

— Doris Lessing

119. “What I did have, which others perhaps didn’t, was a capacity for sticking at it, which really is the point, not the talent at all. You have to stick at it.”

— Doris Lessing

120. “It is terrible to destroy a person’s picture of himself in the interests of truth or some other abstraction.”

— Doris Lessing

121. “I treasure solitude. One doesn’t have to have human contact.”

— Doris Lessing

122. “Perhaps it is not such a bad marriage after all? There are innumerable marriages where two people, both twisted and wrong in their depths, are well matched, making each other miserable in the way they need, in the way the pattern of their life demands.”

— Doris Lessing

123. “I spend a good deal of time wondering how we will seem to the people who come after us. This is not an idle interest, but a deliberate attempt to strengthen the power of that “other eye,” which we can use to judge ourselves.”

— Doris Lessing

124. “Parents should leave books lying around marked ‘forbidden’ if they want their children to read.”

— Doris Lessing

125. “What I really can’t stand about the feminist revolution is that it produced some of the smuggest, most unselfcritical people the world has ever seen. They are horrible.”

— Doris Lessing

126. “A woman without a man cannot meet a man, any man, of any age, without thinking, even if it’s for a half-second, ‘Perhaps this is THE man.”

— Doris Lessing

127. “This is because the nature of this place is a strong emotion – “nostalgia” is their word for it – which means a longing for what has never been, or at least not in the form and shape imagined.”

— Doris Lessing

128. “What really fascinates me is this need that is so strong now that if you read a work of the imagination you instantly have to say, ‘Oh, what this really is is so-and-so,’ reducing it to a simple formula.”

— Doris Lessing

129. “The cleverest trick of the Devil is that nobody believes in him. It. Her. Well, we have been very stupid.”

— Doris Lessing

130. “We use our parents like recurring dreams, to be entered into when needed.”

— Doris Lessing

131. “We are all creatures of the stars and their forces, they make us, we make them, we are part of a dance from which we by no means and not ever may consider ourselves separate.”

— Doris Lessing

132. “Every spendthrift passion has its attendant courtiers.”

— Doris Lessing

133. “Nicknames are potent ways of cutting people down to size.”

— Doris Lessing

134. “Man who is he? Too bad, to be the work of God: Too good for the work of chance!”

— Doris Lessing

135. “All things come alike to all; there is one event to the righteous, and to the wicked; to the good and to the clean, and to the unclean; to him that sacrificeth, and to him that sacrificeth not.”

— Doris Lessing

136. “If one person has loved another truly and wholly, then it is more than love that collapses when one side of the indissoluble partnership turns away with a tearful goodbye.”

— Doris Lessing

137. “For the last third of life there remains only work. It alone is always stimulating, rejuvenating, exciting and satisfying.”

— Doris Lessing

138. “I don’t think San Francisco needs defending. I never meet anyone who doesn’t love the place, Americans or others.”

— Doris Lessing

139. “Charity has always been a expression of the guilty consciences of a ruling class.”

— Doris Lessing

140. “I do not think writers ought ever to sit down and think they must write about some cause, or theme, or something. If they write about their own experiences, something true is going to emerge.”

— Doris Lessing

141. “Literature is analysis after the event.”

— Doris Lessing

142. “Curse not the king, no not in thy thought; and curse not the rich in thy bedchamber, for a bird of the air shall carry the voice, and that which hath wings shall tell the matter.”

— Doris Lessing

143. “If a fish is the movement of water embodied, given shape, then cat is a diagram and pattern of subtle air.”

— Doris Lessing

144. “Anna, there’s something very arrogant about insisting on the right to be right.”

— Doris Lessing

145. “We are all of us, to some degree or another, brainwashed by the society we live in. We are able to see this when we travel to another country, and are able to catch a glimpse of our own country with foreign eyes... the best we can hope for is that a kindly friend from another culture will enable us to look at our culture with dispassionate eyes.”

— Doris Lessing

146. “For many thousands of years people had looked at expensive heads of hair and thought of how much food and warmth they represented, so obviously it was a thought of no use at all, so why bother to have it? But thoughts of this sort did go ticking on, useless or not.”

— Doris Lessing

147. “This is an inevitable and easily recognizable stage in every revolutionary movement: reformers must expect to be disowned by those who are only too happy to enjoy what has been won for them.”

— Doris Lessing

148. “Men are restless, adventurous. Women are conservative – despite what current ideology says.”

— Doris Lessing

149. “Poor economies breed tyrannies.”

— Doris Lessing

150. “Martha Quest, who thought of herself as so adventurous, so free and unbounded – the fact was, even the idea of picking up a telephone and making herself known to a new person troubled her: she made excuses, she could not do it.”

— Doris Lessing