Top 250 Katherine Center Quotes (2026 Update)
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151. “I would never tell you that the life you wanted couldn’t have been exactly as great as you planned. But you have to live the life you have. You have to find inspiration in the struggle, and pull joy out of the hardship.”

— Katherine Center

152. “You can’t make people love you. But you can give the love you long for out to the world. You can be the love you wish you had. That’s the way to be okay. Because giving love to other people is a way of giving it to yourself.”

— Katherine Center

153. “And the idea that anything could just disappear at any moment is something you suddenly understand in a whole new way.”

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154. “The things we remember are what we hold on to. And what we hold on to becomes the story of our lives.”

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155. “She knew that joy and sorrow walked side by side. She knew that being alive meant risking one for the other. And she also knew, as I was starting to understand in a whole new way, that it was always better to dance than to refuse.”

— Katherine Center

156. “The point is to be happy anyway. As often as you can.”

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157. “If we were in England, we could call him a shag bandit.”

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158. “Maybe love isn’t a judgment you render – but a chance you take. Maybe it’s something you choose to do over and over. For yourself and everyone else.”

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159. “This is what it means to be fully alive. To feel it all – the joy and the sorrow, the hope and the fear. This is what life demands of us. You just have to stay, and try, and let life break your heart.”

— Katherine Center

160. “But now I saw the emotional landscape quite differently – more like the pointillism of a Seurat painting: each color made up of many other colors. Look closely, and it’s dots. Stand back, and it’s an afternoon on the lake – all the colors relying on each other for texture and meaning.”

— Katherine Center

161. “Love makes you muddled. Love clouds your judgment. Love derails you with longing.”

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162. “But I find the antidote to that is just keeping a sense of humor. And staying humble. And laughing a lot. And doubling down on smiling. We’re all just muddling through, after all. We’re all just doing the best we can. We’re all struggling with our struggles. Nobody has the answers. And everybody, deep down, is a little bit lost.”

— Katherine Center

163. “But I guess that’s the great thing about life – it gives you chance after chance to rethink it all. Who you want to be. How you want to live. What really matters.”

— Katherine Center

164. “I’d saved her, but she’d saved me right back.”

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165. “People loving you for your best qualities is not the same as people loving you despite your worst.”

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166. “There’s so much death in that world, but laughter is life. You need it.”

— Katherine Center

167. “The more good things you look for, the more you find.”

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168. “The people we love help teach us who we are. The best versions of who we are, if we’re lucky.”

— Katherine Center

169. “The answer wasn’t to never love anyone. It was to love like crazy whenever you could.”

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170. “They will ignore you. They will exclude you. They will resent you. Being nice won’t help. Working hard won’t matter. Just by your very presence there, you are attacking them, trying to steal something that’s rightfully theirs, trying to infiltrate and dismantle their brotherhood.”

— Katherine Center

171. “We could have let it all go long before now. We could have tried less hard. We could have given up in the face of all our misunderstandings. But we didn’t. It takes a certain kind of courage to be brave in love. A courage you can only get better at through practice.”

— Katherine Center

172. “Things happen. Lives get broken. Some people never can put themselves back together.”

— Katherine Center

173. “The people we love help teach us who we are.”

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174. “And loving other people really does turn out, in the end, to be a genuine way of loving yourself.”

— Katherine Center

175. “So I decided something right then: Every chance you take is a choice. A choice to decide who you are.”

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176. “All the hardships and insults and disappointments in life didn’t make this one blissful moment less important. They made it more. They made it matter. The very fact that it couldn’t last was that reason to hold on to it – however, we could.”

— Katherine Center

177. “But she was gone before I even fully realized that losing her was possible.”

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178. “All I knew was that watching your children survive their childhoods was so much worse than surviving your own.”

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179. “And I guess there really is something profoundly healing about letting somebody love you.”

— Katherine Center

180. “People who wanted to wrestle with complicated emotions became therapists, or poets. People who wanted to keep things simple became firefighters.”

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181. “I know why women don’t speak out. It’s hard enough just to survive.”

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182. “I knew too much about life to pretend that it wasn’t half tragedy. We lose the people we love. We disappoint each other. We misunderstand. We get lost and lonely and angry. But right now, in this moment, we were okay.”

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183. “Needing to find a reason to live had forced me to build a life worth living. I would never say the accident was a good thing. I would never claim that everything happens for a reason. Like all tragedies, it was senseless. But the one thing I knew for sure: The greater our capacity for sorrow becomes, the greater our capacity for joy.”

— Katherine Center

184. “I would never tell you that the life you wanted couldn’t have been exactly as great as you planned. But you have to live the life you have. You have to find inspiration in the struggle, and pull joy out of the hardship. That’s what we try to do – counterbalance the suffering with laughter, fuzzy blankets, hugs, sing-alongs, sunny-day picnics, chocolate chip cookies, and wildflowers. Because that’s all we can do: carry the sorrow when we have to, and absolutely savor the joy when we can.”

— Katherine Center

185. “I didn’t like her, but I loved her. And he’d underestimated me, as well. Because it’s so much harder to love someone who’s difficult than to love someone who’s easy.”

— Katherine Center

186. “We see what we’re looking for.”

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187. “It takes a certain kind of courage to be brave in love. A courage you can only get better at through practice.”

— Katherine Center

188. “Is everything perfect? Hell, no. Everything’s a mess. A crazy, galloping, heartbreaking mess. You can’t fix everything. Not even close. But you can look for reasons to be grateful. More than that, you can work to create them.”

— Katherine Center

189. “Maybe staying so busy was a lifeline out of my own grief. But I willingly made myself a supporting character in my own story.”

— Katherine Center

190. “This love story really created a fantastic feeling of anticipation.”

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191. “Love stories had lifted me up, delighted me, and educated me on the power of human kindness for years. I knew a lot about love. A lot more, I bet, than all the people who took it for granted.”

— Katherine Center

192. “But you can decide to do something joyful.”

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193. “Romance novels, rom-coms, nontragic love stories – they all run on a blissful sense that we’re moving toward something better. Percentage-wise, the majority of clues writers drop in romance novels don’t give you things to dread. They give you things to look forward to.”

— Katherine Center

194. “I think,” he said, surprisingly lucid for a moment, “that you’re my favorite person I’ve ever met.”

— Katherine Center

195. “I think just because you can’t keep something doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth it. Nothing lasts forever. What matters is what we take with us.”

— Katherine Center

196. “We’re all just doing the best we can. We’re all struggling with our struggles. Nobody has the answers. And everybody, deep down, is a little bit lost.”

— Katherine Center

197. “Charlie turned out to be a blue-ink person, while I was exclusively black. FYI for nonwriters: blue versus black ink is an essential identity issue. Much like Coke versus Pepsi, or the Beatles versus the Stones, or college-ruled notebooks versus regular. You can be one kind of person or the other, but not both.”

— Katherine Center

198. “Then something became very clear to me: As terrible as Parker made my life, she made her own even worse. Nothing she could do to me was as soul-crushing as what she did to herself. In turning away from kindness, she’d chosen a life of torment.”

— Katherine Center

199. “She has really let herself go. Maybe that was right. And maybe that was a good thing.”

— Katherine Center

200. “Usually, when you see people for the last time, you don’t know it’s the last time.”

— Katherine Center