Top 180 Lauren DeStefano Quotes (2024 Update)
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101. “Bravery is still the thing that sets change in motion” -Morgan.”

— Lauren DeStefano

102. “My father warned me that you’re an interloper. He told me I should make you leave, since we’re no longer married and you’re not my concern,” he says. The thought gives me a chill. Yes, I’m sure Vaughn would love for his son to abandon me, so that Vaughn can swoop in and reclaim me the second I’m alone. But Linden adds, “I told him that wouldn’t be a good idea either.”

— Lauren DeStefano

103. “Everyone should remember being born. It doesn’t seem fair that we only remember dying.”

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104. “Time was our very first king. We all live our lives to the aggressive ticking of the clock. We don’t question that our lives are a grid of seconds; even our pulses oblige. No succeeding king can hope to hold this kind of power.”

— Lauren DeStefano

105. “No matter how lonely it makes me, and no matter how wide and horrific the loneliness, at least I remember who I am.”

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106. “Words like ‘unputdownable’ and ‘irresistible’ are simply not enough for Cat Winters’s In the Shadow of Blackbirds. Days after finishing this story, it remains the first thought I have in the morning, and the thing that haunts me until I sleep.”

— Lauren DeStefano

107. “I run into fires, not from them.”

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108. “Things will get worse before they get better. A little more agony before the fever will break.”

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109. “We accept gods that don’t speak to us. We accept gods that would place us in a world filled with injustices and do nothing as we struggle. It’s easier than accepting that there’s nothing out there at all, and that, in our darkest moments, we are truly alone.”

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110. “It’s the silence I imagine in the rest of the world, the silence of an endless ocean and uninhabitable island, a silence that can be seen from space.”

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111. “I don’t know how it happens. We move our faces at the same time, and then our lips are touching. I’ve lost my worries. Traded them in for the sun and the taste of his tongue and the thought that in sixty years we’ll be ashes – we’ll be tossed into the air and after a moment of weightlessness we’ll be everywhere and nowhere. But for now there’s quick breathing and the feeling like he has my heart in his palm as it beats outside my chest.”

— Lauren DeStefano

112. “My worries always lead to dungeons; I can’t imagine a worse thing than to be imprisoned for the rest of one’s life, especially with so few years to enjoy what little there is.”

— Lauren DeStefano

113. “She knew that the dead hid pieces of themselves in the world. They buried organs in the living. They stuffed memories into trees and clouds and other innocuous things.”

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114. “On tiptoes the redhead wouldn’t even reach my shoulders; she is clearly too young to be a bride. And the willowy girl is too forlorn. And I am too unwilling. Yet here we are.”

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115. “When we were first married, I thought he must have been the most heartless, hateful man I’d ever known, but he was just as much a prisonor as I was. Where Vaughn imprisoned me with walls, he imprisoned his son with ignorance.”

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116. “Just being alive feels so arduous that all I want to do is climb under the covers and sleep.”

— Lauren DeStefano

117. “PEOPLE USED to be connected to one another all the time. That’s what my parents told me. Everyone had phones and computers. Everyone called and kept in touch. They used to be everything, these things that are barely remembered now. These things that mean nothing to me.”

— Lauren DeStefano

118. “Childhood is a long, long road, from which that dark whispering forest of death seems an impossible destination.”

— Lauren DeStefano

119. “There’s a sort of dead passion in him. A spark that, had he more years to live, would be a wildfire.”

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120. “Wanting to be happy is not stupid.”

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121. “He says one word, nodding into the daylight. “Look.” It’s an astounding word. It’s a gift.”

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122. “I think humans have always been desperate. I think it has always been about doing something awful if it might help, when the only other option is death. Maybe that’s what being a parent is supposed to feel like.”

— Lauren DeStefano

123. “Maybe what frightens us about the edge isn’t our fear of morality, but the thoughts it leads us to have.”

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124. “But I know all the things you’re too sweet to know.”

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125. “You look like you’ve never done a thing wrong in your life, and people like that lack common sense” -Judas.”

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126. “I want to have my questions. I want to have more thoughts than my mind can hold.”

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127. “It is the face of a girl who has seen the world, who realizes that it hates her, and who hates it in return.”

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128. “The thing about hope is that it doesn’t go away even when it serves no purpose.”

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129. “It wasn’t enough that they stole our future; they had to steal our past.”

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130. “The months fall to shards at my feet.”

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131. “I used to have only one name; it used to mean something.”

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132. “Life is much different from the days when there were lilies in my mother’s garden, and all my secrets fit into a paper cup.”

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133. “She was a drawing that hadn’t been colored.”

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134. “To lose one’s mother was to lose the beginning of one’s life story.”

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135. “Birdie’s presence was gentle and quiet, but her absence is violent.”

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136. “Silence was not the absence of presence – it was its own presence.”

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137. “She’s a commodity in a sea of broken girls.”

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138. “You can’t just stand there if you want something to fly. You have to run” -Cecily.”

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139. “We figure out what death means when we’re born, practically, and we live our whole lives in some kind of weird denial about it.”

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140. “We are stronger than we’ve credited ourselves to be. We have been the victims and the witnesses. We have said a lifetime of good-byes.”

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141. “I was born into a world that was already dying; I belong to it.”

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142. “I don’t know if it was love or an illusion. I don’t know if there’s ever a way to be certain.”

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143. “It’s your way,′ he says. ‘When you were little, you were like a question mark with eyes.”

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144. “My sisters were in that van.”

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145. “When I am writing anything in general, I just want to tell the story that exists in my head; I don’t try to write a parable or make a point.”

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146. “Felix had left his heart buried in the ground years ago, but he felt it crack apart.”

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147. “Violence is the only way to achieve freedom, it seems. I wouldn’t have thought so before all of this. My escape plan was a more peaceful one, but I know now that it wouldn’t have been successful.”

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148. “This was the way it had always been between them. The world tried to destroy them, but they kept each other alive.”

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149. “You can’t be afraid. You can be sad if you like. You can be angry. But it’s the fear that’ll freeze you in place.”

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150. “It taught that there are three versions of things: the one I see in my mind, and the one that carries onto the paper, and then what it ultimately becomes.”

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