Top 100 Mary H.K. Choi Quotes (2026 Update)
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51. “She wondered if the rest of early adulthood would be like this – avoiding roommates, getting ripped off for bad fusion food, and the peculiar loneliness of being smothered by people she didn’t want to spend time with.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

52. “What’s the point? The planet is on fire and everything is random.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

53. “It hurt Penny’s heart how much she loved her. How scared she’d been when Michael called. Loving someone was traumatizing. You never knew what would happen to them out there in the world. Everything precious was also vulnerable.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

54. “I reline my eyes, fix my lipstick, and put away my reflection. I allow a smile to tease at my lips, summoning someone beguiling. I imagine myself in a movie. It usually helps. I glance around for any attractive people. Male, female, old, it doesn’t matter. Someone to see myself through.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

55. “You know, the trick to taking care of your sister is letting her think she’s taking care of you.” She scoops my hand in hers. “I suspect you can ask your father the best way to do that since he does it so well with me.” This makes me laugh.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

56. “Families are a trip,” says Lee. “You think you know them so well that you stay wrong about each other.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

57. “Unlike cooking, photography kept you on your toes. It was chaotic and human – utterly unpredictable. to capture an unposed face you had to wait for it. It was spear fishing. you had to move between the competing rhythms of the world and strike.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

58. “The thought of doing all of this over makes my soul leave my body. I can’t imagine how tiring it’s going to be. But I also love the idea of June’s name looking after both of us.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

59. “I think I get to miss you. I feel like I’ve earned it.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

60. “And for all the people waiting for permission to level up enough before they start working on something big and scary – just go in. Don’t be like me.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

61. “People like capable, positive people. It has nothing to do with reality.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

62. “At least now she had time to write. All the time. In the world. Alone. Forever.”

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63. “There was no way Penny would go to House and let Sam see her. That would ruin everything. Sam would take one look at her and be like, “Yikes, never mind.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

64. “I’m no longer angry. In fact, I’m no longer much of anything.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

65. “Penny would stop trying. Instead she’d spend time preparing for her future, living in books until the exciting part of her life would begin. Things would matter then. In fact, everything would be different.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

66. “It wasn’t a romance; it was too perfect for that. With texts there were only the words and none of the awkwardness. They could get to know each other completely and get comfortable before they had to do anything unnecessarily overwhelming like look at each other’s eyeballs with their eyeballs.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

67. “Marriages are the original tiny cult.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

68. “Hell really was other people.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

69. “I want a world where everything lights up because I’m in it.”

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70. “He couldn’t believe Jude’s mute, macabre roommate had saved his life. He wondered if he’d have to get her a small taxidermied spider or something for her efforts.”

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71. “Penny thought of this Korean saying for when you really, really liked something. You’d say it ‘fit your heart exactly.’ Sam fit her heart exactly.”

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72. “I’m thrilled at the devastation. Destroying beautiful things so carelessly and so fast.”

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73. “She wished she could explore his body and inspect him. Learn him and memorize him. That way she’d know what to miss when he was gone. Sam was heartbreakingly, hauntingly beautiful. It made her heart hurt. This couldn’t end well.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

74. “Instead she’d spend time preparing for her future, living in books until until the exciting part of her life would begin.”

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75. “When Penny left a banana on her desk as an offering, Jude rejected it. She refused it by putting it on Penny’s work chair, so when Penny went to write, she sat on it. As tiny passive-aggressive revenges went, it was adorable, and it killed Penny that they couldn’t laugh about it.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

76. “People were odd. Sam loved and loathed that about them. Fiction was fine, but real life was the true freak show.”

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77. “What you’re calling a hobby could change his life. And if it doesn’t, that has to be okay. You have to forgive him. You’ve got to let people mess up and you’ve still got to help them. You have to talk to them and support them while they make decisions, even if they’re the wrong ones. That’s how people learn, mom. Umma-ni-kah.” Because you’re the mom.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

78. “When I recognize people, it lets me hope that maybe they recognize me, too.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

79. “Humans need to share their darkest parts. Unburdening makes you closer to everyone.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

80. “You know, the trick to taking care of your sister is letting her think she’s taking care of you.”

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81. “I want out of this store, out of this moment, out of my skin. I need an elastic band to snap around my wrist. I rub my eyes until I see stars. I rub them again as if I can scrape the horrible, weak-willed pipe dreams from my brain.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

82. “Trying to get better at the thing you want to be the best at is humiliating.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

83. “She laughed. “Are you in love with Penny?” “How is that a conclusion? That’s a question.” Jude rolled her eyes. “She says she’s in love with you.” “She did not.” “Fine, she didn’t say those exact words, but it’s the only explanation. She’s in love with you.” “Stop,” he said. “You know she’s inscrutable. You ever notice how she seems furious when she’s super excited?” Jude laughed. “Or when she’s actually furious and starts bawling? That’s a classic,” she responded.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

84. “In loving my people, I am a late bloomer and feel horribly prodigal for it.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

85. “Certain parts of San Francisco are what happens when white people have no natural predator.”

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86. “Some people’s coping mechanisms were all about festering and secrecy and ruminating until you grew yourself a nice little tumor in your heart with a side of panic attack. Different strokes.”

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87. “But sometimes it’s so incidental that these people are the parents. Beyond the biology of it. It’s not as if they had to pass a test or unlock achievements to be the ones making the decisions. Sometimes they’re actually stupid.”

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88. “Dude. Every mom is the most annoying human in the universe, but most of them, besides the super-abusive genuinely bad ones, are in your corner.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

89. “Sam sighed. Maybe if he called she’d tell him where she’d buried his balls and his heart.”

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90. “You can be with the same person for a long time and have it be fine and meet someone else who instantly makes you see that it’s broken.”

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91. “Create diverse characters because you can. Especially ones that aren’t easy to write. A character that scares you is worth exploring. Yet if you breathe life into a character and it comes to you too easily – say you’re writing from the viewpoint of a black man in America and you’re not one? Think hard about where your inspiration is coming from.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

92. “People aren’t abandoning you just because they go.”

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93. “I didn’t know that these flashes of information were even thoughts. Until I did. And that they belonged to me. It was my voice talking to my self except I didn’t have to make a sound.”

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94. “It was inconceivable for Penny that his eyes served any function other than to be admired.”

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95. “They both likes pizza way more that their person.”

— Mary H.K. Choi

96. “It’s the people who will become a home for you.”

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97. “Penny believed with her whole heart that there were moments – crucial instances – that defined who someone was going to be. There were clues or signs, and you didn’t want to miss them.”

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98. “Plenty of people craved attention. It had to be the right person, someone who naturally commanded it. Sam suspected most outwardly noisy people were boring in the inside. No more than the textbook swirl of insecurities and narcissism.”

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99. “It’s so lonely when no one worries about you.”

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100. “There was no way she’d allow him to see her do 97 percent of her normal activities. She was a monster. A monster who was flat as a board with no ass. In fact, the only thing she had going on in the curves department was an enormous cystic pimple on her chin that hurt when she touched it. Yeah, no.”

— Mary H.K. Choi