Top 120 Mhairi McFarlane Quotes (2024 Update)
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51. “The way I see it,’ Edie said, holding both their hands, as they looked at the water rushing over the rocks, ’you get people who are important to you, for as long as you get them. You never know how long it will be. You have to accept it and make use of the time you have.”

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52. “I saw the love of my life about to walk out and I thought complete honesty would mean losing you forever. It’s taken me until now to see that complete honesty was my only hope.”

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53. “Don’t expect someone who doesn’t know who they are to care who you are.”

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54. “And I was scared my expectations were never going to be met. But I’ve learned it’s better to have unrealistic expectations than none at all.”

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55. “Don’t be so bloody British,’ he said. ‘This country. We’d rather quietly kill ourselves over something than be any bother.”

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56. “Sometimes the truth is messy and difficult but it isn’t always best left. Sometimes it saves you.”

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57. “Men like fun much more than they like clever.”

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58. “That’s the whole story of how I was so stupid as to risk everything that mattered to me, on something so meaningless.”

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59. “I’d gone from not noticing Lucas ever to being consumed by noticing him constantly. I developed the sensory awareness of an apex predator: at any time I could tell you where Lucas was in the common room, without you ever seeing my eyes flicker toward him.”

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60. “One night with you and he’s turned into a love-letter writer. You must have an incredible pelvic floor.”

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61. “There’s shock and then there’s grief, and there’s the simple tiring unending chore of life afterward. These are all different things, I’ve learned.”

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62. “When people did monumentally awful things to you, it seemed they didn’t even have the courtesy of being original, of inflicting some unique war wound, a lightning bolt-shaped scar.”

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63. “She’d guessed it was partly borne of a private education. Now she pictured him on yachts, as well as attending Hogwarts.”

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64. “I don’t expect to be happy ever after. Just happier.”

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65. “She loved him. They’d long ago passed the point where her love was negotiable; it wasn’t contingent on him not being an arsehole. He was her arsehole.”

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66. “I wondered, Georgina, if you could imagine being in love with me again, the way I’m in love with you. And that given you’re the best thing to ever happen to me, if you could give me the chance to try to be the best thing that ever happened to you.”

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67. “It’s like my whole life was about traveling back to you.”

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68. “Courage calls to courage everywhere.”

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69. “The way he undermines you gradually: it’s so hard to explain until you’ve been through it. He waits until you’re in love and completely vulnerable and then it starts, and you have no defences.”

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70. “Laurie,” he said quietly. Not a question, or an opening to saying anything else. A full sentence in itself.”

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71. “You didn’t want me enough, when choosing me became harder.”

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72. “Claiming to care about someone or something, Laurie saw, could be highly manipulative. It was a way of ascribing yourself rights.”

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73. “Laurie briefly debated saying: You know that this is really rude, right? I mean, you know you can’t stick “no offense” on the end like it takes the curse off? And then made the usual British calculations about the ten seconds of triumph not being worth the hours of embarrassment and hostility afterward.”

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74. “The air was thick with a Terrible Unsaid.”

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75. “You know, now our generation doesn’t have to get married – and thank goodness for that – it’s easy to think it’s a superfluous nonsense, and sometimes weddings are. But it’s also easy to forget how absolutely fantastic they can be.”

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76. “Words saved me. My words.”

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77. “Imagine. Imagine being a man, and thinking your approval has such value, that this sort of oily off-the-cuff compliment can stitch a wound this big.”

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78. “If you’re a mistake you’re the greatest one ever made. I’m really proud to know you.”

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79. “It was everything I could ever want, to be honest. You are everything I could ever want.”

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80. “Very few people voluntarily make things worse for themselves, if they have a choice. You know, there’s the way we all like to think we behave, and then there’s the way we actually do.”

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81. “I’m sick of being the person who tries to fit in and tells people what they want to hear and acts like nothing bothers her, it’s not got me anywhere.”

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82. “I wonder what she wants?′ Sam said. ‘Apart from Cal’s balls and soul trapped in a haunted jam jar.”

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83. “Some friendships got longer without getting deeper.”

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84. “Seeing someone you know well in a totally different context is always disorientating and vaguely impressive. You realise you have them on loan from the other lives they lead.”

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85. “You need people to like you. Stop caring so much. It doesn’t matter.”

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86. “I wondered if you wanted someone to help zip your dress up before a night out. I wondered if you wanted someone to call first in a crisis. I wondered if you wanted someone to text to bring you fish and chips when you can’t be arsed with a proper dinner. I wondered if you wanted someone in your corner when you visit your family, someone who will tell them how lucky they are to have you. I wondered if you wanted someone to fetch the Lucozade when you have the flu.”

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87. “Being single means getting used to your own company and not inventing excuses to keep people around you, None of which makes me feel any less bereft. The latest revelation: you have to relearn being your own again!”

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88. “Why are things, abandoned things, so hard to bear? They didn’t have that quality before. And compared to the living thing you’ve lost, they’re without value.”

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89. “Life’s veered sharply away from the script. We’re traveling a branch of an alternative future we were never meant to be on.”

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90. “She thought there was a lot of truth in the closest friendships being unconsummated romances.”

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91. “Beauty isn’t an arrangement of features, even features as perfect as Finlay Hart’s, it’s a feeling. This is how it feels in the split second you suddenly become aware that you’re falling in love with someone.”

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92. “I notice, once again, that company that’s not the right fit for you is so much lonelier than being happily alone.”

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93. “Why did a woman’s voice have to be a chorus, to count?”

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94. “Cuando se trata de ti, lo recuerdo todo.”

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95. “Sorry,’ he mutters back, in that reflexive British way where you’re apologetic that someone else has had to make an apology.”

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96. “I’m not carrying it anymore. I spoke the words aloud, used my words, and broke the curse.”

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97. “Single Anna was whole Anna. Not finding someone wasn’t a failure, it was just a fact.”

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98. “Something I’ve learned is people do much worse things to you in the name of love, than they ever do as your enemy.”

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99. “It was really interesting to me, unravelling why we behave the way we do.”

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100. “It was fear, cloaked in rationalisations and self-deprecation.”

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