Top 100 Miriam Toews Quotes (2024 Update)
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51. “Go into hard things quickly, eagerly, then retreat. It’s the same for thinking, writing, and life.”

— Miriam Toews

52. “Books are what save us. Books are what don’t save us.”

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53. “If, along the way, something is gained, then something will also be lost.”

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54. “The truth is, I don’t have a catchy method of conversing and yet unfortunately suffer of a minute to minute basis the agony of the unexpressed thought.”

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55. “Public enemy number one for these men was a girl with a book.”

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56. “In the airport we hugged each other all at once, a team huddle but with nothing but a Hail Mary left in our playbook. We’d been through all of this before. We loved each other. We fought for each other. When worlds collapsed we were buried in the rubble together and when we were dug out of the rubble and rescued we all celebrated together.”

— Miriam Toews

57. “Sadness is what holds our bones in place.”

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58. “I learned another thing, which is that just because someone is eating the ashes of your protagonist doesn’t mean you stop telling the story.”

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59. “It bothered me in a kind of Charles Manson way to have a brown smear of blood on my wall but I also liked it because every time I looked at it I was reminded that I was, at that very moment, not bleeding from my face. And those are powerful words of hope, really.”

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60. “Nic loves Elf’s odd requests, each one is like a holiday for him... and he’s not a Mennonite, which is important – in a man – for Elf. Mennonite men have wasted too much of her time already, trying to harvest her soul and shackle her to shame.”

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61. “She is not crying, she says, she is moisturizing.”

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62. “True love, I said. And yet I’m sticking around unreasonably and knowing it’s impossible because who knows? I want to find out. I live hopefully.”

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63. “Even a Menno sheltered from the world knows not to stick her tongue into the mouth of a boy who owns an Air Supply record. You might stick your tongue into the mouth of a boy who owned some Emerson, Lake and Palmer, but you would not date him on a regular basis, or openly.”

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64. “I find it curious that she hasn’t been excommunicated. Are her small acts of rebellion a convenient outlet for Peters, a type of performance that satisfies the colonists’ need to assert themselves, and that allows Peters to act with impunity on a larger scale?”

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65. “Perhaps all of us are crazy, Ona says. Of course we’re all crazy, says Mejal. How can we not be?”

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66. “When I opened up the bottle of wine, Thebes said whoa, you yanked that cork out of there like you were saving it from drowning. She got out her markers and drew a screaming face on the cork.”

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67. “Tina nods sagely and says yes and then something in Plautdietsch, probably something like heck yeah do we ever know what sad is. Sadness is what holds our bones in place.”

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68. “Go into hard things quickly, eagerly, then retreat.”

— Miriam Toews

69. “She says isn’t it funny how every second, every minute, every day, month, year, is accounted for, capable of being named – when time, or life, is so unwieldy, so intangible and slippery? This makes her feel compassion toward the people who invented the concept of “telling time.” How hopeful, she says. How beautifully futile. How perfectly human.”

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70. “I don’t know now why I let her believe otherwise, but someday, perhaps, it will be clear.”

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71. “We stopped talking for a long, long time. A long time. Nurses came and went attaching and detaching things. Hundreds of thousands of babies were born while we weren’t talking. The continents continued to separate at the same page as fingernails growing.”

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72. “He is the same chap who informed me that there are unusually high numbers of Mennonites who suffer from depression but nobody knows why. I said, Well, thank you for that! As cheerfully as if I was accepting a plate of homemade Christmas cookies from one of my students.”

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73. “What sorts of things do you google when your favorite person in the world is determined to leave it?”

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74. “Why does the mention of love, the memory of love, the memory of love lost, the promise of love, the end of love, the absence of love, the burning, burning need for love, need to love, result in so much violence?”

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75. “She says isn’t it funny how every second, every minute, every day, month, year, is accounted for, capable of being named – when time, or life, is so unwieldy, so intangible and slippery?”

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76. “We are women without a voice, Ona states calmly. We are women out of time and place, without even the language of the country we reside in. We are Mennonites without a homeland. We have nothing to return to, and even the animals of Molotschna are safer in their homes than we women are. All we women have are our dreams – so of course we are dreamers.”

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77. “Isn’t it interesting, she says, that the one and only request the women would make of the men would be to leave?”

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78. “How should we know what they’re guilty of or not? says Mariche. But we do know, says Ona. We do know that the conditions of Molotschna have been created by man, that these attacks have been made possible, even the conception of these acts, the planning of these attacks, the rationale for these attacks within the minds of the men, because of the circumstances of Molotschna. And those circumstances have been created and ordained by the men, by the elders and by Peters.”

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79. “We do not have to be forgiven by the men of God, she shouts, for protecting our children from the depraved actions of vicious men who are often the very same men we are meant to ask for forgiveness.”

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80. “The women in the loft have taught me that consciousness is resistance, that faith is action, that time is running out. But can faith also be to return, to stay, to serve?”

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81. “Perhaps not men, per se, but a pernicious ideology that has been allowed to take hold of men’s hearts and minds.”

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82. “You’ll know for yourself what to fight. Grandma told me fighting can be making peace. She said sometimes we move forward by looking back and sometimes the onward can be knowing when to stop.”

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83. “In the very early morning light I saw Nora and my mother sleeping, finally, on their sides and face to face, holding hands, all four hands entwined like a skein of wool, like a mating ball of garter snakes, so that whatever was inside them would be very well protected.”

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84. “I grappled with the idea of explaining hemispheres to her, how we are required to share the sun with other parts of the world, that if one were to observe the earth from outer space one could see as many as fifteen sunsets and sunrises in a day – and that perhaps by sharing the sun the world could learn to share everything, learn that everything belonged to everyone!”

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85. “We mustn’t do this. We mustn’t play Hot Potato with our pain. Let’s absorb it ourselves, each of us, she says. Let’s inhale it, let’s digest it, let’s process it into fuel.”

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86. “Lonely fights are the worst, she said. She’d rather lose a lonely fight. She’d rather join a losing team than win a lonely fight.”

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87. “En aquest seu afany de poder, en necessitaven d’altres sobre qui exercir aquest poder, i aquests altres som nosaltres.”

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88. “Our freedom and safety are the ultimate goals, and it is men who prevent us from achieving those goals. But not all men, says Mejal. Ona clarifies: Perhaps not men, per se, but a pernicious ideology that has been allowed to take hold of men’s hearts and minds.”

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89. “She says Mom does the emotional work for the whole family, feeling everything ten times harder than is necessary so the rest of us can act normal.”

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90. “If God is a loving God He will forgive us Himself. If God is a vengeful God then He has created us in His Image.”

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91. “She once explained to me that, as a Molotschnan, she had everything she wanted; all she had to do was convince herself that she wanted very little.”

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92. “If you lose your mind can you find your mind again? Of course you can. That’s life!”

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93. “Men and women will make all decisions for the colony collectively. Women will be allowed to think. Girls will be taught to read and write. The schoolhouse must display a map of the world so that we can begin to understand our place in it. A new religion, extrapolated from the old but focused on love, will be created by the women of Molotschna.”

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94. “He looked sad and happy at the same time. That’s a popular adult look. Because adults are busy and have to do everything at once, even feel things.”

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95. “I stare out of the window and reflect on the similarity between writing and saving a life and the inevitable failure of one’s imagination and one’s goals and ambitions to create a character or a life worth saving. In life as in writing as in any type of creation that sets off to be a success, knowable and inspiring.”

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96. “I look at the boys, asleep, unconscious to be exact, and plead silently with them to tell me the truth.”

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97. “When we know something we stop thinking about it, don’t we?”

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98. “Will carried Zoe on his back and zoomed around on the sidewalk and she laughed and bounced up and down and lost one of her flip-flops so we had to go back and retrace our steps in the dark which I suppose is the meaning of life.”

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99. “L’autoritat fa que les persones siguin cruels.”

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100. “But that’s what thinking is, says Ona. And thinking is one of the things we want to be free to do. The things we know to exist or to be true don’t require us to dwell on them.”

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