“Remember to act always as if you were at a symposium. When the food or drink comes around, reach out and take some politely; if it passes you by don’t try to pulling it back. And if it has not reached you yet, don’t let your desire run ahead of you, be patient until your turn comes.”

“Remember to act always as if you were at a symposium. When the food or drink comes around, reach out and take some politely; if it passes you by don’t try to pulling it back. And if it has not reached you yet, don’t let your desire run ahead of you, be patient until your turn comes.”

— Epictetus