“Akira often gets mad at me because he thinks I’m too nice to strangers, and cold as a fish at home. What can I do? He’s right, but that’s the way I am. I’m more enthusiastic about people I’ve just met, whom I barely know at all, than with old friends. Before the awkwardness of a new acquaintance has worn off, I’m ready to offer myself up to that person.”

“Akira often gets mad at me because he thinks I’m too nice to strangers, and cold as a fish at home. What can I do? He’s right, but that’s the way I am. I’m more enthusiastic about people I’ve just met, whom I barely know at all, than with old friends. Before the awkwardness of a new acquaintance has worn off, I’m ready to offer myself up to that person.”

— Banana Yoshimoto