“And one day she said to me, ‘For the rest of my life, it’s the first thing they’ll say about me when I leave the room.’ And I remember thinking: Yes that’s true, it will be. But we can’t really do anything about what they say when we leave the room. We’ll never be able to control that. And we shouldn’t try. Our job is just to... well, be in the room while we’re there, and try not to think too much about where we’re not. Whatever room we happen to be in, just, be there.”
