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“Ultimatums have negative connotations for many because they’re often used by bullies and abusers, who tend to be comfortable pushing their partners’ backs against a wall, demanding that he or she choose this or that, all or nothing. But when used by emotionally healthy people with good intentions, ultimatums offer a respectful and loving way through an impasse that will sooner or later destroy a relationship on its own anyway.”

— Cheryl Strayed

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Cheryl Strayed Quote: “Ultimatums have negative connotations for many because they’re often used by bullies and abusers, who tend to be comfortable pushing their partners’ backs against a wall, demanding that he or she choose this or that, all or nothing. But when used by emotionally healthy people with good intentions, ultimatums offer a respectful and loving way through an impasse that will sooner or later destroy a relationship on its own anyway.”

“Ultimatums have negative connotations for many because they’re often used by bullies and abusers, who tend to be comfortable pushing their partners’ backs against a wall, demanding that he or she choose this or that, all or nothing. But when used by emotionally healthy people with good intentions, ultimatums offer a respectful and loving way through an impasse that will sooner or later destroy a relationship on its own anyway.”

— Cheryl Strayed

Cheryl Strayed Quote: “Ultimatums have negative connotations for many because they’re often used by bullies and abusers, who tend to be comfortable pushing their partners’ backs against a wall, demanding that he or she choose this or that, all or nothing. But when used by emotionally healthy people with good intentions, ultimatums offer a respectful and loving way through an impasse that will sooner or later destroy a relationship on its own anyway.”

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5. “To not believe in God is to know that it falls to us to make the world a better place.”

6. “Either God can do nothing to stop catastrophes like this, or he doesn’t care to, or he doesn’t exist. God is either impotent, evil, or imaginary. Take your pick, and choose wisely.”

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7. “As an atheist, I am angry that we live in a society in which the plain truth cannot be spoken without offending 90% of the population.”

8. “If someone doesn’t value evidence, what evidence are you going to provide that proves they should value evidence. If someone doesn’t value logic, what logical argument would you invoke to prove they should value logic?”

9. “It is important to realize that our inability to answer a question says nothing about whether the question itself has an answer.”

10. “You don’t get anything worth getting, by pretending to know things you don’t know.”

11. “The core of science is not a mathematical modeling – it is intellectual honesty. It is a willingness to have our certainties about the world constrained by good evidence and good argument.”

12. “Atheism is just a way of clearing the space for better conversations.”

13. “We are all prisoners of our thoughts.”

14. “Atheism is not a philosophy; it is not even a view of the world; it is simply a refusal to deny the obvious. Unfortunately, we live in a world in which the obvious is overlooked as a matter of principle.”

15. “You can do what you decide to do – but you cannot decide what you will decide to do.”

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16. “People who harbor strong convictions without evidence belong at the margins of our societies, not in our halls of power.”

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17. “The problem is that religion tends to give people bad reasons to be good.”

18. “It is time we admitted that we are not at war with terrorism. We are at war with Islam.”

19. “Theology is ignorance with wings.”

20. “I know of no society in human history that ever suffered because its people became too desirous of evidence in support of their core beliefs.”

21. “The difference between science and religion is the difference between a willingness to dispassionately consider new evidence and new arguments, and a passionate unwillingness to do so.”

22. “This is the true horror of religion. It allows perfectly decent and sane people to believe by the billions, what only lunatics could believe on their own.”

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25. “The truth is that we simply do not know what happens after death.”

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27. “Science is the most durable and nondivisive way of thinking about the human circumstance. It transcends cultural, national, and political boundaries. You don’t have American science versus Canadian science versus Japanese science.”

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29. “We must continually remind ourselves that there is a difference between what is natural and what is actually good for us.”

30. “Our world is fast succumbing to the activities of men and women who would stake the future of our species on beliefs that should not survive an elementary school education.”

31. “If you are perpetually angry, depressed, confused, and unloving, or your attention is elsewhere, it won’t matter how successful you become or who is in your life – you won’t enjoy any of it.”

32. “Religious moderation is the product of secular knowledge and scriptural ignorance.”

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34. “Islam, at the moment, is the motherlode of bad ideas.”

35. “The atheist, by merely being in touch with reality, appears shamefully out of touch with the fantasy life of his neighbors.”

36. “The principal tenet of Jainism is non-harming. Observant Jains will literally not harm a fly. Fundamentalist Jainism and fundamentalist Islam do not have the same consequences, neither logically nor behaviorally.”

37. “The position of the Muslim community in the face of all provocations seems to be: Islam is a religion of peace, and if you say that it isn’t, we will kill you.”

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39. “Reason is nothing less than the guardian of love.”

40. “Everyone who has eyes to see can see that if the God of Abraham exists, He is an utter psychopath – and the God of Nature too. If you can’t see these things just by looking, you have simply closed your eyes to the realities of our world.”

41. “The moral landscape is the framework I use for thinking about questions of morality and human values in universal terms.”

42. “What would our world be like if we ceased to worry about ‘right’ and ‘wrong,’ or ‘good’ and ‘evil,’ and simply acted so as to maximize well-being, our own and that of others? Would we lose anything important?”

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44. “The freedom to think out loud on certain topics, without fear of being hounded into hiding or killed, has already been lost.”

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