“How could you teach someone to survive? You pointed them in the right direction and hoped they’d swim, not sink. Waving, not drowning. There are more important things in life than individual happiness. It was an easy trap to fall into, mistaking a lack of self-direction for an expression of love.”

“How could you teach someone to survive? You pointed them in the right direction and hoped they’d swim, not sink. Waving, not drowning. There are more important things in life than individual happiness. It was an easy trap to fall into, mistaking a lack of self-direction for an expression of love.”

— Lesley Lokko