“I do think back,′ Mom told me, ‘on my wonderful headmistress at Brearly, the one who told us we could have everything we wanted... And then, years later, I went back for a reunion, and I told the headmistress that I, indeed, managed to have it all – a husband, a career, three children – but that I was tired all the time, exhausted in fact. And she said, ‘Oh, dear – did I forget to mention that you can, indeed, have it all, but you need a lot of help!”
