“Last week you asked me about grief, about how long it takes to recover. I should’ve told you then, but I just couldn’t. You’re asking the wrong question. It’s not the recovery you should be worrying about. It’s the decisions that are born out of your grief that will haunt you. Some decisions, once you make them, you can’t make any better-... You just live their consequences again and again. That’s why grief is so damn powerful – it has one fierce ally and that ally is regret.”