“Grief, I believe, is cumulative-each experience of loss shaping the size and scope of the next, each loss holding reverberations of the losses a person has experienced over a lifetime. The pain of grief is real, but it’s also an echo and an aftershock, the spirits of past emotions rising up to grip your hand again. Examine one loss and you’re likely to find another inside of it, and then another inside of that one, all that grief repeating like a set of Russian nesting dolls.”
