“Those who do not suffer become insufferable. Our depth comes from experiencing a wide range of emotions, including profound tragedy and our strength comes from that which could destroy us. As we grow from heartbreak, we increase out pain tolerance. As my friend Nora put it, “Leona’s death prepared me for my son’s burn accident, and that prepared me for this terrible moment when my sister is dying. I know how hard life can be, so I enjoy every good day.”
