“None of us will be okay, in the end. The not-okay is coming for everyone... We act like there are safe places. We behave as though if we work hard and acquire the right things, gain the right access, put ourselves in the right zones, we can arrive someplace where danger can’t touch us- where anything can’t happen. We pretend that if we can identify someone else’s loss as greater than our own, we won’t lose. But nothing really guards our lives. Lifeguards don’t exist.”
