“Because it’s in the nature of a gift, the offering and the reception, to create relationship and to overcome that which divides, one can’t remain in the way of the gift and also definitively disassociate. When a gift occurs, we see ourselves in others, our very lives sustained by the grace of others, and we find we can hardly hold ourselves apart. The gift occasions communion, that wholeness for which we’re all longing in one way or another most of the time.”