“We both need our freedom from codependence but I don’t see us achieving that together, at lease not anytime soon. In order for us to forge new identities, we have to go our separate ways. Even so, I’m stunned by how quickly we’ve transitioned from being a pair, utter enmeshed and in love, to two strangers siloed in private grief and anger. As we set about disassembling what’s left of us, it feels less like the final stages of a breakup than the beginning of a gutting, protracted divorce.”
