“Consider relationships of dependence,′ my sister suggests. ‘You don’t own your body- that’s not what we are, our bodies aren’t independent. The health of our bodies always depends on choices other people are making.’ She falters for a moment here, and is at a loss for words, which is rare for her. ‘I don’t even know how to talk about this,’ she says. ‘The point is there’s an illusion of independence.”
