“So who was picking up the slack while the cheater was out chasing the butterflies of aliveness? Who was rocking babies, packing school lunches, and bringing home their paychecks? Who existed in the same less-than-stellar marriage and didn’t blow their boss? Chumps. Cheating takes time and resources away from the marriage – so, just by virtue of being there and not screwing around, chumps are usually the more invested partners. Not perfect partners, but committed ones.”
