“Whenever you are ruminating and obsessing about your ex and asking those questions, say to yourself, “Stop! It doesn’t matter, it doesn’t matter, it doesn’t matter.” Because you know what? It doesn’t matter. The only thing that matters is what you are doing now and that is where your focus needs to be. Whenever you are in someone else’s head, no one is taking care of yours! Stop asking questions about your ex; start asking questions about you.”
