Top 500 Sarah Dessen Quotes (2025 Update)
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101. “Love is so unpredictable. Sometimes you’ll know a man for years and then one day, boom! Suddenly you see him in a different way. And other times, it’s that first date, that first moment. That’s what makes it so great.”

— Sarah Dessen

102. “But you only get so many do-overs in this life, so many chances to, if not change your past, alter your future.”

— Sarah Dessen

103. “And no relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater.”

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104. “Just me and the future, finally together. Now there was a happy ending I could believe in.”

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105. “I couldn’t tell her. I couldn’t tell anyone. As long as I didn’t say it aloud, it wasn’t real.”

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106. “Fall in love with someone who truly deserves your heart. Not with someone who plays with it.”

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107. “She stroked my hair and told me I was beautiful, but I was old enough by then to know not to believe it anymore.”

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108. “But something, somehow, had made all these paths converge. You couldn’t find it on a checklist, or work it into the equation. It just happened.”

— Sarah Dessen

109. “I had no illusions about love anymore. It came, it went, it left casualties or it didn’t. People weren’t meant to be together forever, regardless of what the songs say.”

— Sarah Dessen

110. “Get back on that bike.”

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111. “All the bitchy girls in the world are just a training ground for what men can do to you.”

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112. “It was just perfect, just right all at once.”

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113. “It’s funny how someone’s perception of you can be formed without you even knowing it.”

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114. “It’s okay to accept things from people. It doesn’t make you weak or helpless.”

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115. “There are some things in this world you rely on, like a sure bet. And when they let you down, shifting from where you’ve carefully placed them, it shakes your faith, right where you stand.”

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116. “This was our common ground, the secret we shared but never spoke aloud. I should have been with him; she should have left him alone. Shoulda, coulda, woulda. It’s so easy in the past tense.”

— Sarah Dessen

117. “This Lullaby is only a few words, a simple run of chords, quiet here in this spare room, but you can hear it, hear it, wherever you may go, even if I let you down, this lullaby plays on...”

— Sarah Dessen

118. “It was so easy to disown what you couldn’t recognize, to keep yourself apart from things that were foreign and unsettling. The only person you can be sure to control, always, is yourself. Which is a lot to be sure of, but at the same time, not enough.”

— Sarah Dessen

119. “I mean, at first, it was kind of disappointing. But people recover from disappointment. Otherwise we’d all be hanging from nooses. Right?”

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120. “So many versions of just one memory, and yet none of them were right or wrong. Instead, they were all pieces. Only when fitted together, edge to edge, could they even begin to tell the whole story.”

— Sarah Dessen

121. “I think readers are just looking for things that maybe they recognize or can relate to in the books.”

— Sarah Dessen

122. “I had to wonder whether it was possible that this wasn’t already decided for me, and if maybe, just maybe, this was my one last chance to try and prove it. There was no way to know. There never is. But I reached out and took it anyway.”

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123. “But if everything was always smooth and perfect, you’d get too used to that, you know? You have to have a little bit of disorganization now and then. Otherwise, you’ll never really enjoy it when things go right.”

— Sarah Dessen

124. “There’s something nice about the silence of a car ride in the dark, going home. When you were tired of the radio and conversation, and it was okay to just be alone with your thoughts and the road ahead. If you’re that comfortable with someone, you don’t have to talk.”

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125. “Editing is hard but nowhere NEAR as tough as facing that blank page and blinking cursor each day. You’re all alone and no one else can do it. At least with editing you have someone in the trench with you.”

— Sarah Dessen

126. “I knew that in the silence that followed, that anything could happen here. It might be too late again. I might have missed my chance. But I would at least know I tried, that I took my heart and extended my hand, whatever the outcome.”

— Sarah Dessen

127. “I mean, it’s not surprising, really. Once you love something, you always love it in some way. You have to. It’s, like, part of you for good.”

— Sarah Dessen

128. “Their words, like the music, had the potential to be endless.”

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129. “Something had changed in me, even if I didn’t know what it was just yet. All I could think was that I felt alive for the first time.”

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130. “It takes so little to change everything. If you really thought about it, it would scare you to death.”

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131. “When you can’t save yourself or your heart, it helps to be able to save face.”

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132. “What happened to goodbye?”

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133. “But I always worked harder when I was up against something, or when someone assumed I couldn’t succeed. That’s what drove me, all those nights studying. The fact that so many figured I couldn’t do it.”

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134. “Maybe it was true, and being a girl could be about interest rates and skinny jeans, riding bikes and wearing pink. Not about any one thing, but everything.”

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135. “Behind the camera, I was invisible. When I lifted it up to my eye it was like I crawled into the lens, losing myself there. and everything else fell away.”

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136. “And always remember how much your crazy sister loves you.”

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137. “I always wrote about girls that went to the beach and had that summer that changed everything. So I was interested in what it would be like to live in a tourist town where everyone has these life changing experiences, but your whole life is there.”

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138. “When someone starts to change, and it’s obvious, it’s sort of natural to wonder why. Right?”

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139. “Says the girl with no thyme.”

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140. “There were so many levels to the unknown, from safe to dangerous to outright nebulous, scariest of all.”

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141. “This is a 911? You know you only text that when someone is dead or dying. You scared the crap out of me.”

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142. “I find that the more I depend on real life, the less interesting the story is. It’s much more common for me to take something that almost-happened, or I wish had happened, and then follow that possibility.”

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143. “A life isn’t just the pages you know, it’s everything.”

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144. “Like a blinking cursor on an empty page, it was just the first thing. The beginning of the beginning. But at least it was done.”

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145. “What you need, what you deserve, is a guy who adores you for what you are. Who doesn’t see you as a project, but a prize. you know?”

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146. “All those clean, fresh starts had made me forget what it was like, until now, to be messy and honest and out of control. To be real.”

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147. “But as i lay there, it only seemes like silence filling my ears. And the thing was, it was so freaking loud.”

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148. “But you take what you get in this world. What else can you do?”

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149. “I felt like I’d been swimming so hard, and the water growing warmer and warmer the closer I got to the top. I wasn’t there yet, but now I could see the surface, rippling just beyond my fingers.”

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150. “You’re not supposed to have it all figured out in high school. If you knew it all, and it was the best, it’s all downhill from there.”

— Sarah Dessen