Top 500 Stephen R. Covey Quotes (2025 Update)
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351. “Empathy is not sympathy. A sympathy is a form of agreement. Empathy is not agreeing with someone; it is fully, deeply understanding that person, emotionally as well as intellectually.”

— Stephen R. Covey

352. “Despite all our gains in technology, product innovation and world markets, most people are not thriving in the organizations they work for.”

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353. “We tend to get what we expect – both from ourselves and from others. When we expect more, we tend to get more; when we expect less, we tend to get less.”

— Stephen R. Covey

354. “If you don’t know yourself, if you don’t control yourself, if you don’t have mastery over yourself, it’s very hard to like yourself, except in some short-term, psych-up, superficial way.”

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355. “In the end, life teaches us what is important, and that is family.”

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356. “Above all, success in business requires two things: a winning competitive strategy, and superb organizational execution. Distrust is the enemy of both. I submit that while high trust won’t necessarily rescue a poor strategy, low trust will almost always derail a good one.”

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357. “We must look at the lens through we see the world, as well as the world we see, and that the lens itself shapes how we interpret the world.”

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358. “The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are.”

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359. “Communication is the most important single activity of man.”

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360. “Keeping a personal journal a daily in-depth analysis and evaluation of your experiences is a high-leverage activity that increases self-awareness and enhances all the endowments and the synergy among them.”

— Stephen R. Covey

361. “It’s not that we ignore our weaknesses; rather, we make our weaknesses irrelevant by working effectively with others so that we compensate for our weaknesses through their strengths and they compensate for their weaknesses through our strengths.”

— Stephen R. Covey

362. “The personal power that comes from principle-centered living is the power of a self-aware, knowledgeable, proactive individual, unrestricted by the attitudes, behaviors, and actions of others or by many of the circumstances and environmental influences that limit other people.”

— Stephen R. Covey

363. “By behaving in ways that build trust with one, you build trust with many.”

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364. “Patience is emotional diligence.”

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365. “You can buy a person’s hands but you can’t buy his heart. His heart is where his enthusiasm, his loyalty is.”

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366. “When you make a commitment to yourself, do so with the clear understanding that you’re pledging your integrity.”

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367. “Ineffective people live day after day with unused potential.”

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368. “A moment of choice is a moment of truth.”

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369. “Strategy is important, but trust is the hidden variable. On paper you can have clarity around your objectives, but in a low-trust environment, your strategy won’t be executed.”

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370. “Prepare your mind and heart before you prepare your speech. What we say may be less important than how we say it.”

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371. “The best way to develop courage is to set a goal and achieve it, make a promise and keep it.”

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372. “We must not let the actions or words of others determine our responses. Magnanimous people make the choice to respond to the indignities of others based upon their own principles and their own value system rather than their moods or anger.”

— Stephen R. Covey

373. “Most learning is social, or what I call the cultural DNA. Everyone knows that word of mouth advertising is the best advertising. That’s social learning.”

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374. “People behave more on the basis of how they feel than how they think; unless there are good feelings between people, it is almost impossible to reason intelligently.”

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375. “How many on their deathbeds wished they’d spent more time at the office – or watching TV? The answer is, No one.”

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376. “Only as we keep an open communication with our deep inner life will we have the wisdom to make effective choices.”

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377. “If you don’t let a teacher know what level you are – by asking a question, or revealing your ignorance – you will not learn or grow.”

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378. “Love – the feeling – is a fruit of love, the verb.”

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379. “Most people think of leadership as a position and therefore don’t see themselves as leaders.”

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380. “When we value correct principles, we have truth – a knowledge of things as they are.”

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381. “In the long run, you can never accomplish a worthy end with an unworthy means.”

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382. “Success in one role can’t justify failure in another.”

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383. “Management is formal authority given from above. Leadership is moral authority given from below and all around.”

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384. “When the trust is high, you get the trust dividend. Investors invest in brands people trust. Consumers buy more from companies they trust, they spend more with companies they trust, they recommend companies they trust, and they give companies they trust the benefit of the doubt when things go wrong.”

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385. “We’re constantly making choices about the way we spend our time. The issue is not between the good and the bad, but between the good and the best. So often, the enemy of the best is the good.”

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386. “He who has a why can deal with any what or how.”

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387. “Trust is the glue in relationships and organizations.”

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388. “Don’t cheat people of their growth. Empower them to solve problems and generate ideas. Watch them grow!”

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389. “Principle-centered people are constantly educated by their experiences.”

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390. “The universal elements are integrity, vision, discipline, passion, governed by conscience. Conscience has been educated through studying and pondering the universal, timeless principles of all six major world religions.”

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391. “It takes a great deal of character strength to apologize quickly out of one’s heart rather than out of pity.”

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392. “To set and work toward any goal is an act of courage.”

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393. “Security represents your sense of worth, your identity, your emotional anchorage, your self-esteem, your basic personal strength or lack of it.”

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394. “The more people rationalize cheating, the more it becomes a culture of dishonesty. And that can become a vicious, downward cycle. Because suddenly, if everyone else is cheating, you feel a need to cheat, too.”

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395. “What we are communicates far more eloquently than anything we say or do. There are people we trust because we know their character. Whether they’re eloquent or not, whether they have human-relations techniques or not, we trust them and work with them.”

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396. “Admission of ignorance is often the first step in our education.”

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397. “So often the problem is in the system, not in the people. If you put good people in bad systems, you get bad results. You have to water the flowers you want to grow.”

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398. “We simply assume that the way we see things is the way they really are or the way they should be. And our attitudes and behaviors grow out of these assumptions.”

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399. “Sometimes poor behavior is simply bad execution of good intent.”

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400. “There are principles that govern human effectiveness – natural laws in the human dimension that are just as real, just as unchanging and unarguably there as laws such as gravity are in the physical dimension.”

— Stephen R. Covey