Top 140 W. Anton Quotes (2024 Update)
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51. “The big problem is that when males believe they are not good enough as they are, they chase success and money, and their masculine confidence vanishes. If you believe females are attracted to something that you do not have, you will feel inadequate and lose your confidence. This is a self-fulfilling prophesy because confidence is crucial to your success with women as it is the primary expression of masculinity, necessary to appear less vulnerable than females.”

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52. “Women do not just want to feel attractive, they want to feel more attractive than other females.”

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53. “A man smiles because he is happy to see women, and he approaches them with a sly smile because he knows they are in for a treat.”

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54. “So the next time you are on a date and your woman says, “It is so cold in here,” that means she wants to go somewhere else, preferably a warmer place, but wants to follow your lead. When she says, “My feet hurt,” she is trying to tell you that she wants to sit down, take her shoes off, or get a foot massage – whatever seems appropriate for the current situation.”

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55. “People who do not try things always make up excuses to explain why they are unable to; they rationalize as that is what humans do when they want to avoid responsibility, without admitting it.”

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56. “You must never put them on a pedestal if it would cause them to look down on you, as it usually tends to do. Although women love to be admired and appreciated, they still want a man to look up to, not down upon, a man who deems himself important enough to deserve the best, including the best women. He would be insulting them otherwise, not honoring them.”

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57. “If a female is attracted to a male, pretty much everything he says will be interesting to her, especially if he is talking about her, since it is charming for him to care. To be interesting enough for a woman is quite easy, because all it really takes is to be charming; to show her that you are interested in her.”

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58. “Staring means maintaining an expressionless look while keeping eye contact, particularly without smiling, and it makes other people uncomfortable because you seem dead or hostile. As soon as you start to smile and there is some movement in your facial expression, the woman’s perception of you will be, “he is looking at me,” which is good, instead of “he is staring at me,” which is bad.”

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59. “Understand that you already have what it takes to go after all the women you want. It is just a matter of taking proper action, and taking action should be your number one priority, not chasing things you do not need.”

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60. “You should always try to make women feel good about themselves and leave them better off than you found them. Be charming, but never at the expense of yourself. Never allow anyone to walk over you, not even a woman that you like or are in love with. You are not nice to yourself if you do, and if you are not nice to yourself, no one else will be. If this means that you are a “bad boy,” so be it.”

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61. “Make it a habit to be shameless. Do not be embarrassed to follow a woman with your eyes the entire time she is walking toward you or to turn your head and even your entire body to check out a woman as she walks past you.”

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62. “The difference a good approach makes is night and day, which is why a well-executed approach should be your number one priority.”

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63. “You cannot please everyone, and if you can only please one person, it should be you. And if you can please one more, which is often the case, it should be the woman. The rest of society, including strangers, particularly those who call you a “jerk,” comes last.”

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64. “To make women feel attractive, a charming man will never treat women in any way they could misinterpret as their not being attractive, including making a joke at their expense.”

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65. “Women and the opportunities to meet them are not at all scarce – far from it. There are plenty of wonderful women out there, more so than any one of us can handle already, with new gorgeous girls maturing every single day, and the opportunities to meet them are more than plentiful as well.”

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66. “However, to persist does not mean to cling on forever, to stalk, or to come back despite a woman requesting otherwise – only desperate males do that – but it does mean to keep going until you either get what you want or are rejected.”

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67. “Regardless of whether you actually are happy, you have to appear happy whenever you are around women that you want. You might have to force it for the first couple of minutes, but if you are talking to an attractive female you will usually forget your worries quite quickly, and then you will not have to force it anymore.”

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68. “Once you get a girl without having relied on any external value for your attractiveness, you also know for sure that she really likes you and that she will be yours for as long as you want her to be, as long as you do not change. You do not have to hide the fact that you lost your job, your car broke down, or that you are still living with your parents. Your relationship will be less stressful and more honest, which is healthy.”

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69. “He does so because he likes women and sometimes you have to give women what they want by not giving them what they ask for. However, do not tell women this outright, but keep this thought as a reminder of why throwing yourself under a bus for a woman to show her how much you care is a bad idea.”

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70. “It is not about being better than other people; it is about being as good as you can be, period.”

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71. “Thus, to be nice to women means to understand what women want and give it to them. This is not how “nice guys” treat women, however.”

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72. “You should also create this same proud presence in the way you walk. Women keep their knees close together as they step forward and appear the most feminine when they put each foot on a straight line right before the other, but men keep their feet further apart when they walk. To walk with a slight swagger is both masculine and the practice of a male with high self-esteem.”

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73. “In a perfect world, we could always be honest and I would love to be an advocate of honesty at all times, but unfortunately that would mean you would say things that women definitely do not want to hear, like how much better their best friend was in bed or that you do find their teenage daughters attractive.”

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74. “The males least successful with women either excuse themselves from even trying to flirt with women because they are intimidated or they do flirt with women but always using an excuse because they feel unworthy of them.”

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75. “Most males tilt their head too far forward, as if they are in a constant state of shame, or they will automatically bow their head whenever they walk past someone. If you look at someone from that position you will literally be looking up to them, communicating your submissiveness, even if you are taller than the other person. This is something you must not do.”

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76. “You have to demonstrate that you will never hurt her without appearing vulnerable, weak, and incapable of protecting yourself or her. When she has been convinced of this nonconsciously, she will be able to relax in your presence and eventually be comfortable enough to be alone and naked with you.”

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77. “Even though women will appreciate a man liking her for no reason, they prefer that he notice special reasons to be attracted to her, which proves that he is selective. This is why you should explain what you do like about your woman, and the more she feels that it is something only she has, the better she will feel.”

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78. “The next time you catch yourself thinking that you do not deserve a woman; remind yourself that you are absolutely right, but you are right because you do not have to deserve them. You still have to seduce them, but that requires time spent directly with them, not long hours at the office or trying to save the planet.”

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79. “Slight resistance means you still have work to do, while stronger resistance means you should have done a much better job earlier on. While you are still learning the ropes, it will be common to encounter a lot of resistance when you attempt to seduce women, but as you improve you will face less and less of it.”

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80. “Anyone who contracts his or her body will seem more feminine – more vulnerable, more afraid, and more submissive. They will communicate that they lack masculinity, confidence, and dominance. The lack of these traits makes females appear more attractive. However, it does not make males appear more attractive, but less so. When males do it, they seem gay.”

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81. “Women sometimes pretend to be upset or offended when you flirt ferociously with them, either to save face or to test if you really mean what you say.”

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82. “You should talk to a woman as if she already is your lover and sexual partner, not a stranger or friend.”

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83. “This includes focusing on the most attractive females from day one, the ones you really want, as if you can indeed get them. But you do not need status or anything else to act this important; you are important to yourself, and you do not need to earn women, you are entitled to them by birth. Hence, you are free to flirt with any woman you want.”

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84. “As confident people merely appear certain and certainty itself is irrelevant, a much better way to increase your confidence is to learn to tolerate uncertainty – to build courage.”

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85. “To be a man is often more about avoiding how women walk and talk rather than actually doing traditionally manly things.”

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86. “Women absolute love to use excuses, and it is their favorite tool for getting through life because it is so easy to avoid responsibility by just making something up, even though it actually does mean that they are lying on a regular basis.”

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87. “Egotism and selfishness are preached in all societies as sinful behavior, while altruism and self-sacrifice are encouraged as honorable virtues.”

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88. “Second, the more a female looks upward when she is photographed, the more attractive she looks because it is a sign of submission to look up to someone else, much like a pet or a child does. The higher the camera is above her head, the more feminine she looks, because it is symbol of physical smallness if she has to look up. This is why girls hold their cameras at arm’s length above their heads to take pictures of themselves, as they know they look more attractive that way.”

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89. “Nothing shatters false beliefs as fast and as thoroughly as ignoring them; act otherwise and experience the evidence you have been avoiding.”

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90. “The book has not been written to make you feel good, but to help you become better.”

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91. “You should never, ever settle and lower your standards, because when you do, you actually make your life harder.”

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92. “All over the world, males worry about whether the woman they want has a boyfriend, but like all other worries, it is just another symptom of low confidence, mixed with bad beliefs about how to treat women well.”

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93. “Males can be beautiful without being attractive to females, and they can be attractive without being beautiful.”

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94. “Many men who are naturally good with women only talk nonsense to them in a flirtatious way, because that is enough to get many women into bed and even to maintain a sexual relationship. This does not require any impressive skill, and that is exactly the point.”

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95. “However, I believe that you should respect women instead and never treat them as another male’s possession or as if they are incapable of making up their own minds and unable to choose whom they want to be with. You should not care whether a woman is single or not, and unless she is extremely happy already, she will not mention her boyfriend or husband if you seem to be a much better man than he is – just as you would not bring up your ugly girlfriend if a stunning woman were interested in you.”

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96. “Whenever you feel you are not getting anywhere with a woman, or that things are moving slowly, it is because you are not advancing. If you ever catch yourself thinking something such as, “I am not getting anywhere with this girl,” or “I do not know if she likes me,” then it is time for you to make a move. She will not do it, not even if she wants you, and if she does make a move then she is seducing you, not the other way around.”

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97. “Start putting yourself first, both figuratively and literary, and begin to think aloud in front of women the same way you do with company you are already comfortable with.”

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98. “As a male, you should expand your body. This means that you should spread out, keep your knees far apart, keep your elbows far apart, and keep your hands far apart. This presentation is masculine; as it exposes the most vulnerable body parts – the chest, wrists, and genitalia – it clearly demonstrates that you have a pair of balls between your legs that you would crush otherwise, plus it is dominant to take up more physical space. Women do the exact opposite;.”

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99. “Second, none of us consciously decides what traits attract us sexually or who we are attracted to. Attraction is an emotion, not a conscious decision.”

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100. “Fourth, leading is the most effective action to take to succeed in all of life’s endeavors. If you are not leading, you cannot be sure you are going in the direction you want to go.”

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