Top 50 Alex North Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “The devil finds work for idle hands. Bad thoughts find empty heads. So he kept his hands busy and his mind occupied.”

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2. “Fear is a problem with film music and films; people want to be conventional, and there’s more commercialism today. If you are not daring in your art, you’re bankrupt.”

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3. “My best film composing experience was with Elia Kazan.”

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4. “I prefer to write music for family films. I like people.”

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5. “Being an old radical, I like films like Spartacus. I could relate to the hero.”

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6. “The United States and Turkey are the only two countries that don’t have some kind of subsidy for the Arts. The whole culture in society has made certain films more acceptable. I turned down so many films in the ’60s and ’70s.”

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7. “When I decided to go to a country that subsidized music, I went to the Soviet Union for two years.”

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8. “Composers today get a TV script on Friday and have to record on Tuesday. It’s just dreadful to impose on gifted talent and expect decent music under these conditions.”

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9. “Tomorrow is always a new day, but there’s never any reason to think it will be a better one.”

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10. “There were good memories here too. Moments that, looking back on them objectively, had been filled with light. The problem was that what happened later cast such a shadow they were hard to see.”

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11. “It was like a candle flame that I wanted to cup with my hands, blow on gently, and bring to brighter life. But, of course, there was always a danger when you did that. Always a risk you would make it go out instead.”

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12. “Jenny had been my first love, and when you’re young you cling to that long past the point when you know it should be over. You know you need to let each other go, but it’s so sad and difficult, and so you don’t until you have to. Until the hurt of keeping someone outweighs the hurt of losing them.”

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13. “The devil finds work for idle hands. Bad thoughts find empty heads.”

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14. “You know you need to let each other go, but it’s so sad and difficult, and so you don’t until you have to. Until the hurt of keeping someone outweighs the hurt of losing them.”

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15. “It always comes back to me for you, doesn’t it? It always ends where it starts.”

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16. “Those woods had always seemed alive and dangerous to me. The deeper you went, the more it began to feel as though you were actually staying still – that the illusion of movement was caused by the land rearranging itself around you, like the squares on a chessboard shifting around the pieces.”

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17. “Perhaps life was just a matter of doing what you thought was best at the time and then living with the consequences as best you could afterward.”

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18. “The world was full of bad men. Full of bad dreams that didn’t always happen when you were asleep.”

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19. “Because that was what parents did, wasn’t it? They wanted to protect their children. They wanted the best lives possible for them. And they expected nothing in return for that.”

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20. “And just as our dreams are shaped by our reality, there are times like these when our lives can be changed by the dreams we’ve had.”

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21. “Sometimes people want things to be more complicated than they really are.”

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22. “But he could read the whole book of his father now and he knew that none of it had ever been about him. His own book was separate, and always had been. He had only ever needed to be himself, and it had just taken time – too much time – to understand that.”

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23. “The butterflies didn’t have a choice, after all. That’s what things do. Even in the toughest of circumstances, they keep living.”

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24. “Battles often make more sense from the sky.”

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25. “When there was something awful that had to be faced, it was better to face it immediately; as bad as the event might be, it would occur regardless, and at least that way you wouldn’t have to endure the anticipation as well.”

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26. “It was an attempt to make an impact on a world that seemed so oblivious to his existence. It stemmed from a desire to be seen. To be noticed. To be loved. Because that was all any child wanted, deep down.”

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27. “Because sometimes really bad things happen to us, and we don’t like to think about them, so they get buried really deep in our heads.”

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28. “Guilt. Fear. Anger. Once loose, any one of them would charge off, dragging the others along like dogs chained in a pack. And that was no good at all.”

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29. “Absence of evidence was not evidence of absence.”

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30. “And while she was sad to see me leave, I think she was also happy that I was heading out into the world, escaping the past and moving forward into a different present without even glancing behind me. Because, however painful it might be, that’s what all good parents have to do in the end.”

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31. “Graveyards might have housed the dead below the ground, but what lay above was always for the living; they were the places where people came to deal with the break between what their lives had once been and what they now were. All the times she had come here, she had only really been visiting herself, and her relationship with the past.”

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32. “In a war, you used any weapon at hand to win an individual battle, and then you regrouped and fought the next one. And the next. All all the ones that followed.”

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33. “It was a daunting prospect, because it was all such a jumble, and there was also so much I didn’t know and perhaps never would. But then again, I wasn’t sure that in itself was a problem. The truth of something can be in the feeling of it as much as the fact.”

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34. “Outside, I clicked the padlock back in place, sealing the butterflies within. It seemed remarkable that they’d survived in there for so long in such fruitless and insubstantial conditions. But as I walked back up the drive to the front of the house, I thought about Jake and me, and I realized that was just what happens. The butterflies didn’t have a choice, after all. That’s what things do. Even in the toughest of circumstances, they keep living.”

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35. “While it might be true that we still loved each other when we argued, it didn’t mean that we loved ourselves.”

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36. “Courage is not the absence of fear, Pete knew. Courage requires fear.”

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37. “It occurred to me that, when my mother died, I would be all that was left of a family I hadn’t known, and for a moment all my adult confidence evaporated and I was left feeling lost and unmoored.”

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38. “Asking why was like diving into a black hole. The deeper you went, the less light you found.”

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39. “He had loved her as deeply as she loved him, but the gift and receipt of love was a language.”

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40. “Why was not necessarily a question that mattered. Motivations, causes, reasons – they almost always turned out to be mundane and disappointing. What explanation could there possibly be for the horror she had seen in the quarry that afternoon that would make sense of it? Asking why was like diving into a black hole. The deeper you went, the less light you found.”

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41. “Back home, I turned on the computer, opened up a blank document in Word, and then saved it under the file name “bad ideas.” I always did that to begin with. Acknowledging it was early days took some of the psychological pressure off. And then, since I’d always been of the mind that making coffee didn’t count as procrastination, I went through to the kitchen and started the kettle boiling, then leaned against the counter and stared out of the window at the back garden.”

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42. “Back then, it felt like my entire life was constrained and controlled by the adults around me, and yet none of them appeared to have noticed the black flower rotting in the middle of the yard. Or else they had decided it was easier to leave it alone – that the grass it was poisoning didn’t matter.”

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43. “When I thought of my mother, it was always as a presence – a role, almost – and it was strange to be faced with a truth that should have been obvious, that she had been someone with her own dreams and aspirations, who had felt the same as I had, and who had once had a life that existed entirely outside of her relationship to me.”

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44. “Adrenaline was a poison; if you didn’t use it up, it used you instead.”

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45. “She remembered the desire to escape from it all – to be anywhere apart from where she was, and to find the person she was meant to be, as though the real her were already out there somewhere, and one day they would meet and shake hands.”

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46. “There were always so many reasons to drink, though. Only ever one real reason not to.”

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47. “That’s what things do. Even in the toughest of circumstances, they keep living.”

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48. “If everyone could see God, how many people would bother going to church?”

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49. “Yes. That’s a sensible way of looking at it. People worry too much about the nature of things. Sometimes it’s better just to go with them.”

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50. “I liked it when people were impressed with my son; it made me feel proud of him. Stupid to think that way, of course – he was a person in his own right, not some accomplishment of mine – but the feeling was always there, and, if anything, with my father it was stronger than usual. I wasn’t sure why.”

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