Top 80 Amy Reed Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “What if I’m so broken I can never do something as basic as feed myself? Do you realize how twisted that is? It amazes me sometimes that humans still exist. We’re just animals, after all. And how can an animal get so removed from nature that it loses the instinct to keep itself alive?”

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2. “What if talking about your feelings doesn’t fix anything? What if what you really need is to make the feelings go away?”

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3. “Never in the history of the world has telling someone to calm down actually helped them calm down,” Erin says.”

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4. “And I am sick and tired of feeling pathetic.”

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5. “I feel like I’m a snow globe and someone shook me up and now every little piece of me is falling back randomly and nothing is ending up where it used to be.”

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6. “All I know is I feel crazy, like I want to cry and laugh and scream at the same time.”

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7. “One small kindness in a sea of cruelty, one word of truth among lies, these are the seeds that can change the world.”

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8. “Even though I’m sleeping again, everything still feels a little rickety, like I’m here but not quite here, like I’m just a stand-in for my real self, like someone could just reach over and pinch me and I’d deflate. I thought I was feeling better, but I don’t know anymore.”

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9. “You can always cram the wrong piece into the puzzle hole if you push hard enough and limit your definition of ’fitting.”

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10. “I am ready even if they aren’t. I am ready to say goodbye.”

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11. “Maybe sometimes you have to leave before you’re ready to let go; sometimes you have to leave before someone is ready to let go of you. That’s the rub of it-if you wait until you’re ready to do everything, you’ll never get anything done.”

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12. “We are no more than our biology, our genetic programming. Nature is harsh and cruel and unsentimental. When you get down to it, boys are predators and girls are prey, and what people call love or even simple attraction is just the drug of hormones, evolved to make the survival of our species slightly less painful.”

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13. “If you are still, no one can hurt you. If you play dead, there is nothing to kill.”

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14. “The youth pastor at our church says virginity is like a flower,” says Krista. “Losing your virginity before marriage is like plucking the petals off a flower. No one wants a flower without petals.” “No offense,” Sam says. “But that’s crap.”

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15. “Do you remember? Do you remember being solid? Do you remember life before the hole? Before you were empty and needed to be filled? There was a time when everything was enough. There was a time you didn’t try to get out of your own skin. Remember?”

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16. “She feels too much. She is a raw nerve and the world is always trying to touch her.”

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17. “I wonder if anybody else feels this way, if anyone in here is as scared as I am. Are they as sad and angry and confused and ashamed? Is that even possible? Is it even possible for one building to hold all that pain?”

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18. “Silence does not mean yes. No can be thought and felt but never said. It can be screamed silently on the inside. It can be in the wordless stone of a clenched fist, fingernails digging into palm. Her lips sealed. Her eyes closed. His body just taking, never asking, never taught to question silence.”

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19. “They know she heard them, but they don’t care, or maybe they even wanted her to. Like she’s not even a person, not someone with feelings, not someone who can get hurt. Just an object. Just something they can use.”

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20. “Do you remember? Do you remember the world before the poison?”

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21. “Our bodies are not toys for you to play with. They are not pieces in a game for you to manipulate and trick. We are not notches on your bedposts.”

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22. “Maybe someday you’ll realize that we are both solid despite the cracks.”

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23. “Because the girls are unstoppable. They are a force. They are a single body.”

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24. “She says nothing to Pastor Skinner about how Jesus fought for what he believed in, how he stood up against corrupt people in power, how he showed women kindness and respect at a time in history when they received little of either. But that is not the Jesus who Pastor Skinner is talking about. In fact, the pastor isn’t talking much about Jesus at all.”

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25. “Humans are capable of a lot more than they know.”

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26. “I was trying to be brave. I was trying to let people in. I was trying. I am who I am today because of my messes. Because I’ve survived them. Because I’ve written about them. Because I’ve learned from them, because I keep searching for new tools to clean them up, because I keep trying to heal.”

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27. “I’m not the girl they remember. I’m not anyone they know.”

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28. “He backs out the door batting those eyelashes I thought were so sexy when I first met him. Now I want to pluck them out one by one.”

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29. “You get to a certain point and you just realize there’s no use in trying to pretend your normal.”

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30. “Imagine everything feeling wrong. Imagine a hole in your chest the size of God.”

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31. “And that’s when it hits me, the punch in the stomach, the carving out of my insides. That’s when I realize that none of this is a movie. I will not go out with a bang. There is no ending. There are no credits. I will wake up and I will keep waking up and this will always be waiting for me.”

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32. “Everyone’s always making fun of him and calling him crazy behind his back, but I can kind of understand how someone would end up that way. I mean, if no one ever pays attention to you telling the truth, then it probably makes sense to try lying for a change.”

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33. “And my name sounds like flowers in his mouth.”

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34. “Because unlike boys, girls turn inward. They hide. They adapt, even if it hurts. Because they are not screaming, people assume they do not suffer.”

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35. “Sometimes it’s the freaks of nature who end up being the strongest.”

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36. “I feel myself floating without the weight of him on my body.”

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37. “But just because she’s not helpless doesn’t mean she doesn’t need help.”

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38. “I figure it’s better to make a decision and do something rather than just sitting around thinking about it forever. Then at least I’ll be moving.”

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39. “What Erin wants to do with pain is fix it, make it go away, and sometimes that’s not what other people want.”

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40. “It is a place where hurting people is too easy, and where helping them is too hard. It is a place where the darkness is winning, where the darkness will always win.”

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41. “No one knows what to do with me now that I’m alive. There’s no protocol for how to treat someone who comes back from the dead. There are so many books about grief and loss, about saying good-bye to the people you love. But there is no book about taking back that good-bye.”

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42. “But Erin has empathy, lots of it, so much it hurts sometimes, so much that other people’s pain turns into her own pain and makes her completely incapable of doing anything useful for anyone. That’s why it’s easier to avoid it than to engage. It’s easier to try to ignore it than try to comfort whoever’s hurting, because usually that backfires and makes things worse.”

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43. “Is this what nice is? Letting people think things that aren’t true just to avoid hurting their feelings? Being nice is dishonest.”

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44. “The problem with humans is they’re too enamored with themselves, and with mammals in general. As if big brains and live birth are necessarily signs of superiority. As if the hairy, air-breathing world is the only one that matters.”

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45. “Everyone gets the message when they’re a kid that girls like pink and boys like blue, but she’s taken it to a whole new level, like being a girl is her religion and wearing pink is some kind of commandment.”

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46. “Me, I’m my own brand of perfect, I guess. The kind that has to work a little harder than everyone else.”

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47. “Total silence would be better. Total silence I could get used to.”

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48. “This place has its own mini version of a cafeteria, complete with a couple of old ladies in hairnets dishing out tasteless gruel from behind a counter. The food looks like it’s been sitting out for days, and there’s always a weird smell like floor wax and soggy vegetables.”

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49. “Home of so many girls. Home of so many almost-women, waiting for their skin to fit.”

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50. “This is the downside of being complete. Others want what you have. They covet your doneness.”

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