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Top 70 Ashley C. Ford Quotes (2024 Update)

Ashley C. Ford Quote: “We had been in a relationship for six years, and were best friends for longer. He was my safest place, and he knew that was the case, had seen it for himself. We didn’t know, back then, there are about a million ways to love and be loved by another person. We thought what we had, the way we had it, was the only way it could be. We were stuck.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “My mother wasn’t perfect. Our relationship was complicated, and difficult. She was my imperfect mother. We were two different people, and found that hard to accept in one another. But I was hers and she was mine. That’s how it had always been. Who would I be, if not hers? I didn’t want to be without her.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I was an anxious driver. I was afraid of highways, and driving alone anywhere more than thirty minutes away scared me. Operating a vehicle is a lesson in individual control and mutual trust. I was skeptical of both.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “We were a small underfunded school full of poor underserved kids, and even when we fought, we knew we were in it together and that we were all we had.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “When she corrected me, she did so with obvious care, and that counted for a lot with me. Kids can always tell the difference between adults who want to empower them, and adults who want to overpower them. She was the former.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “Don’t. Ever. Give. A. Man. Your. Money.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “We don’t give up on our people. We don’t stop loving them.” She looked into my face, her eyes watering at the bottoms. “Not even when we’re burning alive.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I did not know that there are miles between running out of things to say, and running out of the strength to say them.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I was tempted, as I always am, to take the bait when my mother offers me empathy. Tempted by my fantastical belief that one day I will lower my walls, and she will do the same. Then I end up blaming myself for not remembering to stick to the conversational paths offering the least resistance, furious at myself for veering too far into the unexplored or exiled.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “It reminded me of my father’s letters telling me I was the best, the greatest, the most beautiful, and the only one. I didn’t believe a word, but I believed that someone else did, and as long as I could maintain that, it would be enough for me.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I learned to carry the secrets of my badness silently and alone. There would be no more confessions from me. Whoever wanted to know how bad I could be would have to get close enough to find out, and nobody tried.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “Despite everything my father had done, I was still so eager to be claimed by him. To be protected by him. To the world he was a bad man. To me, he was my dad who did a bad thing. I was still trying to figure out what it meant to love someone who had done such a bad thing, but I did love him. And that was enough for me to show up, and say so to his face.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “When I was four years old, I taught myself to lie awake until morning. I wanted the sunrise, and I only had to stay awake to have her. When children are small, our desires seem small, even if we want the sky. Anything we want seems to be only a matter of time and effort away. It’s too early to imagine what’s already holding you back.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “Feeling any of it felt like the beginning of losing control, and losing control felt like certain death in my body, if not my mind. If I didn’t process the feeling, I wouldn’t feel it, and if I didn’t feel it, it couldn’t kill me.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “No matter what you wanted to hide from yourself, you couldn’t hide it from the people whose particular brand of bent matched yours. The effort was moot. Weird kids always find each other.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “She knew what I wanted, and she wanted me to know it would not be mine. We were locked in a power struggle, not that I would have known to call it that, and I was confused because I did not want power from my mother. I wanted her to acknowledge the pain in my body and heart. I wanted it to mean something to her because she loved me, and I knew it, and I couldn’t understand why she couldn’t just say sorry. What was so wrong with me that I didn’t deserve that?”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “Yes, Ashley, she told me. Now why are you still in my face?” She knew what I wanted, and she wanted me to know it would not be mine. We were locked in a power struggle, not that I would have known to call it that, and I was confused because I did not want power from my mother. I wanted her to acknowledge the pain in my body and heart.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “It still felt good to be apologized to, no matter who it was meant for. Up until that point, no one had ever apologized for hitting me. I liked the way it made me feel, like I was worth feeling sorry over after someone hurt me, even if they didn’t mean it. Like it mattered that I hurt.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “When my life was new, I understood in my bones how little it mattered what anybody else was doing, or what they thought about what I was doing. I believed my bones then.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I’ve heard people describe panic as something that rises up inside them. For me, panic radiates in the threads of my muscles, bangs in the back of my skull, twists my stomach, and sets my skin on fire. It doesn’t rise or fall. It spreads.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “We smiled at each other, big real smiles, and I forgot anything and anyone else.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I am freer than you and that is worth all of the things I don’t have.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “My mother never apologized.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “Brett was me because being me was too much sometimes, something I’d forgotten until that part was ripped away.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “When children are small, our desires seem small, even if we want the sky. Anything we want seems to be only a matter of time and effort away. It’s too early to imagine what’s already holding you back.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “The sun had risen for me -for me alone- and turned the sky into the painted milk of a soggy bowl of leftover off-brand Lucky Charms. The soft roses and lavenders went on to burn blood orange on the underbellies of clouds. I told my shadow I wanted to keep the sun. My shadow whispered back the instructions for making a memory. I watched the light of day ascend until it hurt my eyes, then I closed them, and taught myself to remember.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “For many years, I just didn’t try. The few times I did, for special occasions or at the behest of my grandmother, felt unnatural and like everyone could see how uncomfortable I was in my skin. Even if I looked glamorous in the moment, it seemed I was out of my body and keenly aware of everyone else’s eyes on me. Being on anyone’s radar because of how I looked made me feel like I was only seconds from ridicule.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “There was Mama, the loving mother we knew before whatever sparked her ire, and then there was Mother who showed up in her place.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “Ashley, you’re the only person who has to live in your skin, and wake up with the consequences of your choices. That’s why you can’t let other people make the big choices for you. You have to do what it feels right to do, and you can’t let anybody stop you.” I heard the stifled smile again. “Not even me.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “When you write about you and me? Just tell the truth. Your truth. Don’t worry about nobody’s feelings, especially not mine. You gotta be tough to tell your truth, but it’s the only thing worth doing next to loving somebody.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “If my mother and I shared anything without having carefully considered it, it was this undying ember of a dream that we will someday, somehow find ourselves reaping the bounty of a blooming mother-daughter bond, the roots of which we both refuse to tend in the meantime.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I knew how to disappear. Sometimes my mother needed me to disappear.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “My friends were usually utterly charmed by my mother – she was her most magnetic around them, or anyone else on the outside really.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I did not mind getting hurt as much as I minded being surprised by the pain. I wanted to see it coming.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “A swell of gratitude for my grandmother, her photos, and her stories filled my chest. My father loved me, and my mother protected me.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “These things catch fire without letting each other go.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “The feeling started in my hand and creeped out into my already shifting body. I was not safe. Nothing about me was safe from drowning in the open air. It was my first panic attack. My Grandpa watched it happen until it was over, then he drove me home.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “Grandpa told me stories that would get hung up old, useless, and dry against my ribs, marking me as his kin.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “When you don’t grow up with a certain kind of affection, even if you know you’re worthy of it, it can be hard to accept in adulthood.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “My mother, who only cried like the tears were being ripped from her face, blubbered while she yelled at her boyfriend.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I wanted to assert my own style, which posed a problem, because I didn’t really have any style. Grandma would shake her head at me and say, “Someday baby, you’ll really understand how to dress. I’m just gonna pray on that for you.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “He hadn’t grabbed or taken anything from me to make his point. He had offered me a bit of himself, the way he saw me, and I was as touched as anyone could be by the gesture.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “My mother didn’t know I could do bad things and still have the sun. She didn’t know I could keep my own truth and memories inside. But I knew.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “To the world he was a bad man. To me, he was my dad who did a bad thing.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “We wanted to be good, as all children do, but as young Black children learn sooner than others, we don’t all get the chance to be seen that way.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I thought Grandpa broke and ate everything that might love him. I didn’t want to sit here and learn to do the same. But I was already here, gutting a fish like man as I knew what that meant.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I’d told myself before I got there, that I would refer to him as “Dad” because I was not a child. I was a grown woman, and I was pretty sure grown women didn’t call their fathers “Daddy.” But in that moment, I felt like someone’s little girl. And I’d been waiting a long time to feel like somebody’s daughter.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “I learned to carry the secrets of my badness silently and alone.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “We were lovers who lived together, trying to find out if we had whatever turned two people in love into the kind of family either of us wanted.”
Ashley C. Ford Quote: “Truthfully, I’d been reading for school or to keep up with conversation for a long time. It felt good to read toward answers to the questions in my head, a familiar source of solace I hadn’t tapped in too long. It made me miss home even though I didn’t want to be there.”
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