Top 70 Aspen Matis Quotes (2025 Update)

1. “I had stripped naked in front of men. Drunk. In morning’s somber brightness I tried to remember why I had done it. Total exposure had seemed like the only way to be seen more clearly, heard, but now it seemed the opposite: a wild act that would define me.”

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2. “Water was liquid silver, water was gold. It was clarity – a sacred thing.”

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3. “Seamless like a fall leaf changing color, my will switched powerfully.”

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4. “Smiling at an echo of his voice on my mind’s stage, I felt the void of all I hadn’t said.”

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5. “Every person exists in their own shallow bowl, and they can’t see over the rim,” he explained. “But they think that their world is the world – the truth. When in reality, no two bowls are identical, and all people are stuck trapped in their own.”

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6. “Chinese proverb says that a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. This journey had begun with the coercion of my body, with my own wild hope.”

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7. “Bright yellow lemons twinkled in the twilight sun on a terrace tree, and far beyond my window, San Francisco lay, flat like a pastel toy.”

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8. “Go quietly, alone; no harm will befall you.”

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9. “Thus we joined spirit with Joan Didion and Patti Smith and about a million other dreamers who, against all odds, had landed here, moving on fumes of reveries, to New York City.”

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10. “That evening after dinner, I picked lemons from the tree in the backyard, the fruits golden bulbs under the rising moon.”

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11. “And if I’d be left alone in the woods again, I smiled to think how I’d find new gifts and thrive. At the end of a long trail and the beginning of the rest of my life, I was committed to always loving myself. I would put myself in that win-win situation.”

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12. “The bravest thing I ever did was leave there. The next bravest thing I did was come back, to make myself heard.”

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13. “Because in the wake of devastation, growth becomes the only survival option. In.”

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14. “Day vivified the city, and we found a rogue path through the dunes down to the beach, the foam edge of teal sea. The whole sky celestial sapphire.”

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15. “The trees were friendly, they gave me rest and shadowed refuge. Slipping through them, I felt safe and competent. My whole body was occupied. I had little energy to think or worry.”

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16. “Loss is the shocking catalyst of transformation.”

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17. “Walking back home that afternoon, I felt more aware of the poverty and opulence on every sidewalk – we brushed past a raven-haired lady with a thousand-dollar handbag and a skinny child with toeless shoes begging for change.”

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18. “I saw for the first time that I could stop giving people the power to make me feel disrespected. In my anger I began to see the absurdity of allowing this boy to shame me.”

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19. “In the small hours of a cold February dawn, Justin and I walked to the Pacific, high cliffs eroding over the ocean, crashed and crashed by lapping salty waves. Their spray misted us in day’s young purple air, exhilarating. Walking the Golden Gate Bridge, our world receding, pale gold sunrise lit thin fog, morning coloring us like a faded fairy tale.”

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20. “Childhood is a wilderness.”

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21. “Under gold clouds, he pushed the limits of my body, setting a faster pace – some days surpassing forty rugged miles, unstopping through morning’s thick peach haze; noon’s warmth; red evening sun.”

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22. “The first time I walked alone, thirteen, I was terrified. A twig snapped under my shoe; my heart revved wildly. I’d walked these sidewalks a thousand times with my mom, yet I was scared by all her fears. Don’t talk to strangers, walk quickly past parked cars, look both ways, all ways, always. Be alert. There was so damn much to remember to stay safe.”

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23. “In the aftermath of destruction, a silence settles – the stillness of fresh loss. People’s cheerful chatter is fainter, the blue color of sky dimmer; now that horror is undeniable and feels inescapable, the value of life seems lessened.”

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24. “Beneath hot sun, desert roses bloomed. Under cold moon, I still refused to.”

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25. “College had always felt more like an anchor than a kite, a tedious and time-eating entrapment. Studying for pointless tests stole away nights, rote memorization disappearing the freedom of creation.”

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26. “I flushed – this time not in shame – but in rage.”

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27. “Vividly seeing that love had always been my mother’s guide, I could finally release my anger – let go of it there in the woods – and move past it.”

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28. “Swallowed up in the belly of the whale of infatuation, I now needed to distract myself in order to stay happy. Because our unknowable future shadowed the countenance of my soul.”

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29. “The structure crouched like a great stone tiger on a slope of the East Bay, resting on the cliffside with calm grace.”

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30. “When we apply the lessons we’ve struggled for our whole lives to learn to the lives of people we love, our love becomes judgment – which is toxic. Our fear our daughters will fail leads us to fail them.”

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31. “I realized that the most empowering important thing was actually simply taking care of myself.”

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32. “In lovesickness we had found a common language.”

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33. “But in creative fields, a degree is a prerequisite for nothing.”

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34. “Nights alone in my yellow kitchen, I made myself hot chocolate. I missed my mother. In my window, maple leaves rusted, young fall blooming.”

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35. “The only comfort I found was in planning to disappear.”

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36. “We spent June and July in the Rockies, growing stronger, feeling feral in the untamed range of mountains.”

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37. “Newly married, Justin and I evacuated the woods where we had once lived as nomads. We would no longer pass sweet breezy days in our sleek tent, in mossy hills and sun, showering in waterfalls. That era was now our memory, a shared dream.”

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38. “I walked, floated, lighter – forty miles, my biggest day yet. I’d lifted the burden of guilt and shame off my body. I held my new hard-won wisdom, the gift three months of walking in the wilderness had carried me to: compassion for my younger self – forgiveness for my innocence.”

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39. “I wanted to come close to fierce wild things. They seemed prehistoric, rare and sacred.”

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40. “Spirit dancing, I envisioned a place inside this energetic city, ours: a classic townhouse on a steep street with expansive views of the Pacific, the magenta siding sun-faded – a third-story perch, thick platinum haze embracing our new home.”

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41. “It was heartbreaking to realize how we can fail the people we most love without even trying.”

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42. “When tomorrow broke, our hillside home filled up with honeyed light, a fish tank.”

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43. “I felt unready to hold myself responsible for the decision if I slept with him.”

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44. “I needed only to allow myself to know what I already knew.”

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45. “We walked back to his revived house in tender silence, the dry gold land freckled with young pines and red flowers.”

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46. “On this walk I’d had so much time and space to actually figure out who I was without my mother’s influence. I understood now: the things that my mother had found made her happy were not the same as the things that made me happy. And I understood: that was okay.”

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47. “The entire time, he’d only ever looked at my body, never at my face, his empty eyes hungry, never seeing me at all. I wasn’t the presence of a person, but a body. I could have said anything, he wouldn’t have heard me. He’d never responded, not by stopping, not with his words.”

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48. “I no longer needed to peel myself of my skin, or to hide. To Dash the colorless ephemeral things that existed just beneath my surface were as vivid as the beauty marks he traced on my cheek.”

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49. “I could not deny that in this attractive city, without compelling assignments or any deadlines to reach for, all painful catalysts for growth had been eliminated, erased from my existence like the rogue lines in a sketch – the unexpected marks that make the picture’s expression passionate and real, gone now. Living here, I was growing complacent again, seduced by a stagnant state of mind I hated to indulge –.”

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50. “Because – as I’d discovered – loneliness is not a function of company, but rather it is a consequence: an unpleasant symptom of a needy state of mind that desperately seeks to extract happiness from a source outside itself.”

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