Top 500 Bell Hooks Quotes (2024 Update)
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51. “To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.”

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52. “The word “love” is most often defined as a noun, yet al the more astute theorists of love acknowledge that we would all love better if we used it as a verb.”

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53. “To begin by always thinking of love as an action rather than a feeling is one way in which anyone using the word in this manner automatically assumes accountability and responsibility.”

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54. “People with healthy self-esteem do not need to create pretend identities.”

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55. “Spirituality and spiritual life give us the strength to love.”

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56. “Our freedom is sweet. It will be sweeter when we are all free.”

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57. “Representation is a crucial location of struggle for any exploited and oppressed people asserting subjectivity and decolonization of the mind.”

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58. “Of all the definitions of love that abound in our universe, a special favorite of mine is “the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth”.”

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59. “The most basic activism we can have in our lives is to live consciously in a nation living in fantasies. Living consciously is living with a core of healthy self-esteem. You will face reality, you will not delude yourself.”

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60. “The capacity to love is tied to being able to be awake, to being able to move out of yourself and be with someone else in a manner that is not about your desire to possess them, but to be with them, to be in union and communion.”

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61. “We have to constantly critique imperialist white supremacist patriarchal culture because it is normalized by mass media and rendered unproblematic.”

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62. “Whenever domination is present, love is lacking.”

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63. “Contrary to what we may have been taught to think, unnecessary and unchosen suffering wounds us but need not scar us for life. It does mark us. What we allow the mark of our suffering to become is in our own hands.”

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64. “Life-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.”

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65. “I am passionate about everything in my life – first and foremost, passionate about ideas. And that’s a dangerous person to be in this society, not just because I’m a woman, but because it’s such a fundamentally anti-intellectual, anti-critical thinking society. – bell hooks.”

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66. “All too often women believe it is a sign of commitment, an expression of love, to endure unkindness or cruelty, to forgive and forget. In actuality, when we love rightly we know that the healthy, loving response to cruelty and abuse is putting ourselves out of harm’s way.”

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67. “Feminism has never emerged from the women who are most victimized by sexist oppression; women who are daily beaten down, mentally, physically, and spiritually – women who are powerless to change their condition in life. They are a silent majority.”

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68. “To be loving is to be open to grief, to be touched by sorrow, even sorrow that is unending.”

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69. “Stereotypes abound when there is distance. They are an invention, a pretense that one knows when the steps that would make real knowing possible cannot be taken or are not allowed.”

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70. “When we love children, we acknowledge by our every action that they are not property, that they have rights – that we respect and uphold their rights.”

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71. “Justice is possible without equality, I believe, because of compassion and understanding. If I have compassion, then if I have more than you, which is unequal, I will still do the just thing by you.”

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72. “Embracing love ethic means that we utilize all dimensions of love – “care, commitment, trust, responsibility, respect and knowledge” – in our everyday lives.”

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73. “Knowing love or the hope of knowing love is the anchor that keeps us from falling into that sea of despair.”

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74. “Only grown-ups think that the things children say come out of nowhere. We know they come from the deepest parts of ourselves.”

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75. “The power of patriarchy has been to make maleness feared and to make men feel that it is better to be feared that to be loved. Whether they can confess this or not, men know that just is not true.”

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76. “To me, a woman can’t be a feminist just because she is a woman. She is a feminist because she begins to divest herself of sexist ways of thinking and revolutionizes her consciousness.”

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77. “Education as the practice of freedom affirms healthy selfesteem in students as it promotes their capacity to be aware and live consciously. It teaches them to reflect and act in ways that further self-actualization, rather than conformity to the status quo.”

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78. “The rage of the oppressed is never the same as the rage of the privileged.”

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79. “To be truly visionary we have to root our imagination in our concrete reality while simultaneously imagining possibilities beyond that reality.”

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80. “Love does have the power to redeem but only if we are ready for redemption. Love saves us only if we want to be saved.”

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81. “Overall women in our society are forgetting the value and power of sisterhood. Renewed feminist movement must once again raise the banner high to proclaim anew “Sistehood is powerful.”

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82. “It’s in the act of having to do things that you don’t want to that you learn something about moving past the self. Past the ego.”

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83. “Do not expect to receive the love from someone else you do not give yourself.”

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84. “Within a capitalist consumer society, the cult of personality has the power to subsume ideas, to make the person, the personality into the product and not the work itself.”

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85. “There must exist a paradigm, a practical model for social change that includes an understanding of ways to transform consciousness that are linked to efforts to transform structures.”

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86. “And if one’s goal is self-recovery, to be well in one’s soul, honesty and realistically confronting loneliness is party of the healing process.”

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87. “A generous heart is always open, always ready to receive our going and coming. In the midst of such love we need never fear abandonment. This is the most precious gift true love offers – the experience of knowing we always belong.”

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88. “A good teacher is someone who can help you to get back to a teacher within.”

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89. “If I do not speak in a language that can be understood there is little chance for a dialogue.”

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90. “Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other and it takes time to know each other.”

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91. “When men and women punish each other for truth telling, we reinforce the notion that lies are better.”

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92. “I came to theory because I was hurting – the pain within me was so intense that I could not go on living. I came to theory desperate, wanting to comprehend – to grasp what was happening around and within me. Most importantly, I wanted to make the hurt go away. I saw in theory then a location for healing.”

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93. “Multiculturalism compels educators to recognize the narrow boundaries that have shaped the way knowledge is shared in the classroom. It forces us all to recognize our complicity in accepting and perpetuating biases of any kind.”

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94. “In a culture of domination, preoccupation with victimage is inevitable.”

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95. “The heart of justice is truth telling, seeing ourselves and the world the way it is rather than the way we want to be.”

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96. “The world demands that you work for it, make families, provide, take no time to listen to your own heart beating.”

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97. “What we cannot imagine cannot come into being.”

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98. “Young people are cynical about love. Ultimately, cynicism is the great mask of the disappointed and betrayed heart.”

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99. “In our rapidly changing society we can count on only two things that will never change. What will never change is the will to change and the fear of change. It is the will to change that motivates us to seek help. It is the fear of change that motivates us to resist the very help we seek. – Harriet Lerner, The Dance of Intimacy.”

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100. “Love empowers us to live fully and die well. Death becomes, then, not an end to life but a part of living.”

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