Top 500 Bell Hooks Quotes (2025 Update)
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101. “Class is rarely talked about in the United States; nowhere is there a more intense silence about the reality of class differences than in educational settings.”

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102. “Shame produces trauma. Trauma produces paralysis.”

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103. “Only love can heal the wounds of the past. However, the intensity of our woundedness often leads to a closing of the heart, making it impossible for us to give or receive the love that is given to us.”

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104. “The search for love continued even in the face of great odds.”

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105. “As long as women are using class or race power to dominate other women, feminist sisterhood cannot be fully realized.”

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106. “Feminist pedagogy can only be liberatory if it is truly revolutionary because the mechanisms of appropriation within white supremacist, capitalist patriarchy are able to co-opt with tremendous ease that which merely appears radical or subversive.”

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107. “Knowledge rooted in experience shapes what we value and as a consequence how we know what we know as well as how we use what we know.”

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108. “We cannot teach boys that “real men” either do not feel or do not express feelings, then expect boys to feel comfortable getting in touch with their feelings.”

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109. “Abuse and neglect negate love. Care and affirmation, the opposite of abuse and humiliation, are the foundation of love. No one can rightfully claim to be loving when behaving abusively.”

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110. “Materialism creates a world of narcissism in which the focus of life is solely on acquisition and consumption.”

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111. “Writing and performing should deepen the meaning of words, should illuminate, transfix and transform.”

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112. “The soul of our politics is the commitment to ending domination.”

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113. “Individuals who want to believe that there is no fulfillment in love, that true love does not exist, cling to these assumptions because this despair is actually easier to face than the reality that love is a real fact of life but is absent from their lives.”

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114. “Growing up is, at heart, the process of learning to take responsibility for whatever happens in your life. To choose growth is to embrace a love that heals.”

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115. “Yesterday I was thinking about the whole idea of genius and creative people, and the notion that if you create some magical art, somehow that exempts you from having to pay attention to the small things.”

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116. “To be true to patriarchy we are all taught that we must keep men’s secrets.”

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117. “When culture is based on a dominator model, not only will it be violent, but it will frame all relationships as power struggles.”

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118. “Since we live in a society that promotes faddism and temporary superficial adaptation of different values, we are easily convinced that changes have occurred in arenas where there has been little or no change.”

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119. “Cultures of domination rely on the cultivation of fear as a way to ensure obedience.”

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120. “I feel like there is always something trying to pull us back into sleep, that there is this sort of seductive quality in all the hedonistic pleasures that pull on us.”

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121. “Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified. To know love we have to invest time and commitment... ‘dreaming that love will save us, solve all our problems or provide a steady state of bliss or security only keeps us stuck in wishful fantasy, undermining the real power of the love – which is to transform us.’ Many people want love to function like a drug, giving them an immediate and sustained high. They want to do nothing, just passively receive the good feeling.”

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122. “Healthy families resolve conflict without coercion, shaming, or violence.”

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123. “Men do not wound women only when they act violently and abusively. They wound us when they fail to protect our freedom in every aspect of our daily lives.”

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124. “In patriarchal culture males are not allowed simply to be who they are and to glory in their unique identity. Their value is always determined by what they do. In an antipatriarchal culture males do not have to prove their value and worth. They know from birth that simply being gives them value, the right to be cherished and loved. I.”

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125. “I’m so disturbed when my women students behave as though they can only read women, or black students behave as though they can only read blacks, or white students behave as though they can only identify with a white writer.”

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126. “Sexism has always been a political stance mediating social domination, enabling white men and black men to share a common sensibility about sex roles and the importance of male domination.”

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127. “When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintain commitment.”

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128. “Because we have learned to believe negativity is more realistic, it appears more real than any positive voice.”

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129. “When we understand love as the will to nurture our own and another’s spiritual growth, it becomes clear that we cannot claim to love if we are hurtful and abusive. Love and abusive cannot coexist. Abuse and neglect are, by definition, the opposites of nurturance and care.”

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130. “Lying has become so much the accepted norm that people lie even when it would be simpler to tell the truth.”

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131. “If we give our children sound self-love, they will be able to deal with whatever life puts before them.”

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132. “Justice demands integrity. It’s to have a moral universe – not only know what is right or wrong but to put things in perspective, weigh things. Justice is different from violence and retribution; it requires complex accounting.”

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133. “Imagine how much easier it would be for us to learn how to love if we began with a shared definition.”

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134. “Imagine living in a world where there is no domination, where females and males are not alike or even always equal, but where a vision of mutuality is the ethos shaping our interaction.”

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135. “If any female feels she need anything beyond herself to legitimate and validate her existence, she is already giving away her power to be self-defining, her agency.”

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136. “Redeemed and restored, love returns us to the promise of everlasting life. When we love we can let our hearts speak.”

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137. “No level of individual self-actualization alone can sustain the marginalized and oppressed. We must be linked to collective struggle, to communities of resistance that move us outward, into the world.”

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138. “Living simply makes loving simple.”

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139. “One of the things that we must do as teachers is twirl around and around, and find out what works with the situation that we’re in. Our models might not work. And that twirling, changing, is part of the empowerment.”

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140. “Like desire, language disrupts, refuses to be contained within boundaries.”

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141. “The true teacher is within us. A good teacher is someone who can help you to go back and touch the true teacher within, because you already have the insight within you.”

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142. “The one person who will never leave us, whom we will never lose, is ourself. Learning to love our female selves is where our search for love must begin.”

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143. “The political core of any movement for freedom in the society has to have the political imperative to protect free speech.”

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144. “I’m tired of the naked, raped, beaten black woman body. I want to see an image of black femaleness that alters our universe in some way.”

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145. “Echoing the work of Erich Fromm, he defines love as “the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth.”

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146. “In the dominator model the pursuit of external power, the ability to manipulate and control others, is what matters most. When culture is based on a dominator model, not only will it be violent but it will frame all relationships as power struggles.”

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147. “To indoctrinate boys into the rules of patriarchy, we force them to feel pain and to deny their feelings.”

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148. “Most of us did not learn when we were young that our capacity to be self-loving would be shaped by the work we do and whether that work enhances our well-being.”

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149. “When we see love as the will to nurture one’s own or another’s spiritual growth, revealed through acts of care, respect, knowing, and assuming responsibility, the foundation of all love in our life is the same. There is no special love exclusively reserved for romantic partners. Genuine love is the foundation of our engagement with ourselves, with family, with friends, with partners, with everyone we choose to love.”

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150. “A male who has divested of male privilege, who has embraced feminist politics, is a worthy comrade in struggle, in no way a threat to feminism, whereas a female who remains wedded to sexist thinking and behavior infiltrating feminist movement is a dangerous threat.”

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