Top 120 Bianca Sparacino Quotes (2024 Update)
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51. “Forgive yourself for the way you held yourself back because you didn’t believe in your own potential, because you didn’t believe in your capacity to take up space.”

— Bianca Sparacino

52. “I hope you have the courage to know when to end things. And I hope you have the courage to see endings as beautiful, transformative stepping stones.”

— Bianca Sparacino

53. “Trust me when I say that one day it’s going to hit you – that you woke up happy, that you’re smiling for no reason, that your hands aren’t shaking anymore. One day, you’re going to remember what it was like to be you a year ago, or three years ago, or even a week ago, and you’re going to be so glad that you fought. You’re going to be so glad that you kept going.”

— Bianca Sparacino

54. “Sometimes, it’s extremely difficult to see change, to see that difference within your own soul and your own desires as a good thing. But it is a good thing; it’s the best thing, because it means that you’re learning. It means you’re asking questions.”

— Bianca Sparacino

55. “We live as if we are promised the experiences and the potential we are chasing, we live as if we have control over what happens to us. But we don’t, and that is liberating, because it is pressing – there is urgency within the lesson. It wakes you up.”

— Bianca Sparacino

56. “Check on the people in your life who are tender, the ones who are always open to give so much of who they are for those who need it. Check on the people in your life who love with every ounce of their being, who feel deeply and care deeply, and try to fix and mend and make sure that those around them are okay. Please, just check on the people in your life who are brave, who are soft for this world. Check on the people in your life who protect others at all costs.”

— Bianca Sparacino

57. “Are there any rules when it comes to love? There is just one: Let it change you. Let it leave you better than you were before.”

— Bianca Sparacino

58. “Do not seek familiarity, do not keep searching for your past in your future. Trust what comes.”

— Bianca Sparacino

59. “It’s okay to slow down. It’s okay to take the time you need. You are in no rush to figure out your own soul. It’s never too late to start over, it’s never too late to chance your mind, it’s never too late to redirect yourself, to replace the dreams you thought you wanted for the ones that genuinely excite and challenge you.”

— Bianca Sparacino

60. “If you were capable of feeling so much towards those who may not have always been gentle with your heart, imagine how beautiful love will be when it is right – imagine how beautiful love will be when it stays.”

— Bianca Sparacino

61. “Trust me when I say they didn’t leave you because they didn’t love you. They left you because they never learned that they could be better than their past.”

— Bianca Sparacino

62. “Lose yourself in books, in art, in the haze of new horizons. Lose yourself in curiosity, in knowledge, in passion. Lose yourself in feeling it all; lose yourself in the world, in the stories and the lessons it has to teach you, but never lose yourself in love; never lose yourself in another person. You are your own home – please don’t ever forget that.”

— Bianca Sparacino

63. “You have to accept that sometimes beautiful things end, that sometimes people leave, that sometimes two human beings don’t beat the odds, and you have to find closure in that.”

— Bianca Sparacino

64. “There is a resounding level of bravery to be found in being the person who believes in the light, even when they cannot see it.”

— Bianca Sparacino

65. “You guard yourself from sadness, not realizing that you have closed yourself off to all of the happiness the world is trying to give to you. Stay open; it is how the light gets in.”

— Bianca Sparacino

66. “When the weight of living hangs heavy on your spine, you must remind yourself: Other people feel this, too.”

— Bianca Sparacino

67. “The love you deserve will choose you just as confidently as you choose it.”

— Bianca Sparacino

68. “Nothing that is meant for you will ever get away.”

— Bianca Sparacino

69. “If every form of nature looked the same we wouldn’t marvel in its beauty. If every mountain overlooked a parallel scene, if every flower bloomed in uninspired ways, the Earth would not steal us of our breath. Use this as a lesson. Your eyes, your hands, your marvelous smile – those are all your unique contribution to the matchless beauty of nature. You are a stunning rarity; you don’t need to be fixed.”

— Bianca Sparacino

70. “Do not convince yourself that your suffering was futile, that your scars are simply scars instead of stories. Do not keep your past suspended like an anchor in the back of your throat, for it is time to speak. I promise you – the voice you think is simply just a whisper, is actually made of brazen thunder. It will bellow through the bones of those who need it, it will clap within the veins of a seeking heart...”

— Bianca Sparacino

71. “Even the strongest souls gets exhausted.”

— Bianca Sparacino

72. “How they make you feel says a lot about them and nothing about you.”

— Bianca Sparacino

73. “What a shame it is – that we are so quick to find a soul mate before we take the time to find, and truly understand, our own souls.”

— Bianca Sparacino

74. “Closure is a way that we hold on when we don’t want to let go.”

— Bianca Sparacino

75. “You have to keep doing the work – not just physically, but emotionally. You have to learn about who you are on a foundational level, you have to understand what you deeply value, what ignites your soul, what makes you want to get up in the morning, and you have to choose that every single day.”

— Bianca Sparacino

76. “Do not be ashamed of what your survival looks like.”

— Bianca Sparacino

77. “Remember what you are made of the next time you think you are bulletproof. You are white bone and silken flesh; your heart is made of gold and glass. Stop trying to make yourself indestructible – like any soft creature it is in your nature to break, like any soft creature it is in your nature to heal.”

— Bianca Sparacino

78. “Forgive yourself for changing. Forgive yourself for being a different person than you were a year ago or three months ago or even a week ago. Forgive yourself for wanting different things, and for maybe stepping away from the goals or the dreams or the people you fought to manifest in your life.”

— Bianca Sparacino

79. “You wake up every single day with the opportunity to start feeling again.”

— Bianca Sparacino

80. “You are not falling behind – you are falling into yourself. So please, keep going. Everything that is meant to be yours will be yours. It will come. It will come.”

— Bianca Sparacino

81. “If you are ever going to survive, if you are ever going to come out of the chaos, you have to collect the moments that have inspired you deeply in life and fold them into yourself every night for safekeeping.”

— Bianca Sparacino

82. “You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space.”

— Bianca Sparacino

83. “Forgive yourself for giving your heart to those who could not love it or value it. Forgive yourself for falling for the wrong people.”

— Bianca Sparacino

84. “No, you will not find a love that is perfect, but you will find a love that is light, that isn’t heavy to carry, that does not weigh down the core of you. You will finally understand that love was always meant to be soft. That it was always meant to be tender.”

— Bianca Sparacino

85. “Because you have been hurt before, you fall in love with anyone who shows you their soul. You know how much courage that takes.”

— Bianca Sparacino

86. “It is okay to outgrow those who don’t know how to love you.”

— Bianca Sparacino

87. “Feel your fear, but do not let it be a barrier, let it be a break – a small crack where you prove to yourself that you are strong in spite of it, a reminder that you can leap even if your legs are trembling.”

— Bianca Sparacino

88. “At the end of the day, I want to be proud of the way I loved, I want to be proud of the way I placed my heart into the hands of others. I want to be proud of the way I chose vulnerability, of the way I chose tenderness; how I never stopped choosing it no matter what my soul experienced at the hands of being the kind of human being who loved deeply in this world.”

— Bianca Sparacino

89. “Trust me when I say that I will love you in your humanness. I will love you for your twists, I will love you for your faults. Trust me when I say that I will love it all.”

— Bianca Sparacino

90. “You don’t need to look for the kind of love that patches your wounds and builds you a new home within your body. You can do that on your own. You have fallen and you have risen time and time again; you are the living, breathing fragments of your triumphs and your tragedies, stitched together through hurt and hope, and you still shine. You still shine.”

— Bianca Sparacino

91. “You are not falling behind – you are falling into yourself.”

— Bianca Sparacino

92. “Keep going and remind yourself that there will never be a perfect time to do things differently, or to pursue something that genuinely scares you.”

— Bianca Sparacino

93. “Never forget that human beings are more than just the framework of their bodies, that they are the summation of a thousand invisible parts, moments. People come to us brimming with hope, and fear. When we truly connect with that, we turn them from ordinary strangers, into layers of rich history, just waiting to be discovered.”

— Bianca Sparacino

94. “You cough their name out of your lungs, sweep the ash of their goodbye outside of the home that is your body. Let the wind blow them away. Close the door softly and cry. Wildly, like you are a storm, and remember – though the rain and the sadness may seem like terrible things right now, they are always cleaning you. They are always cleaning you.”

— Bianca Sparacino

95. “When the world is quiet and you’re truly alone and with your mind, what do you think about? What do you hope for? Follow that.”

— Bianca Sparacino

96. “No, they didn’t leave you because they didn’t love you. They left you because they didn’t love themselves enough to believe that they could be different.”

— Bianca Sparacino

97. “Open yourself up, do not harden yourself to the world, and be bold in who, and how, you love. There is courage in that.”

— Bianca Sparacino

98. “And while I know you may feel like things are never going to get better – what if they do? While I know you think you are never going to fall in love – what if you do? While I know you think there isn’t any beauty left in the universe for you – but what if there is? What if there is? Stay here.”

— Bianca Sparacino

99. “I am not going to wait for someone to make me whole. Instead, I am going to take all of the love I have been giving everyone else, and I am going to give it to myself.”

— Bianca Sparacino

100. “I hope you have the courage to believe that goodness still exists, that there are those who have the capacity to love the way you do, that there are those who will see you and grow you and teach you more about the world.”

— Bianca Sparacino