Top 120 Bianca Sparacino Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “Some of the kindest souls I know have lived in a world that was not so kind to them. Some of the best human beings I know have been through so much at the hands of others, and they still love deeply; they still care. Sometimes, it’s the people who have been hurt the most who refuse to be hardened in this world, because they would never want to make another person feel the same way they felt. If that isn’t something to be in awe of, I don’t know what is.”

— Bianca Sparacino

2. “When you are not feeling good enough, remember that sometimes the root of feeling not good enough comes from holding yourself to someone else’s ideal rather than your own. Remember that you are the only person who gets to decide if you are good enough. You are the only person qualified enough to determine your value.”

— Bianca Sparacino

3. “Do not chase another human being. Instead, chase your curiosity. Chase your development and your goals. Chase your passion. Strive to work for something bigger than yourself, and instead of trying to convince someone that you fit within their world, strive to build your own.”

— Bianca Sparacino

4. “One day, you will understand that it never mattered how tightly you held on to the wrong people, how intensely you tried, because the right people were always going to find you. The right people were always going to stay.”

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5. “No one will ever fully be able to understand the internal battles you had to endure just to heal, just to grow, just to make it here today. Be proud of the way you fought to save yourself. Be proud of the way you survived.”

— Bianca Sparacino

6. “Be brave enough to heal yourself even when it hurts.”

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7. “You are the one who built your walls. Don’t ever doubt for a second that you have the capacity to tear them down.”

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8. “You were never asking for too much. You were simply just asking the wrong person.”

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9. “You have to chase the things that ignite you. You have to do the things that bring you joy. You have to surround yourself with the people who bring you back home to yourself, with the people who respect you and embrace you in ways that make you feel like you are worthy and accepted and loved.”

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10. “Because, at the end of the day – I want to leave this world with a heart that is worn-out and tender all over, a heart that aches from loving, and feeling, and caring in the best way possible. I want to leave this world knowing that I poured love into everything I did, that I crashed my soul into each and every single day, that I tried for something while I was here. At the end of the day, I just want to be proud of the person I have become. I just want to be proud of the way I connected.”

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11. “All of the love you have given to the wrong people – it will find its way back to you.”

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12. “The world is going to give you beauty, but it will also give you pain. The greatest lesson you will ever learn is that this, too, is a gift.”

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13. “Move on – not for anyone else, not to prove to anyone that you can, but rather, do it for yourself. Do it for your future. Let go of what is heavy within you. Move forward with the lessons, carry them inside of yourself. Move on, not because you have something to prove to the outside world, but because you have something to prove to your heart, you have something to prove to your soul. You are worth saving. Save yourself.”

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14. “You are allowed to take up space. Own who you are and what you want for yourself. Stop downplaying the things you care about, the hopes you have. Own your passions, your thoughts, your perceptions. Own your fire. Stop putting your worth in the hands of others; stop letting them decide your value. Own saying no, saying yes. Own your mood, your feelings. Own your plans, your path, your success.”

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15. “You do not always have to be fire, do not always have to burn those who come too close. Remember – you are seventy percent water; you have it within you to be soft.”

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16. “Be the reason why someone believes in the goodness and in the heart of other human beings.”

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17. “I hope you have the courage to do things differently, to be the kind of person who takes the risk, to be the kind of person who leads with their heart and shows up in their life with a ruthless dedication to learning and growing and enjoying the hell out of their moments here.”

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18. “Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. In the midst of this you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own stunning clarity, and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it, because you are sure of yourself.”

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19. “If the world does not understand the way you burn, do not hide yourself away. Instead, set it on fire. Show them what you can do with all of that hope inside of you.”

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20. “How they make you feel says a lot about them and nothing about you. Trust me when I say someone who makes you question if you are worthy of being loved is not worthy of being loved by you.”

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21. “The moment you truly start to believe that you are deserving of happiness, of love, of something bigger than what you have been settling for, your heart weeps a little – as if it is the first time in years it has been able to lay down its arms; as if it is the first time in years it has been able to rest.”

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22. “What a shame it truly is – that some of us have lived our entire lives under the impression that the love we have been searching for was to be found, first and foremost, in anyone but ourselves.”

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23. “I hope you have the courage to go deeper. To never exist on the surface of your life, even if it’s easier or more convenient.”

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24. “Don’t ever forget that the right people will choose you, they will see you, they will dive into the depth of you, and you will never have to force those connections. You will always be good enough for them. Anything else is not for you.”

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25. “Because you cannot fix the people you love. You cannot heal them. They have to do that on their own.”

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26. “I am slowly learning how to stop filling voids with other human beings, and instead, I am slowly learning how to confront the void itself. How to heal it.”

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27. “Sit with someone and ask them about all of the horrible things they have done in their life, and listen to the way their voice cracks.”

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28. “Your body is more than just a graveyard for those who could not love it. Your heart is more than just a cemetery for those who disappeared.”

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29. “Nothing truly beautiful ever asks for attention. This quote has stuck with me ever since I heard my coworker speak the words. Nothing truly beautiful ever asks for attention –it just naturally exists, as it is, in confidence and boldness.”

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30. “No one will ever fully be able to understand the internal battles you had to endure just to heal, just to grow, just to make it here today.”

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31. “At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation.”

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32. “If someone cannot reciprocate your love, if someone cannot give you what you truly deserve, you have to understand that aching for them to do so before they are ready is a form of self-destruction.”

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33. “See, you can love someone for years and lose yourself. and yet, you can know someone for a week and see your whole soul in another human being. there are no rules when it comes to the heart and where it feels most safe.”

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34. “Love will not save you. But it will hold your hand while you save yourself.”

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35. “I hope you have the courage to sit down with your demons, to befriend them; to look them in the face and to not feel fear. I hope you have the courage to stop picking or numbing or avoiding the wounds within, and I hope you choose to heal them instead.”

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36. “One day you will meet someone who will break down your walls and stare into the depths of you. One day they will see the bruises on your soul, will hear about all of the terrible things you have done, and you will expect them to leave, but they won’t. They won’t. One day, you will meet someone who looks into the damage, who sees the wounds, the dark, and they will love you anyways. They will love you.”

— Bianca Sparacino

37. “Life is a mess – yes, but my god, is it ever a beautiful one.”

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38. “One day you will meet someone who crashes into your bones like a wildfire, setting your heart ablaze, and together you will burn and spark and love until you wake up one morning beside the ashes of what was. However, it won’t end there – for just as wood still holds an ember long after a blaze, you will always taste forest fires in the back of your throat whenever you hear their name.”

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39. “Remember that you shed your tired skin every twenty-seven days. You were not made to hold your past within you, you were not made to carry it all on your back. You physically let go of every bad thing that has ever touched you, of every pair of foreign hands that unbuttoned your shirt but never your demons; you let go of every regret, of every insecurity. You are always gifted a clean slate.”

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40. “The people who break you are not the ones who are going to put you back together.”

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41. “Some mornings you will wake up and your scars will ache, and some mornings you will wake up and you will fumble with all of the hope dripping from your fingertips. This is your growing, your healing, the balancing of the scales within your bones. You will be high and you will be low, but you will never be empty. You will never be empty.”

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42. “Because at the end of the day, the right people fight for you. The right people show up. The right people care, not only when life is convenient, but when it is difficult and messy and it aches all over.”

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43. “Forgive yourself for all of those moments you had to protect your energy, for all of those moments you had to make the hard decision to choose yourself, because by staying, and trying to fight harder, and give more, and be more, and fix and fix and save and save, you were only ever depleting yourself to the point of exhaustion.”

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44. “But there is no point in rushing quickly towards a life that will not inspire you or fulfill you. It is okay to slow down.”

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45. “It is okay to take your time. We live in a generation that romanticizes moving forward as quickly as possible when it comes to careers and our futures and our success within them. But there is no point in rushing quickly towards a life that will not inspire you or fulfill you.”

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46. “It is easy to love someone when they are perfect, when they are soft and light, when they are filled with hope and happiness. But loving someone when they are wearing their flaws like an apology, when they are breaking down, or when they are carrying hurt within them – that is when it means the most. That is when you must show up for them.”

— Bianca Sparacino

47. “Sometimes, it’s the people who have been hurt the most who refuse to be hardened in this world, because they would never want to make another person feel the same way they have felt. If that isn’t something to be in awe of, I don’t know what is.”

— Bianca Sparacino

48. “Letting go of someone you thought would be in your life forever is difficult; sometimes circumstance gets in the way. Sometimes, no matter how much love is there, you have to lay it down. You have to walk away. You have to accept that sometimes you get too big for it, or you want different things, or you cannot pour yourself out for it any longer. And that is okay.”

— Bianca Sparacino

49. “Sometimes, it’s extremely difficult to see change, to see that difference within your own soul and your own desires as a good thing. But it is a good thing; it’s the best thing, because it means that you’re learning. It means you’re asking questions.”

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50. “How do you find the right one in a world of 7 billion people? First – you become the right one. The rest will follow.”

— Bianca Sparacino