Top 500 Cheryl Strayed Quotes (2024 Update)
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101. “Of all the things I’d been skeptical about, I didn’t feel skeptical about this: the wilderness had a clarity that included me.”

— Cheryl Strayed

102. “It seemed to me the way it must feel to people who cut themselves on purpose. Not pretty, but clean. Not good, but void of regret. I was trying to heal. Trying to get the bad out of my system so I could be good again. To cure me of myself.”

— Cheryl Strayed

103. “He hadn’t loved me well in the end, but he’d loved me well when it mattered.”

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104. “If you had to give one piece of advice to people in their twenties, what would it be? To go to a bookstore and buy ten books of poetry and read them each five times. Why? Because the truth is inside.”

— Cheryl Strayed

105. “Uncertain as I was as I pushed forward. I felt right in my pushing, as if the effort itself meant something.”

— Cheryl Strayed

106. “I considered my options. There were only two and they were essentially the same. I could go back in the direction I had come from, or I could go forward in the direction I intended to go.”

— Cheryl Strayed

107. “Don’t lament so much about how your career is going to turn out. You don’t have a career. You have a life. Do the work. Keep the faith. Be true blue. You are a writer because you write. Keep writing and quit your bitching. Your book has a birthday. You don’t know what it is yet.”

— Cheryl Strayed

108. “Can I convince the person about whom I’m crazy to be crazy about me? The short answer is no. The long answer is no.”

— Cheryl Strayed

109. “Trust yourself. It’s Sugar’s golden rule. Trusting yourself means living out what you already know to be true.”

— Cheryl Strayed

110. “This is how you get unstuck. You reach.”

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111. “My grief is tremendous but my love is bigger.”

— Cheryl Strayed

112. “Travel by foot. There is so much you can’t identify at top speed.”

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113. “It was a world I’d never been to and yet had known was there all along, one I’d staggered to in sorrow and confusion and fear and hope. A world I thought would both make me into the woman I knew I could become and turn me back into the girl I’d once been.”

— Cheryl Strayed

114. “We don’t reach the mountaintop from the mountaintop. We start at the bottom and climb up. Blood is involved.”

— Cheryl Strayed

115. “But the reality is we often become our kindest, most ethical selves only by seeing what it feels like to be a selfish jackass first.”

— Cheryl Strayed

116. “My concept of an advice giver had been a therapist or a know-it-all, and then I realized nobody listens to the know-it-alls. You turn to the people you know, the friend who has been in the thick of it or messed up – and I’m that person for sure.”

— Cheryl Strayed

117. “The most important thing for aspiring writers is for them to give themselves permission to be brave on the page, to write in the presence of fear, to go to those places that you think you can’t write – really that’s exactly what you need to write.”

— Cheryl Strayed

118. “She was. She was imperfect. She made mistakes. But she was her best self more often than it’s reasonable for any human to be.”

— Cheryl Strayed

119. “That place of true healing is a fierce place. It’s a giant place. It’s a place of monstrous beauty and endless dark and glimmering light. And you have to work really, really, really hard to get there, but you can do it.”

— Cheryl Strayed

120. “It’s folly to measure your success in money or fame. Success is measured only by your ability to say yes to these two questions: Did I do the work I needed to do? Did I give it everything I had?”

— Cheryl Strayed

121. “Trust that all you’ve learned was worth learning, no matter what answer you have or do not have about what practical use it has in your life. Let whatever mysterious starlight that guided you this far guide you onward into the crazy beauty that awaits.”

— Cheryl Strayed

122. “The most terrible and beautiful and interesting things happen in life. For some of you, those things have already happened. Whatever happens to you belongs to you. Make it yours. Feed it to yourself even if it feels impossible to swallow. Let it nurture you, because it will.”

— Cheryl Strayed

123. “Forgiveness bellows from the bottom of the canoe. There are doubts, dangers, unfathomable travesties. There are stories you’ll learn if you’re strong enough to travel there. One of them might cure you.”

— Cheryl Strayed

124. “My connection with him and his gloriously unfractured life only seemed to increase my pain. It wasn’t his fault. Being with him felt unbearable, but being with anyone else did too. The only person I could bear to be with was the most unbearable person of all: my mother.”

— Cheryl Strayed

125. “I’m going to be mad at you for the rest of my life.”

— Cheryl Strayed

126. “I’m not suggesting one deny negative emotions, but rather that you accept them and move through them by embracing the power we have to keep from wallowing in emotions that don’t serve us well.”

— Cheryl Strayed

127. “What’s important is that you make the leap. Jump high and hard with intention and heart. Pay no mind to the vision that the commission made up. It’s up to you to make your life. Take what you have and stack it up like a tower of teetering blocks. Build your dream around that.”

— Cheryl Strayed

128. “That was my father: the man who hadn’t fathered me. It amazed me every time. Again and again and again. Of all the wild things, his failure to love me the way he should have had always been the wildest thing of all. But on that night as I gazed out over the darkening land fifty-some nights out on the PCT, it occurred to me that I didn’t have to be amazed by him anymore. There were so many other amazing things in this world.”

— Cheryl Strayed

129. “My mother’s last word to me clanks inside me like an iron bell that someone beats at dinnertime: love, love, love, love, love.”

— Cheryl Strayed

130. “Blood is thicker than water, my mother had always said when I was growing up, a sentiment I’d often disputed. But it turned out that it didn’t matter whether she was right or wrong. They both flowed out of my cupped palms.”

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131. “When the path reveals itself, follow it.”

— Cheryl Strayed

132. “I was amazed that what I needed to survive could be carried on my back. And, most surprising of all, that I could carry it. That I could bear the unbearable. These realizations about my physical, material life couldn’t help but spill over into the emotional and spiritual realm. That my complicated life could be made so simple was astounding.”

— Cheryl Strayed

133. “And so I walked on. It took all I had to cover nine miles a day. To cover nine miles a day was a physical achievement far beyond anything I’d ever done. Every part of my body hurt. Except my heart. I saw no one, but, strange as it was, I missed no one. I longed for nothing but food and water and to be able to put my backpack down. I kept carrying my backpack anyway. Up and down and around the dry mountains.”

— Cheryl Strayed

134. “This is not the moment to wilt into the underbrush of your insecurities. You’ve earned the right to grow.”

— Cheryl Strayed

135. “Or just close your eyes and remember everything you already know. Let whatever mysterious starlight that guided you this far guide you onward into whatever crazy beauty awaits.”

— Cheryl Strayed

136. “Men’s stories are seen as universal, women’s as particular. What women are up against is the battle to not be marginalized.”

— Cheryl Strayed

137. “There’s always a sunrise and always a sunset and it’s up to you to choose to be there for it,’ said my mother. ‘Put yourself in the way of beauty.”

— Cheryl Strayed

138. “Go because you want to go. Because wanting to leave is enough.”

— Cheryl Strayed

139. “Accept that this experience taught you something you didn’t want to know. Accept that sorrow and strife are part of even a joyful life. Accept that it’s going to take a long time for you to get that monster out of your chest. Accept that someday what pains you now will surely pain you less.”

— Cheryl Strayed

140. “But as you are surely aware, forgiveness doesn’t mean you let the forgiven stomp all over you once again. Forgiveness means you’ve found a way forward that acknowledges harm done and hurt caused without letting either your anger or your pain rule your life or define your relationship with the one who did you wrong.”

— Cheryl Strayed

141. “Aside from marrying my husband and having my children, hiking the PCT was the best thing I ever did. The hike very literally forced me to put one foot in front of the other at a time when emotionally I didn’t think I could do that.”

— Cheryl Strayed

142. “Boundaries teach people how to treat you and they teach you how to respect yourself. Every last one of us can do better than give up.”

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143. “If you want to read anything nasty about me, just go to the backpacker websites. There’s this kind of elitist branch where they really believe that I had no business going backpacking.”

— Cheryl Strayed

144. “The particularity of our problems can be made bearable only through the recognition of our universal humanity. We suffer uniquely, but we survive the same way.”

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145. “Until we as a gender refuse to wear any shoe that would be uncomfortable to walk a mile in, we’re perfectly screwed.”

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146. “One of the worst things about losing my mother at the age I did was how very much there was to regret. Small things that stung now: all the times I’d scorned her kindness by rolling my eyes or physically recoiled in response to her touch;.”

— Cheryl Strayed

147. “My mother saved hundreds of animals in her life. Wherever she encountered and injured or needy or abandoned animal, she brought it home.”

— Cheryl Strayed

148. “Walk without a stick into the darkest woods. Believe that the fairy tale is true.”

— Cheryl Strayed

149. “Be the captain. You are the captain. Take the ball and run.”

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150. “Transformation doesn’t ask that you stop being you. It demands that you find a way back to the authenticity and strength that’s already inside of you. You only have to bloom.”

— Cheryl Strayed