Top 90 Clarissa Pinkola Estés Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “When a great ship is in harbor and moored, it is safe, there can be no doubt. But that is not what great ships are built for.”

— Clarissa Pinkola Estés

2. “Be proud of your scars. They have everything to do with your strength, and what you’ve endured. They’re a treasure map to the deep self.”

— Clarissa Pinkola Estés

3. “One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it.”

— Clarissa Pinkola Estés

4. “The wild woman is fluent in the language of dreams, images, passion, and poetry.”

— Clarissa Pinkola Estés

5. “My brain has no heart, and my heart has no brain. That’s why when I speak my mind, I appear heartless and when I do what’s in my heart I seem thoughtless.”

— Clarissa Pinkola Estés

6. “Within every woman there is a wild and natural creature, a powerful force, filled with good instincts, passionate creativity, and ageless knowing.”

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7. “Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach.”

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8. “If you have yet to be called an incorrigable, defiant woman, don’t worry, there is still time.”

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9. “All that you are seeking is also seeking you. If you lie still, sit still, it will find you. It has been waiting for you a long time.”

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10. “To be ourselves causes us to be exiled by many others, and yet to comply with what others want causes us to be exiled from ourselves.”

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11. “Go out in the woods, go out. If you don’t go out in the woods nothing will ever happen and your life will never begin.”

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12. “Bone by bone, hair by hair, Wild Woman comes back. Through night dreams, through events half understood and half remembered...”

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13. “The body remembers, the bones remember, the joints remember, even the little finger remembers. Memory is lodged in pictures and feelings in the cells themselves. Like a sponge filled with water, anywhere the flesh is pressed, wrung, even touched lightly, a memory may flow out in a stream.”

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14. “Healthy wolves and healthy women share certain psychic characteristics: keen sensing, playful spirit, and a heightened capacity for devotion. Wolves and women are relational by nature, inquiring, possessed of great endurance and strength.”

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15. “When a women speaks her truth, fires up her intention and feeling, stays tight with the instinctive nature, she is singing, she is living in the wild breath-stream of the soul.”

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16. “I hope you will go out and let stories happen to you, and that you will work them, water them with your blood and tears and you laughter till they bloom, till you yourself burst into bloom.”

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17. “Failure is a greater teacher than success.”

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18. “The soul has no gender.”

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19. “Friends who love you and have warmth for your creative life are the very best suns in the world.”

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20. “All strong souls first go to hell before they do the healing of the world they came here for. If we are lucky, we return to help those still trapped below.”

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21. “Stories are medicine. They have such power; they do not require that we do, be, act anything – we need only listen.”

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22. “Be wild; that is how to clear the river.”

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23. “Three things differentiate living from the soul verses living from the ego only: the ability to sense and learn new ways, the tenacity to ride a rough road, and the patience to learn deep love over time.”

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24. “With the wild nature as ally and teacher we see not through two eyes but through the many eyes of intuition. With intuition we are like the starry night, we gaze at the world through a thousand eyes. The wild woman is fluent in the language of dreams, images, passion, and poetry.”

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25. “The way to maintain one’s connection to the wild is to ask yourself what it is that you want. This is the sorting of the seed from the dirt. One of the most important discriminations we can make in this matter is the difference between things that beckon to us and things that call from our souls.”

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26. “To love pleasure takes little. To love truly takes a hero who can manage his own fear.”

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27. “Though her soul requires seeing, the culture around her requires sightlessness. Though her soul wishes to speak its truth, she is pressured to be silent.”

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28. “Asking the proper questions is the central action of transformation. Questions are the key that causes the secret doors of the psyche to swing open.”

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29. “Rather than chairs and tables, I preferred the ground, trees, and caves, for in those places I felt I could lean against the cheek of God.”

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30. “It is worse to stay where one does not belong at all than to wander about lost for a while and looking for the psychic and soulful kinship one requires.”

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31. “For myself, solitude is rather like a folded-up forest that I carry with me everywhere and unfurl around myself when I have need.”

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32. “The psyches and souls of women also have their own cycles and seasons of doing and solitude, running and staying, being involved and being removed, questing and resting, creating and incubating, being of the world and returning to the soul-place.”

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33. “A healthy woman is much like a wolf: robust, chock-full, strong life force, life-giving, territorially aware, inventive, loyal, roving.”

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34. “The quintessential feminine Self stands at the center of the psyche and it is wild, meaning natural and free, and utterly wise. It is not ‘something’ we must strive to create. This Self is already fully present, burning strong and waiting for us to come into its presence.”

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35. “Stories are medicine.”

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36. “I have to go to the woods, and I have to meet the wolf, or else my life will never begin.”

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37. “How does one know if she has forgiven? You tend to feel sorrow over the circumstance instead of rage, you tend to feel sorry for the person rather than angry with him. You tend to have nothing left to say about it all.”

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38. “Tell the truth about your wound, and then you will get a truthful picture of the remedy to apply to it. Don’t pack whatever is easiest or most available into the emptiness. Hold out for the right medicine. You will recognize it because it makes your life stronger rather than weaker.”

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39. “I hope you will go out and let stories happen to you.”

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40. “When seeking guidance, don’t ever listen to the tiny-hearted. Be kind to them, heap them with blessing, cajole them, but do not follow their advice.”

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41. “Mindful choosing of friends and lovers, not to mention teachers, is critical to remaining conscious, remaining intuitive, remaining in charge of the fiery light that sees and knows.”

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42. “If you’ve lost focus, just sit down and be still. Take the idea and rock it to and fro. Keep some of it and throw some away, and it will renew itself. You need do no more.”

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43. “Long ago the word alone was treated as two words, all one. To be all one meant to be wholly one, to be in oneness, either essentially or temporarily. That is precisely the goal of solitude, to be all one.”

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44. “To be strong does not mean to sprout muscles and flex. It means meeting one’s own numinosity without fleeing, actively living with the wild nature in one’s own way. It means to be able to learn, to be able to stand what we know. It means to stand and live.”

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45. “Solitude is not an absence of energy or action, as some believe, but is rather a boon of wild provisions transmitted to us from the soul.”

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46. “A woman who is starved for her real soul-life may look ‘cleaned up and combed’ on the outside, but on the inside she is filled with dozens of pleading hands and empty mouths.”

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47. “So, let us push on now, and remember ourselves back to the wild soul. Let us sing her flesh back onto our bones.”

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48. “When women are relegated to moods, mannerisms, and contours that conform to a single ideal of beauty and behavior, they are captured in both body and soul, and are no longer free.”

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49. “Asking the proper question is the central act of transformation!”

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50. “Ritual is one of the ways in which humans put their lives in perspective, whether it be Purim, Advent, or drawing down the moon. Ritual calls together the shades and specters in people’s lives, sorts them out, puts them to rest.”

— Clarissa Pinkola Estés