Top 150 Dani Shapiro Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “You can start your day over anytime.”

— Dani Shapiro

2. “Courage is more important than confidence.”

— Dani Shapiro

3. “From spiritual connection springs kindness, connection, social activism, and love.”

— Dani Shapiro

4. “From Carl Jung: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate.”

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5. “Confidence is highly overrated when it comes to creating literature. A writer who is overly confident will not engage in the struggle to get it exactly right on the page – but rather, will assume that she’s getting it right without the struggle.”

— Dani Shapiro

6. “Our teachers are everywhere. Our teachers are right in front of us, and take so many forms. All we need to do is to open our eyes, to be open to and aware of the possibilities. Otherwise, we walk sightless among miracles.”

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7. “Everything you need to know about life can be learned from a genuine and ongoing attempt to write.”

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8. “I don’t want to lean back into the past, or forward into the future. I don’t want to wish the present moment away.”

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9. “In a creative journey, it is essential, no matter how far one runs, to examine that which is closest to home.”

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10. “There are books that a writer undertakes because she wants to go on a journey, and there are journeys a writer undertakes because she wants to write a book.”

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11. “In my life as a wife and mother, I’m always conscious of my desire to be present.”

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12. “Part of my spiritual work is learning to live with the knowledge that we can’t protect our loved ones from pain and heartache.”

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13. “You know,” my aunt says, “I once had a terribly difficult period that lasted twenty-four years.” Wait. Twenty-four years? “And it was so important to realize that I didn’t know what was on the other side of the darkness. Every so often there was a sliver of light that shot the whole world through with mystery and wonder, and reminded me: I didn’t have all the information.” –.”

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14. “I’ve always felt like my nose is pressed to glass. I always feel a little bit like an outsider.”

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15. “We can’t protect ourselves from pain and heartache. In fact, to love – fully, madly, deeply – is the ensure heartache some day.”

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16. “Writing has been my window-flung wide open to this magnificent, chaotic existence-my way of interpreting everything within my grasp.”

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17. “Traces that live within us often lead us to our stories.”

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18. “I’m very disciplined, but the one thing that I have addictive behavior about is the Internet.”

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19. “But I think that at the moment of my death, I’d like to be looking at those pictures of everyone I have ever loved.”

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20. “Devotion, as it relates to the title of my memoir, means fidelity – as in fidelity to a person or a practice. I think it’s certainly possible to feel devotion without having faith, at least in the religious sense of the word.”

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21. “But gratitude and trauma weren’t mutually exclusive.”

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22. “I found myself doing so much public speaking, more and more and bigger and bigger.”

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23. “I’ve certainly faced some raw, real pain in my life. I lost my father to a car accident when I was young. My mother died ten years ago. My son was very sick as an infant. Eventually, I have attempted to transform this pain into art, to make meaning out of it.”

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24. “There’s something about urban life – you walk out your door, and you’re in a steady of stream of life happening around you, and it’s very easy to get caught up in that stream and simply kind of keep on moving.”

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25. “The constitutional disease from which I suffer,” wrote the philosopher and psychologist William James, “is what the Germans call Zerrissenheit, or torn-to-pieces-hood. The days are broken in pure zig-zag and interruption.”

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26. “If I dismiss the ordinary – waiting for the special, the extreme, the extraordinary to happen – I may just miss my life.”

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27. “We don’t choose what’s going to wake us up.”

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28. “There is no end to the promotion. There is no end to the possibilities. You can continue to promote a book for years, literally.”

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29. “It is in the thousands of days of trying, failing, sitting, thinking, resisting, dreaming, raveling, unraveling that we are at our most engaged, alert, and alive.”

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30. “The fact is that most husbands, regardless of religion – it’s an old-fashioned gender divide where the husband wants to stay home and the wife is the one who drags herself and her children to whatever spiritual center they’re going to.”

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31. “Third things are essential to marriages, objects or practices or habits or arts or institutions or games or human beings that provide a site of joint rapture or contentment. Each member of a couple is separate; the two come together in double attention. Lovemaking is not a third thing but two-in-one. John Keats can be a third thing, or the Boston Symphony Orchestra, or Dutch interiors, or Monopoly.”

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32. “The truth is in the present moment.”

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33. “I don’t want to be a presentist,” the author was saying. Presentism: the anachronistic introduction of present-day ideas and perspectives into depictions or interpretations of the past.”

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34. “Our shared vocabulary – our own language – will die with us. We are the treasure itself: fathoms deep, in the world we have made and made again.”

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35. “Recognize the possibility of the divine in any given moment.”

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36. “I used to act in television commercials when I was a kid and a young adult.”

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37. “If you write memoir, it can’t be about blame or hurt; it has to be creative.”

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38. “Strange – I’m not much of a film person. I love watching films, but they don’t stay with me the way books do. Stranger still, because my husband is a screenwriter!”

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39. “Bessel van der Kolk: “The nature of trauma is that you have no recollection of it as a story.”

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40. “It is only with distance that we are able to turn our powers of observation on ourselves, thus fashioning stories in which we are characters.”

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41. “All there is to do, right at this very moment, is to breathe in, breathe out, and kiss the joy as it flies.”

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42. “My journals were a clearing house – a garbage can. Once I was writing seriously, I understood that this was the stuff that didn’t belong in my work.”

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43. “Maggie Shipstead takes hold of the reader and doesn’t let go. Astonish Me is a haunting, powerful novel.”

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44. “We don’t ruminate during a fight. Maybe in a bath, or driving a car, or as we take a walk. But not right smack in the middle of a dramatic moment.”

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45. “Years vanish. Months collapse. Time is like a tall building made of playing cards. It seems orderly until a strong gust of wind comes along and blows the whole thing skyward. Imagine it: an entire deck of cards soaring like a flock of birds.”

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46. “It’s easier in an urban world to cast the blame outward. So I’ve learned a lot about my own process in that way.”

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47. “Logic and faith don’t occupy the same side.”

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48. “My parents made the decision never to focus on my looks, and I had no sense of myself as beautiful.”

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49. “If we grew up with nothing, we’re complicated with that. That’s the thing I keep hearing from people.”

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50. “I do whatever is necessary in order to maintain the equanimity we all need to withstand the disappointment and rejection that are the lot of every writer, no matter where we are in our careers.”

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