Top 140 David Whyte Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “The courageous conversation is the one you don’t want to have.”

— David Whyte

2. “Sometimes it takes darkness and the sweet confinement of your aloneness to learn anything or anyone that does not bring you alive is too small for you.”

— David Whyte

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3. “What you can plan is too small for you to live. What you can live wholeheartedly will make plans enough for the vitality hidden in your sleep.”

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4. “Some things cannot be spoken or discovered until we have been stuck, incapacitated, or blown off course for awhile. Plain sailing is pleasant, but you are not going to explore many unknown realms that way.”

— David Whyte

5. “A real conversation always contains an invitation. You are inviting another person to reveal herself or himself to you, to tell you who they are or what they want.”

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6. “The marvelous thing about a good question is that it shapes our identity as much by the asking as it does by the answering.”

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7. “Gratitude arises from paying attention, from being awake in the presence of everything that lives within and without us.”

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8. “We withdraw not to disappear, but to find another ground from which to see; a solid ground from which to step, and from which to speak again, in a different way, a clear, rested, embodied voice we begin to remember again as our own.”

— David Whyte

9. “Inside everyone is a great shout of joy waiting to be born.”

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10. “The greatest tragedy is to live out someone else’s life thinking it was your own.”

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11. “There is a lovely root to the word humiliation – from the latin word humus, meaning soil or ground. When we are humiliated, we are in effect returning to the ground of our being.”

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12. “A sure sign of a soul-based workplace is excitement, enthusiasm, real passion; not manufactured passion, but real involvement. And there’s very little fear.”

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13. “To be human is to become visible while carrying what is hidden as a gift to others.”

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14. “When your eyes are tired the world is tired also. When your vision has gone no part of the world can find you. Time to go into the dark where the night has eyes to recognize its own. There you can be sure you are not beyond love.”

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15. “There is no house like the house of belonging.”

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16. “Anything that does not bring you alive is too small for you.”

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17. “The price of our vitality is the sum of all our fears.”

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18. “Our work is to make ourselves visible in the world. This is the soul’s individual journey, and the soul would much rather fail at its own life than succeed at someone else’s.”

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19. “You must learn one thing. The world was made to be free in. Give up all the other worlds Except the one in which you belong.”

— David Whyte

20. “Alertness is the hidden discipline of familiarity.”

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21. “Genius is becoming something you were all along.”

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22. “The tragedy with velocity as the answer to complexity is that, after awhile, you cannot see or comprehend anything that is not traveling at the same speed you are. And you actually start to feel disturbed by people who have a sense of restfulness to their existence.”

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23. “Courage is the measure of our heartfelt participation with life, with another, with a community, a work, a future.”

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24. “Maturity is the ability to live fully and equally in multiple contexts; most especially, the ability, despite our grief and losses, to courageously inhabit the past the present and the future all at once.”

— David Whyte

25. “Everyone casts a shadow. Everyone has a relationship with the fearful unknown.”

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26. “Vulnerability is not a weakness but a faculty for understanding.”

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27. “To seek out beauty in our work is to make a pilgrimage of our labors, to understand that the consummation of work lies not only in what we have done, but who we have become while accomplishing the task.”

— David Whyte

28. “To have a firm persuasion in our work – to feel that what we do is right for ourselves and good for the world at exactly the same time – is one of the great triumphs of human existence.”

— David Whyte

29. “Put down the weight of your aloneness and ease into the conversation. Pay attention to everything in the world as if it’s alive. Realize everything has its own discrete existence outside your story. By doing this, you open to gifts and lessons that the world has to give you.”

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30. “Art is the act of triggering deep memories, of what it means to be fully human.”

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31. “Whether we stay or whether we go – to be courageous is to stay close to the way we are made.”

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32. “Poetry is the art of overhearing ourselves say things from which it is impossible to retreat.”

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33. “Poetry is often the art of overhearing yourself say things you didn’t know you knew. It is a learned skill to force yourself to articulate your life, your present world or your possibilities for the future.”

— David Whyte

34. “Absent the edge, we drown in numbness.”

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35. “The fear of loss, in one form or another, is the motivator behind all conscious and unconscious dishonesties.”

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36. “The only choice we have as we mature is how we inhabit our vulnerability, how we become larger and more courageous and more compassionate through our intimacy with disappearance, our choice is to inhabit vulnerability as generous citizens of loss, robustly and fully, or conversely, as misers and complainers, reluctant and fearful, always at the gates of existence, but never bravely and completely attempting to enter, never wanting to risk ourselves, never walking fully through the door.”

— David Whyte

37. “The antidote to exhaustion is not necessarily rest but wholeheartedness.”

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38. “Humiliation is mostly something we try to avoid, but it is something more often, all for the best, in retrospect. There is a lovely root to the word, the Latin word humus, meaning soil or ground. When we are humiliated, we are in effect returned to the ground of our being. Any fancy ideas we have about ourselves are shriven away by the reality of the moment. We come to earth with a thump. It may be a narrow piece of ground, but at least it is real and at least it is our own.”

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39. “What is precious inside us does not care to be known by the mind in ways that diminish its presence.”

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40. “Your great mistake is to act the drama as if you were alone.”

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41. “The outlaw is the radical, the one close to the roots of existence. The one who refuses to forget their humanity and, in remembering, helps everyone else remember, too.”

— David Whyte

42. “The moment you’ve uttered the exact dimensionality of your exile, you’re already turning towards home.”

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43. “In real pain we have no other choice but to learn to ask for help and on a daily basis. Pain tells us we belong and cannot live forever alone or in isolation. Pain makes us understand reciprocation.”

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44. “A soul-based workplace asks things of me that I didn’t even know I had. It’s constantly telling me that I belong to something large in the world.”

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45. “Poetry for me has been a long pilgrimage, a journey and a growing relationship with the unknown.”

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46. “We are each a river with a particular abiding character, but we show radically different aspects of our self according to the territory through which we travel.”

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47. “Stop trying to change reality by eliminating complexity.”

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48. “All of our great traditions, religious, contemplative and artistic, say that you must a learn how to be alone – and have a relationship with silence. It is difficult, but it can start with just the tiniest quiet moment.”

— David Whyte

49. “If I don’t have time for the writing, it’s because I’m not making that time. It’s really just a question of whether you want to or not, whether you feel you deserve to write or not.”

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50. “The great question in disappointment is whether we allow it to bring us to ground, to a firmer sense of our self, a surer sense of the world, and what is good and possible for us in that world, or whether we experience it only as a wound that make us retreat from further participation.”

— David Whyte