Top 140 Eve Ensler Quotes (2025 Update)
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101. “Since cancer, I feel like I have dreams rather than ambitions, visions rather than plans.”

— Eve Ensler

102. “My commitment originated in my own story and my own relationship to violence.”

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103. “I’m feeling a kind of liberty to write about what’s interesting to me without worrying about what I should be writing about. And that feels good.”

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104. “Between the combination of Judeo-Christian religious ‘be good be good be good’ and Capitalist ‘something’s wrong with you, buy this’ and the parental upbringing, which is ‘you’re wrong, you’re not thin enough, you’re not smart enough’ I mean, hello! We don’t have a shot.”

— Eve Ensler

105. “In “securing” people, make them really really afraid. Create all kinds of colors and alerts that terrorize the population. Terror and numbness will eventually be mistaken for security. In “securing” people, take away their opinions and voices and instincts. Make them feel afraid to speak out. Control will eventually be mistaken for security. In “securing” people, distract them through addictive consumption and mindless entertainment programming. Amnesia will eventually be mistaken for security.”

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106. “I started thinking about how it’s actually hard to love Barbie the way she is now. She is very tough, so much plastic. She’s not cuddly at all. She can’t even put her arms around you. You have to do things for her: worship her, dress her, buy her things. She wants everything. She is very greedy and needy. That’s how they get you to spend more money.”

— Eve Ensler

107. “I feel passionate about nurses. I would do anything for nurses. Anything.”

— Eve Ensler

108. “I think we just have to look at all the ways in which we are violating the Earth, each other, economic violence, racial violence, environmental violence – where we are dominating and not cooperating .”

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109. “Decide whether you want to be liked or admired.”

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110. “I feel very passionate that we need CAT scanners in every country in the world. There’s not a CAT scanner in all of eastern Congo. People don’t use the word “cancer” because they don’t get diagnosed. They just die.”

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111. “I think the thing that has always made me happy is being in the struggle, in a community of struggle with other people.”

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112. “It is almost a guarantee that in the pursuit of security you will become more insecure. Inherent in the quest for security is its undoing.”

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113. “Each admission here defies a blood vow determined long before my birth. An apologist is a traitor of the highest order. How many men, how many fathers ever admit to failures or offenses? The act itself is a betrayal of the basic code. It sprays shrapnel of guilt in all directions. If one of us is wrong, the whole structure and story come tumbling down. Our silence is our bond. The power of not telling, of not letting on, is the most ancient and powerful weapon in our arsenal.”

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114. “There’s an underlying puritanicalness in America that is not that different to the prudishness of Britain – it just manifests itself in different ways.”

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115. “As the Taliban circled the bazaar in their Toyota pickup trucks, the ice cream is no longer my enemy. Sunita is risking her life for this pleasure. She is sharing it with me. Finally, my being fat is clearly less important than being free. I eat the ice cream.”

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116. “I did not want to see how careless this whole system is for so many, how easy it is to fall through the cracks.”

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117. “I feel sometimes with boys that the tyranny of patriarchy has had a much more devastating blow on boys than it has on anyone. Because they have literally been forced to disassociate from their hearts.”

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118. “To have insurance and have a diagnosis and to have doctors, I just felt it would be immoral on some level to complain.”

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119. “What is a man cast out of the kingdom of men?”

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120. “I began to see my body like an iPad or a car. I would drive it and demand things from it. It had no limits. It was invincible. It was to be conquered and mastered like the Earth herself.”

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121. “I got to a nine-hour surgery, I lost lots of body parts and rearranged, I got really months of infection that I lost 30 pounds. But the idea of pumping poison into my bloodstream just – I couldn’t, I couldn’t.”

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122. “She told me my clitoris is not something I could lose. It was me, the essence of me. It was both the doorbell to my house and the house itself. I didn’t have to find it. I had to be it. Be it. Be my clitoris. Be my clitoris.”

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123. “There were momentary visitations. I was a visitor, not an inhabitant. I think I say that at the beginning of the book: “I have made visits to the earth in my body, but it’s always been as a visitor.””

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124. “I have been a depressed person most of m life. I was always in the throes of self-hatred.”

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125. “I despise charity. It gives crumbs to a few and silences the others.”

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126. “Slowly, it dawned on me that nothing was more important than stopping violence toward women – that the desecration of women indicated the failure of human beings to honor and protect life.”

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127. “If you listen to the real in you, that part that’s pulsing and has questions and is trying to figure something out, it will shape your life in a way where, when you get to be sixty, you’ll succeed. You’ll be happy about your life.”

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128. “For many years now, I feel like my own body struggle has been linked and connected with women I meet in the world. I think we’re in this together.”

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129. “We have to say that what happens to women matters to everyone and it matters a lot.”

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130. “You have visits, then you have disappearances. You enter, then you exit. You come, you go. It would be so great if you could just get to human enlightenment on a linear path.”

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131. “I think all my work’s been about how do women get back into our bodies; how do men get back. We’re all disassociated.”

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132. “Finding violence against women means opening to the great power of women, the mystery of women, the heart of women, the wild unending sexuality and creativity of women – and not being afraid.”

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133. “I think violence against women in America has become ordinary – it’s been made absolutely acceptable.”

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134. “We don’t accept your world your rules your wars We don’t accept your cruelty and unkindness. We don’t believe some need to suffer for others to survive or that there isn’t enough to go around or that corporations are the only and best economic arrangement. And.”

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135. “I think one of the problems with the capitalist mainstream is this: no matter what you create to respond or resist it they will buy it.”

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136. “I would rate the fact that I get to be alive a big beautiful 10. Satisfaction with myself – work in progress.”

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137. “I really want to help stop violence toward women.”

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138. “How come we have money to kill but no money to feed or heal? How come we have money to destroy but no money for art and schools? The.”

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139. “About violence, what it feels like to be nothing to someone else. What it feels like to be a consequence of someone else’s dissociated rage, disconnected fury.”

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140. “It is where we do not live that the dying comes.”

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141. “Hysteria – a word to make women feel insane for knowing what they know.”

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142. “The trick has been to live in the contradictions while maintaining principles, beliefs, and purpose.”

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143. “The question is not: Will you die? The question is which you needs to die off, so that the new self can live and thrive in a new, loving world.”

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144. “Doctors never believe how simple it is to give patients dignity. It takes a sentence. It takes a short walk around a table.”

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145. “Wouldn’t it be incredible if everyone could be purged, somehow, of the projected not-them badness that they internalized and perhaps have acted out because their souls have been so damaged?”

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146. “Twelve years old. I was happy. My friend had a Ouija board, asked when we were going to get our periods, looked down, and I saw blood.”

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147. “So much of life, it seems to me, is the framing and naming of things.”

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148. “When the world is right, it will be the unpaid and unsung people like Cindy who will be the honored ones, the ones who get paid the most, and they will sit at the big table. When the world is right, it will be these invisible people who we see and cherish.”

— Eve Ensler