Top 140 Eve Ensler Quotes (2025 Update)

1. “Go so far away that you stop being afraid of not coming back.”

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2. “Cherish your solitude. Take trains by yourself to places you have never been. Sleep out alone under the stars.”

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3. “Theater has an incredible capacity to move people to social change, to address issues, to inspire social revolution.”

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4. “Give voice to what you know to be true, and do not be afraid of being disliked or exiled. I think that’s the hard work of standing up for what you see.”

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5. “The clitoris is pure in purpose. It is the only organ in the body designed purely for pleasure.”

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6. “When you listen to other women’s stories, you begin to understand your own better, and you begin to find ways back through and with each other.”

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7. “Stop trying to fix your body. It was never broken.”

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8. “Unless men are active allies, we’ll never end violence against women and girls.”

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9. “The love is all around us. I made a life of love.”

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10. “One of the most radical things women can do is to love their body.”

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11. “I wake up every day and I think, ‘I’m breathing! It’s a good day.’”

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12. “Everything you deny is actually killing you on some level. You see something, you feel something wrong with your body, you pretend it’s not happening, it goes on, it grows, it gets worse.”

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13. “I think so much of neoliberalism and capitalism has caused people to live in a state of greed, fear and consumption that is covering up so much of what we really want.”

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14. “Real security is contemplating death, not pretending it doesn’t exist.”

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15. “The people who are on the front lines every day in hospitals, nurses, the people who are running clinics, the people who are taking care of your children, those are the people who are the lovers of the world, are the good of the world.”

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16. “When I wrote ‘The Good Body,’ I turned 40 and suddenly had this stomach. It seemed like the end of the world. Because I didn’t value my body. I was constantly judging it, but I also didn’t live in it.”

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17. “Terence McKenna says, “The culture is not your friend.” I am not sure we can change this culture. But I think we can rise above it and create a new world. That’s why I so deeply believe in alternative spaces. That’s why I believe in the power of art and activism.”

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18. “Well, the tyranny of masculinity and the tyranny of patriarchy I think has been much more deadly to men than it has to women. It hasn’t killed our hearts. It’s killed men’s hearts. It’s silenced them; it’s cut them off.”

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19. “When you bring consciousness to anything, things begin to shift.”

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20. “Geography does not define you – love does.”

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21. “I think the greatest illusion we have is that denial protects us. It’s actually the biggest distortion and lie. In fact, staying asleep is what’s killing us.”

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22. “I think that anytime you get clear about what your mission is or what your focus wants to be, things start to come together in your life.”

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23. “Good is towing the line, being behaved, being quiet, being passive, fitting in, being liked, and great is being messy, having a belly, speaking your mind, standing up for what you believe in, fighting for another paradigm, not letting people talk you out of what you know to be true.”

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24. “I want to touch you in real time not find you on YouTube, I want to walk next to you in the mountains not friend you on Facebook.”

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25. “Security is elusive. It’s impossible. We all die. We all get old. We all get sick. People leave us. People change us. Nothing is secure.”

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26. “Women are the primary resource of the planet. They give birth, we come from them. They are mothers, they are visionaries, they are the future. If we can figure out how to make women feel safe and honor women, it would be parallel or equal to honoring life itself.”

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27. “The only point of having power it seems to me is to empower others. The only point of leadership is to inspire.”

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28. “Lasting social and cultural change is spread by ordinary people doing extraordinary things.”

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29. “Why don’t we bring everyone up to be caring and compassionate, to believe that we are connected with everyone and everything around us?”

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30. “People are more afraid to love than they are to kill.”

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31. “What happens when someone throws you against a wall or tells you you’re a jackass or puts you down or calls you bad names? It goes into your body. We hold it in our body. If we don’t have a way to let that go and release that, it becomes sickness eventually.”

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32. “I am not saying people shouldn’t be held accountable for terrible acts. But holding people in prisons does not necessarily make them responsible or accountable. It makes them bad. It makes them evil. It puts an end to any process of transformation. It hardens them spiritually and psychologically.”

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33. “The devastation of neoliberalism is so multi-fold, whether it’s violence against women or desperate economic inequality or the destruction of the planet.”

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34. “Anorexia was my attempt to have control over my body and manipulate my body and starve my body and shape my body. It was not a very good relationship. It was the sort of relationship my father had to my body. It was a tyrannical, “you’ll do what I tell you” relationship.”

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35. “I think we have made progress. There’s no doubt about it, we have moved forward. But there’s some essential, core thing that has not been deconstructed. And I’m telling you, it’s connected to the body. I know it is.”

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36. “When we give in the world what we want the most, we heal the broken part inside each of us.”

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37. “If the theatre has taught me anything, it’s that when things change in the body, in the body politic, in the body of the world, in the body of the earth, in the body of the person, there’s change. You never go back.”

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38. “If you are divided from your body, then you are divided from the body of the world.”

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39. “The mechanism of violence is what destroys women, controls women, diminishes women and keeps women in their so-called place.”

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40. “I am so grateful to be alive. It’s ridiculous to be alive.”

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41. “Dance is holy, sexual, and it’s a way of being very powerful and a little dangerous without being violent.”

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42. “Writing and giving voice to what I am feeling makes me happy. And supporting people in finding their voice, passion, outrage and resistance. There is nothing better than that.”

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43. “Denial is really death. People think that when you’re connected with other people it’s more painful. The opposite is true. When you’re connected to the river you have despair, but you also have joy, and there’s a flow in the river.”

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44. “We live in a racist world. Everywhere there is racism. We say to White people, “You really have to examine how you behave in the world. You are responsible for deconstructing internalized racism and being part of a ongoing process of decolonizing yourself.””

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45. “I think we need to teach pleasure. What beautiful touch means. What reciprocity means. What being connected and what intimacy means. Boys get out there at a young age and the performance posturing is so great and ends up being hard and aggressive.”

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46. “I’m a nomad. I have a place in New York in the Flatiron District, and I have a place in Paris in Ile Saint-Louis, and I spend a lot of time in Congo.”

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47. “I have always been obsessed with naming things. If I could name them, I could know them. If I could name them, I could tame them. They could be my friends.”

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48. “The cancer in me became an awareness of the cancer that is everywhere. The cancer of cruelty, the cancer of carelessness, the cancer of greed.”

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49. “Looking at it, I started crying. Maybe it was knowing that I had to give up the fantasy, the enormous life consuming fantasy, that someone or something was going to do this for me – the fantasy that someone was coming to lead my life, to choose direction, to give me orgasms.”

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50. “It will move through you and you will touch joy and suddenly realize you have never felt joy because it requires abandon. It grows from gratitude and cannot exist where there is mad cynicism or distrust. You will touch this joy and you will suddenly know it is what you were looking for your whole life, but you were afraid to even acknowledge the absence because the hunger for it was so encompassing.”

— Eve Ensler