Top 300 Harlan Coben Quotes (2024 Update)
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101. “They say it takes a long time to comprehend a tragedy. You’re numb. You can’t adequately accept the grim reality. Again, that’s not true. Not for me anyway.”

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102. “I still try to make the “next” book my “best” book. I want to grip and move you in unexpected ways.”

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103. “You could trust nature but not man.”

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104. “Maya had one of those sudden “pow” moments sneak up on her, the ones all parents experience, when you are simply overwhelmed by your love for your child, when you are awestruck and you can feel something rising inside of you and you just want to hold onto it and yet, at the same time, that caring, that fear of losing this person, scares you into near paralysis. How, you wonder, will you ever relax again, knowing how unsafe the world is? Lily.”

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105. “The course was packed with silent fans, though fan didn’t exactly feel like the right word to Myron. Parishioners was a hell of a lot closer. There was a constant reverie on a golf course, a hushed, wide-eyed respect. Every time the ball was hit, the crowd release was nearly orgasmic.”

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106. “But life changes people. It smothers that kind of larger-than-life woman. Time quiets them down. That firecracker girl you knew in high school – where is she now? It didn’t happen to men as much. Those boys often grew up to be masters of the universe. The super successful girls? They seemed to die of slow societal suffocation. So.”

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107. “Too often, show muscles meant useless muscles.”

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108. “Three days ago, I was a dedicated doctor sleepwalking through my own life. Since then, I had seen a ghost, gotten emails from the dead, had become a suspect in not one but two murders, was on the run from the law, had assaulted a police officer, and had enlisted the aid of a known dug dealer.”

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109. “Life, he suspected, hinges too often on chance. We all want to convince ourselves that it is about hard work and education and perseverance, but the truth is, life is much more about the fickle and the random. We don’t want to admit it, but we are controlled by luck, by timing, by fate.”

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110. “I don’t find any real rivalries with crime and thriller writers anyway. That might sound a little Pollyanna, but for the most part the writers I compete with, if you want to use that word, it’s a pretty friendly rivalry. I think we all realise that the boat rises and sinks together.”

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111. “Suzze T just stopped by,” Myron said. Win nodded, jaw jutted. “I saw her on the way out.” “Did she look upset?” “Didn’t notice,” Win said, taking a seat. Then: “Her breasts were engorged.” Win. “She has a problem,” Myron said. Win leaned back, crossed his legs with his customary coiled ease. “Explain.”

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112. “I am very lucky that I get to tell stories for a living. I love being able to grab people’s attention, to keep them turning the pages, to make them stay awake all night. I want to stir the pulse, yes, but also to stir the heart. I hope ‘The Woods’ does that.”

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113. “In short, the satisfaction of creating, not necessarily the process, always lifts my heart.”

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114. “His smile did more than lack warmth. It was the most purely physical smile Myron had ever seen, a byproduct strictly of the brain giving specific orders to certain muscles. It touched no part of him but his lips. Myron.”

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115. “The hunchback sees the hump of others – never his own.”

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116. “I try to stress to my children that buying something never leads to true happiness.”

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117. “You’re not a hypocrite. You aim toward lofty heights. The fact that your arrow cannot always reach them does not make you a hypocrite.”

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118. “Children view their parents as both intrepid and omnipotent.”

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119. “Let me back up a little and tell you why I prefer writing to real life: You can rewrite. A novel, for example, can be cleaned up, altered, trimmed, improved. Life, on the other hand, is one big messy rough draft.”

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120. “Writers always say, ‘I always knew I wanted to be a writer; when I was a three-month-old foetus a pen formed in my hand and I began to scratch my first story on the inside of my mother’s womb.’ I started later, in my early twenties.”

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121. “There was an awkwardness to him, a stoicism that most people, with their need for appearances and fake smiles, found off-putting. Shane couldn’t handle small talk or the excess bullshittery of modern society. When.”

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122. “The secret in any interview was the ability to not fill the silence. A few seconds passed.”

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123. “There are virtually no major life decisions you make that are not in some way based on your finances.”

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124. “The name of the group was Survivor,” Win said. “Ironic name when you think of how quickly they vanished, no?”

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125. “We’re called New Jersey but we’re actually the suburbs of New York.”

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126. “We always seem to be on the eve of destruction. And we always seem to get through it.”

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127. “A dancer on break approached him. She smiled. Each tooth was angled in a different direction, as if her mouth were the masterwork of a mad orthodontist. “Hi,” she said. “Hi.” “You’re really cute.” “I don’t have any money.” She spun and walked away. Ah, romance.”

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128. “Secrets... were cancers. Secrets festered. Secrets ate away at your innards, leaving behind nothing but a flimsy husk.”

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129. “I’m a little bit of a control freak.”

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130. “The world doesn’t give even the slightest damn about us or our petty problems. We never quite get that, do we? Our lives have been shattered – shouldn’t the rest of us take notice? But no.”

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131. “The room did not go quiet like something out of an old Western where the sheriff pushes open the creaking door and sashays into the saloon. Maybe that was the problem. Maybe the door needed to creak.”

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132. “They needed some Jews or gays or something to spice things up, to add a bit of theater and a couple of interesting bistros.”

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133. “You want to put people in neat categories, make them monsters or angels, but it almost never works that way. You work in the gray and frankly that kinda sucks. The extremes are so much easier.”

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134. “The actual writing time is a lot shorter than the thinking time.”

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135. “You want people lined up, Will. You want the good guys on one side, the bad on the other. It doesn’t work that way, does it? It is never that simple. Love, for example, leads to hate. I think that was what started it all. Primitive love.”

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136. “Relationships are never fifty-fifty. Sometimes they are sixty-forty, sometimes eighty-twenty. You’ll be the eighty sometimes, you’ll be the twenty others. The key is to accept and be okay with that.”

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137. “Most religious people don’t believe the dogma, Ash. We take from it what we want, we discard what we don’t. We form whatever narrative we like – kind God, vengeful God, active God, laid-back God, whatever. We just make sure we get something out of it. Maybe we get life everlasting while people we resent burn for eternity. Maybe we get something more concrete – money, a job, friends. You just change the narrative.”

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138. “I can only be as happy as my saddest child. Do.”

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139. “I would rather raise certain topics and maybe let you ruminate on them. I’m not big on answering them.”

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140. “This was a place where tattoos outnumbered teeth.”

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141. “With choice comes guilt. No escaping it.”

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142. “The pain flooded in again. It was always there, of course. Through the shaking hands and slapping of the backs, the grief stayed by his side, tapping Griffin on the shoulder, whispering in his ear, reminding him that they were partners for life.”

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143. “The eyebrows were his most prominent feature – unusually thick and angry and constantly undulating.”

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144. “The preparation for building a series of thrillers based on a single character is kind of like the preparation for becoming a parent: The best part is the idea – wink, wink.”

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145. “We humans can’t see straight. We are always biased. We always protect our own interests.”

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146. “And bad stays. Bad doesn’t go away. You bury bad, it digs itself out. You throw bad in the middle of the ocean, it comes back at you like a tidal wave.”

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147. “As a soldier, you don’t stand at attention because it looks nice. You stand at attention because, on some level, it either gives you strength or, just as important, makes you appear stronger to both your comrades and enemies.”

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148. “There are other single parents in town, mostly divorced mothers, but I get a ton of slack. If I forget to write a note or pick up my daughter late or leave her lunch on the counter, the other mothers or the staff in the school office chip in and help. They think my male helplessness is cute. When a single mother does any of those things, she is neglectful and on the receiving end of the superior moms’ scorn.”

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149. “Chloe barked at a movement in the bush. A squirrel sprinted across the street. Chloe growled and feigned a chase. The squirrel stopped and turned back toward us. Chloe barked a boy-you’re-lucky-I’m-on-a-leash sound. She didn’t mean it. Chloe was a pure thoroughbred wimp. Kiss.”

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150. “Relationships and marriages are hard enough, but you add war into the mix and small fissures become gaping wounds. No one sees what you’re seeing – again that clear-eyed, unbiased thing – except your fellow soldiers. It’s like one of those movies where only the hero can see the ghosts and everyone else thinks the hero is crazy. In.”

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