Top 150 John de Ruiter Quotes (2025 Update)
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51. “This life is a stellar opportunity to realize what you are, to bring what you first are into manifestation.”

— John de Ruiter

52. “Everyone is giving something. Everyone is giving what has their heart. What I’m giving you is what has my heart.”

— John de Ruiter

53. “Oneness means that as awareness, your relationship with knowing is clean. Then for you to know is for you to be.”

— John de Ruiter

54. “Your mind is like a servant to you. Whatever you are being in the midst of your mind, your mind is going to be the same to you.”

— John de Ruiter

55. “When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self.”

— John de Ruiter

56. “It’s true for you to soften within, to let your heart open, to let your heart soften.”

— John de Ruiter

57. “When you are unconditionally open and soft in your heart while your self empties and while your self fills, you live fulfilling the law of containment.”

— John de Ruiter

58. “Looking and seeing do not originate in your self. You are able to look in your self because looking and seeing are before your self.”

— John de Ruiter

59. “Let everything that comes your way, help you be new.”

— John de Ruiter

60. “The more open you are within, the more capacity you will have to know, to see, and to love.”

— John de Ruiter

61. “Your self doesn’t represent the truth in you, your being does. Give your ease only to what you know represents the truth in you.”

— John de Ruiter

62. “There is only one real comfort and it’s not a feeling. It is the comfort of oneness.”

— John de Ruiter

63. “When you’re all in, you will know sweet vulnerability.”

— John de Ruiter

64. “Openness and softness of heart loves what it knows.”

— John de Ruiter

65. “The more honest you are, the more quieted you are within.”

— John de Ruiter

66. “Start out identifying what you know are delicacies of being within, tiny little touches of knowledge that has beingness in it, special soft spots of heart. As soon as you identify them, you need to believe them.”

— John de Ruiter

67. “Be warmed in your heart in the midst of your sexuality. Your response to your own sexuality is that you are warmly in it, not exploiting it, not moving away from it, that you are completely present in it, warmed.”

— John de Ruiter

68. “The unfolding code of what you really are occurs every time you go to sleep.”

— John de Ruiter

69. “The known unseen within becomes structural in what is seen: a being functioning as a self, in person, in this world.”

— John de Ruiter

70. “Your life has little purpose if you are separate from your own knowledge within.”

— John de Ruiter

71. “When you move as openness and softness of heart you’re moving in this life within your self in the same way that your being is. When you move as openness and softness of heart, you are all the way into the surface moving and growing, developing as oneness.”

— John de Ruiter

72. “In this there are no options, just response, awareness responding to knowing. All the way in and all the way out. This isn’t of the earth – this is of the everything.”

— John de Ruiter

73. “Put together every little bit of goodness that you have known and you have your being.”

— John de Ruiter

74. “As awareness recedes into the deep, as when it falls asleep, everything seemingly ends. All that it takes is a gentle touch to your body; meaning has moved and meaning is again aware, knowing, seeing, and if it is home, meeting and communing.”

— John de Ruiter

75. “What is deeper is warmer. When you’re looking for what is deeper, add warmth.”

— John de Ruiter

76. “You cannot have a perfect mind. You can have a perfect heart.”

— John de Ruiter

77. “With Nectar in your Mind instead of Thinking, you have Understanding band Wisdom.”

— John de Ruiter

78. “Where your life ends, your being doesn’t. Where your being ends, you don’t. That is what is able to have and move your forms.”

— John de Ruiter

79. “If you set something free and it comes back to you, that’s the beginning of it being yours.”

— John de Ruiter

80. “Live only for what you know in your heart is worth dying for.”

— John de Ruiter

81. “When you rest in the weakness of your heart, your being moves and your self becomes quieted.”

— John de Ruiter

82. “High level womanness occurs and is freed when the filters and the boundaries in your womanness are no longer of use to you. As a woman you then move as your own Being.”

— John de Ruiter

83. “When resistance no longer serves you, you’ll no longer have it.”

— John de Ruiter

84. “Your deeper sense isn’t a springboard; it’s a landing place. If you draw conclusions too quickly or too slowly, you’ll establish your self where it doesn’t belong. The fine line between the two is in your own deeper sense. It is in your actual knowing within that deeper sense.”

— John de Ruiter

85. “Your self is yours to integrate. To integrate your self you need to be, in the midst of your experience, a little bit like your own being.”

— John de Ruiter

86. “Everyone starts out with a little self, and it costs everything to move past that little self. It costs the life of the little self to be the life within that’s deeper than that little self.”

— John de Ruiter

87. “When you respond to your heart you are responding to love.”

— John de Ruiter

88. “The heart that is at rest grows and develops from anything.”

— John de Ruiter

89. “The more that you bypass of your own mechanisms, the more in your self that will come apart.”

— John de Ruiter

90. “The new ground that you form in your living is a new self, a new self that isn’t at all of the middle ground, a lived-in self that has no need of middle ground. That new self makes unseen reality within seen.”

— John de Ruiter

91. “Let your heart believe only what nurtures you.”

— John de Ruiter

92. “Where there is movement, there is reach. Reach engenders communion.”

— John de Ruiter

93. “Once you’re facing the direction of the deep within, awareness enters without a thought.”

— John de Ruiter

94. “If you are all open in your heart, you are clean. If you are all open in your self, you are naive.”

— John de Ruiter

95. “The cure to your self is that you are not yours.”

— John de Ruiter

96. “As soon as you give your heart to something new you will immediately be able to think in a way that is new.”

— John de Ruiter

97. “The more that you are being your ideas, the less human you are. The deeper your realization, being in your heart, the more of your humanness you come into.”

— John de Ruiter

98. “The more that you’re knowing, the more you will be feeling and seeing, the more that you will hurt in your heart, and in your self. Deep heart understanding replaces your need and your holding of personal truths.”

— John de Ruiter

99. “You simply cannot trust or refer to your experience of your self to tell you what you are, to tell you the truth within.”

— John de Ruiter

100. “Your real home isn’t your patterned self. It isn’t your thinking. It isn’t your feeling. Your real home is the deepest within that you know the truth of. Your real home, your only home, is direct knowledge.”

— John de Ruiter