Top 150 John de Ruiter Quotes (2025 Update)
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101. “When you move the deeper levels in you and the deeper levels in your body, you’ll be relating to that mystery in her. You’ll relate to it directly and you’ll lay hold of it through the deeper levels in you and in your body.”

— John de Ruiter

102. “Whatever you have awakened to, you belong to.”

— John de Ruiter

103. “You can fulfill your whole life in one hour of inner seeing.”

— John de Ruiter

104. “As much as everything can seem to be about patterns in your self and others, within the drama of all that, it’s really all about knowing.”

— John de Ruiter

105. “For you to be free of your thinking mind, that will cost you the way that you’ve put your self together. It will cost you your patterned self.”

— John de Ruiter

106. “If you move as a being in every experience of your self, your being replaces your self.”

— John de Ruiter

107. “When your self and your life belong to your being, your self opens, your life opens, your being comes in, and it will have everything. It is the single greatest turning point in your life.”

— John de Ruiter

108. “For your self to become pure, give everything to what is already pure in you.”

— John de Ruiter

109. “In a real relationship the two of you are together, meeting without your histories.”

— John de Ruiter

110. “The best that you can do for your mind is to have no in-between state in your heart.”

— John de Ruiter

111. “While sincerity is to carry the weight of knowledge in the self, it is also to be the lightness of being clean.”

— John de Ruiter

112. “Whatever you know in your heart, live at the expense of anything else.”

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113. “It isn’t the kind of profession that you have that makes you flourish; it’s what you are coming from, within, that makes you flourish. Then everything that you step into turns into your garden.”

— John de Ruiter

114. “When you are in the mundane from what is deeper than your self, you realize the mundane to be more than your self, and your self opens. It opens in its structuring and in its form, enabling you as the form of your self to move in the deeper levels of the mundane.”

— John de Ruiter

115. “Awareness, one with knowing, is love.”

— John de Ruiter

116. “Let your sexuality move in whichever way it does. Do nothing to guide it or control it. What brings it into balance is you being in your heart in the midst of it.”

— John de Ruiter

117. “When you love what’s deeper, your response is direct. There won’t be a fear in dropping directly into the deeper.”

— John de Ruiter

118. “The let-go of the last little bit is the biggest because, in that, there is no return.”

— John de Ruiter

119. “For you to have real love, you need to be able to move past your self.”

— John de Ruiter

120. “The more clean you are in awakening to your own being, the more you’ll be able to move your own being toward others. Your evolution as awareness is in the purity of thatit’s in the cleanness.”

— John de Ruiter

121. “With real relationship within, you are as delicateness really listening.”

— John de Ruiter

122. “When you are known, what you are is activated.”

— John de Ruiter

123. “The evolution in each of us isn’t separate from each other.”

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124. “To really evolve as awareness, be just like your own being in a self like yours and on a planet like this one.”

— John de Ruiter

125. “The deeper within that you are coming from, the higher the perspective you’ll be able to have.”

— John de Ruiter

126. “When your heart softens and opens, your being becomes matter in your self. That is the change of matter and what matters to you in your self will change.”

— John de Ruiter

127. “For you to access your own innermost as awareness is for you to surrender form after form after form, enabling you as awareness to recede to what you first are, for you to be meaning.”

— John de Ruiter

128. “Surrender to what you know and you’ll know more.”

— John de Ruiter

129. “When you are relaxed and you hear what you know is the truth, regardless of your experience, you love. You love the truth. You love hearing, knowing, responding to the truth, because all of that is really you.”

— John de Ruiter

130. “Where there is humility, there is no story.”

— John de Ruiter

131. “You don’t come into the more without responding to what you already know.”

— John de Ruiter

132. “You cannot dwell in your being while your self inhabits your heart.”

— John de Ruiter

133. “The more that you need a relationship, the less you are able to be in a relationship. The more that something on the surface can answer you, the less that you will be really answered when you’re in it.”

— John de Ruiter

134. “Your whole life is really only all about that dear place in you where you know you’ve realized, you love, and you are reached.”

— John de Ruiter

135. “The truth within moves as intimacy of being.”

— John de Ruiter

136. “Love doesn’t need to be answered, It just quietly and freely gives.”

— John de Ruiter

137. “As what you first are moves in the context of form, you have real reflection within that form, real reflection of what you are, what you are being and what you are doing. The movement in form enables you to comprehend what you are.”

— John de Ruiter

138. “The source of love isn’t in your self. It isn’t in your experience. It’s in you.”

— John de Ruiter

139. “Relationship means you give all of your heart.”

— John de Ruiter

140. “You are able to come from openness and softness in an instant.”

— John de Ruiter

141. “When you believe what you know, you love.”

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142. “What you really are isn’t loyal to your self. It won’t favor your self. It will turn your self into what you really are.”

— John de Ruiter

143. “Live finding each other in what you haven’t yet found, seeing each other in a way that you haven’t yet seen, reaching within to find the more. In the more you find the more of each other.”

— John de Ruiter

144. “Relate to the little instead of relating to the big. The little is indomitable.”

— John de Ruiter

145. “Awakening is remembering to enjoy. The more delicate the enjoyment, the greater the awakening.”

— John de Ruiter

146. “Turn into the kind heart you are most looking for in another.”

— John de Ruiter

147. “Your own heart makes you complete, and no one can do that for you.”

— John de Ruiter

148. “Like having no need of big things. Enjoy that you are okay in being simple.”

— John de Ruiter

149. “Focus your entire energy very quietly, very softly, on awakening and realization.”

— John de Ruiter

150. “Peace isn’t a feeling to relate to. It’s a higher quality of beingness to return to.”

— John de Ruiter