Top 200 Kate McGahan Quotes (2025 Update)

1. “The very first Easter taught us this: that life never ends and love never dies.”

— Kate McGahan

2. “True, it’s not over till it’s over. And even when it’s over, it just begins again.”

— Kate McGahan

3. “Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all the love they have to give.”

— Kate McGahan

4. “The whole point of life is to learn love. Life is the school, love is the lesson and we are all here to teach each other.”

— Kate McGahan

5. “Let your love be stronger than your fear.”

— Kate McGahan

6. “You change for two reasons. Either you learn enough that you want to or you’ve been hurt enough that you have to.”

— Kate McGahan

7. “Love is not Give and Take. Love is Give and Give.”

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8. “I feel like I have lost myself. I want to find the “Me” that went away with you. The part of me that loved so unceasingly without condition. The part of me that loved the way you taught me how to love. The part of me that felt more real than I ever felt before. No one seems to find that “Me” and I can’t find Me either.”

— Kate McGahan

9. “When you give everything, you have nothing to lose.”

— Kate McGahan

10. “The biggest disappointments in life come from having expectations that life will be a certain way and then finding out it isn’t.”

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11. “You can never lose me. Someday you will see that I was with you all along. You will find out that what you have loved you can never lose.”

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12. “Fear and love cannot coexist. It is one or it is the other. The choice is always up to you.”

— Kate McGahan

13. “Love lives in the humblest of places. It doesn’t matter how big your house is, how nice your car is, how big your bank vault is... it only matters how much your heart can hold.”

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14. “Sometimes what seems to be the ending of something is really the beginning of Everything.”

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15. “I knew then why I had to suffer. The older we get, the more reasons God gives us to seek His comfort. In the end, He sends us just enough pain and suffering so that we will want to leave. If everything were perfect, we would never choose to go. He wants us to seek an end to our suffering because He wants us to want to come Home.”

— Kate McGahan

16. “Do you love me because I am beautiful or am I beautiful because you love me?”

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17. “You never do fully recover “You.” You will never have another relationship exactly like the one we had. You will become more for the loss of me and you will move forward into a New You. The You I helped you to become. All you can do now is to begin to create the beautiful New You that has been born from your love and from your loss.”

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18. “Love is like the sea. The waves of life, they ebb and flow; they come and go. Time sweeps us away from each other. Love always brings us back.”

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19. “Love can be found in unexpected places. Sometimes we go out searching for what we think we want and we end up with what we’re supposed to have.”

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20. “Oh it was meant to be. It just wasn’t meant to last.”

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21. “Nothing is lost that love remembers.”

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22. “There are not enough words in the English language to describe the experience of this. Death is more than life. Humans put their animals “to sleep” when it’s really waking them up. Everybody has it all backwards.”

— Kate McGahan

23. “Life is the school, love is the lesson and relationships are assignments designed to further us into learning to live in a deeper state of love.”

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24. “The more we love the more we lose. The more we lose the more we learn. The more we learn the more we love. It comes full circle. Life is the school, love is the lesson. We cannot lose.”

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25. “All the love you ever gave is waiting for you there at Rainbow Bridge.”

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26. “Sometimes when I find myself feeling sorry for myself all I need to do it think of you and how you feel about yourself to know... It could be so much worse.”

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27. “Fear creates attachment. Look around at the people and things you feel attached to; the people and things that you believe you can’t live without. What is it that you are afraid of? Make it a goal to let go of attachment and, when you do, the fear will leave and unexpectedly beautiful things can come into its place. That is the reward for living in love and faith, instead of in fear.”

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28. “The heart has all the answers. Try it now. Put your hands upon your heart. Ask a question that you already know the answer to. Feel what “no” feels like. Feel what “yes” feels like. Practice this and by doing so you will be creating a line of communication with anyone that you cannot see.”

— Kate McGahan

29. “Deep within every crisis is an opportunity for something beautiful.”

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30. “Life’s just a dream. It isn’t real. I know that you can’t see that yet. You want me to wake up but in my death I did wake up and I saw you were still sleeping.”

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31. “Once you know true love you will never again be deceived by its counterfeit.”

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32. “We need to go first because we cannot live without your love and care. If we lived longer than you, we would not and could not survive. It’s supposed to be this way. We also need to cross the Rainbow Bridge before you do so that we can be on the other side to greet you when you get there. We wait at home for you here and we wait at Home for you there. It’s just the way it is.”

— Kate McGahan

33. “You took me to Heaven and put me through Hell. And I’d go back and do it all again.”

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34. “If you take care of everything inside of you, God will take care of everything outside of you.”

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35. “Continually trying to satisfy someone who attempts to control you is like bailing someone out of jail when they need to learn a lesson. They will never learn how to take care of themselves unless you are not there to take care of them. Get out of the middle. You take care of you. Let God take care of them.”

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36. “There is a rule in Heaven that says we cannot tell someone something that might shift the living out of their destiny during their lifetime on earth. People must be led by either their mistakes or by their faith, and this is why they cannot be told certain things ahead of time.”

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37. “If I keep myself busy I don’t know how lonely I am. I only know how busy I am.”

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38. “When you cling to something from the past, your hands cannot be open to receive the gifts of the future.”

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39. “I know why she cried like that. She cried because she wasn’t finished grieving the loss of me. When someone has an exaggerated emotional reaction to something in the present, it’s usually because they haven’t resolved something in their past.”

— Kate McGahan

40. “True love is not practical. True love doesn’t always follow the rules. When you are truly in love, you can lose your mind over it.”

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41. “I’ve got some bad news and I’ve got some good news. Nothing lasts forever.”

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42. “Keep an open mind. The right person coming to you at the right time will change everything you ever thought was true.”

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43. “You think the final act of love is setting them free to Rainbow Bridge? That is not the final act of love. The final act of love is releasing them from your leash of grief so they can be free in the heaven on the other side of the Bridge. Until you resolve your grief, you bind them to you in the land between Heaven and Earth while they wait, suspended between the worlds, for you to heal. When you are free of your grief, they are free of your grief.”

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44. “Vehicles are one of the best modes of transportation. Relationships are one of the best vehicles of transformation.”

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45. “When you love without condition, your spirits can never be separated. The love you gave each other holds you together far beyond this life.”

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46. “All souls are lost until they are found.”

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47. “By loving the broken parts in you, I learn to love the broken parts in me. I learn that we are not broken after all.”

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48. “We set our own limits on love. Some of us bind our hearts like Chinese women bind their feet. The binding is painful at first but eventually you get used to it and the pain goes away. The saddest part of all is that by binding yourself to the choices you make, you forget that there was ever another way to live.”

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49. “The heart holds all the knowledge of the universe. Most people barely scratch the surface of what the heart contains. They don’t get out of their overanxious minds. They don’t realize that the entire universe resides in the heart and that is where Everything is waiting.”

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50. “True friendship has no checks or balances. Once someone starts Keeping Score, the game is over.”

— Kate McGahan