Top 250 Lionel Shriver Quotes (2024 Update)
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51. “High rents had priced out the very service sector whose presence at ready hand once helped to justify urban living. For all practical purposes, affluent New Yorkers resided in a crowded, cluttered version of the countryside, where you had to drive five miles for a quart of milk. Florence.”

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52. “I am vain, or once was, and one of my vanities was to feign that I was not.”

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53. “I am in flight from my story every day, and it dogs me like a faithful stray.”

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54. “Time itself made all things rare.”

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55. “I wasn’t brave, but I was stubborn and prideful. Sheer obstinacy is far more durable than courage, though it’s not as pretty.”

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56. “Change is like that: you are no longer where you were; you are not yet where you will get; you are nowhere exactly.”

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57. “With no interruptions to admire dolly outfits, no tomorrow is a school day, we gorged on fruit and sorbet and splashed immoderate second shots of clear heady framboise, whooping at each others’ top-this tales in the orgy of eternal adolescence characteristic of the childless in middle age.”

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58. “Like so many of our neighbors who latched onto tragedy to stand out from the crowd – slavery, incest, a suicide – I had exaggerated the ethnic chip on my shoulder for effect. I’ve learned since that tragedy is not to be hoarded. Only the untouched, the well-fed and contented, could possibly covet suffering like a designer jacket. I’d readily donate my story to the Salvation Army so that some other frump in need of color could wear it away.”

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59. “Funny how the nature of a normal day is the first memory to fade.”

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60. “Presenting emotions as facts-which they are-affords a fragile defense.”

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61. “Bur Armenians have a talent for sorrow.”

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62. “Worse, the deadly accuracy of filial faultfinding is facilitated by access, by trust, by willing disclosure, and so constitutes a double betrayal.”

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63. “The existence of other people is essentially awkward.”

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64. “The last thing we want to admit is that the bickering of the playground perfectly presages the machinations of the boardroom, that our social hierarchies are merely an extension of who got picked first for the kickball team, and that grown-ups still get divided into bullies and fatties and crybabies.”

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65. “Not that happiness is dull. Only that it doesn’t tell well. And of our consuming diversions as we age is to recite, not only to others but to ourselves, our own story.”

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66. “Half an ear cocked, something in me, all night, every night, is waiting for you to come home.”

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67. “I wondered why people ever tried to accomplish anything when attainment of every sort was inbuilt with the forlorn ‘Well so – what’s next?”

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68. “Like most people who did not answer a particular calling from an early age, you placed work beside yourself; any occupation would fill up your day but not your heart.”

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69. “The pediatrician must have thought me one of those neurotic mothers who craved distinction for her child but who in our civilization’s latter-day degeneracy could only conceive of the exceptional in terms of deficiency or affliction.”

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70. “But since we’ve been separated, I may most miss coming home to deliver the narrative curiosities of my day, the way a cat might lay mice at your feet: the small, humble offerings that couples proffer after foraging in separate backyards.”

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71. “They were determined to find something mechanically wrong with him – because broken machines are easier to fix.”

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72. “Although the infertile are entitled to sour grapes, it’s against the rules, isn’t it, to actually have a baby and spend any time at all on that banished parallel life in which you didn’t.”

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73. “There’s something nihilistic about not having children.”

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74. “Home is precisely what Kevin has taken from me.”

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75. “To a man and woman, all of her elderly patients had been surprised to be old – which Avery privately regarded as a serious failure to pay attention.”

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76. “I’ve never been shy. I’ve just waited until I had something to say.”

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77. “Plots set in the future are about what people fear in the present.”

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78. “I have never in all my life considered you other people.”

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79. “Though it may be more romantic to picture the bereaved as gaunt, I imagine you can grieve as efficiently with chocolates as with tap water.”

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80. “So many stories are determined before they start.”

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81. “I realise its commonplace for parents to say to their child sternly, “I love you, but i don’t always like you.” But what kind of love is that? it seems to me that comes down to, I’m not oblivious to you – that is, you ca still hurt my feelings – but i cant stand having you around.” Who wants to be loved like that? I wonder if I wouldn’t have been more moved if my own mother had taken me in her arms and said, “I like you.” I wonder if just enjoying your kids company isn’t more important.”

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82. “Please tell me you’re not listening to that Shriver woman. She’s a hysteric. And so annoyingly smug, as if she wants civilization to collapse, just so she can be proved right. I can’t bear the sound of her voice.”

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83. “In the particular dwells the tawdry. In the conceptual dwells the grand, the transcendent, the everlasting.”

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84. “I’m a journalist, and journalists need news. Deprive them of it, and they go a bit barking. Deprive them of news long enough, and they’ll make their own – much the way the starving will eventually turn to cannibalism.”

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85. “Yet in my experience, when left to their own devices people will get up to one of two things: nothing much, and no good.”

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86. “So much lying in marriage is merely a matter of keeping quiet.”

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87. “I have no end of failings as a mother, but I have always followed the rules.”

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88. “Between ourselves, I’ve started to worry that in some backhanded way I’ve become attached to the disfigurement of my own life.”

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89. “This was food without you. Our loft, rich with the international booty of baskets and carvings, took on the tacky, cluttered aspect of an import outlet: This was our home without you. Objects had never seemed so inert, so pugnaciously incompensatory. Your remnants mocked me: the jump rope limp on its hook; the dirty socks, stiff, caricatured deflations of your size eleven feet.”

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90. “Even if he doesn’t go to college, he could at least learn to make something. Nobody in this country knows how to sink a nail anymore. They’re all dependent on the tradesmen their kids are taught not to become.”

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91. “You can call it innocence or you can call it gullibility, but Celia made the most common mistake of the good-hearted: She assumed that everyone else was just like her. Evidence to the contrary found nowhere to lodge, like a book on chaos theory in a library that didn’t have a physics section.”

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92. “Like most disguises, the cover-up was worse than honest flaw, a lesson I had yet to register on my own account.”

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93. “The liberation of adulthood as we’d conceived it from below was a pipe-dream; with oppressors deposed we became our own tyrants.”

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94. “Why would you want to sell millions of people on the illusion that they knew you, when they didn’t?”

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95. “I felt expendable, throw-away, swallowed by a big biological project that I didn’t initiate or choose, that produced me but would also chew me up and spit me out. I felt used.”

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96. “Sheer obstinacy is far more durable than courage, though it’s not as pretty.”

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97. “In the particular dwells the tawdry. In the conceptual dwells the grand, the transcendent, the everlasting. Earthly countries and single malignant boys can go to hell; the idea of countries and the idea of sons triumph for eternity.”

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98. “I was never shy. I was waiting to have something to say.”

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99. “The most sumptuous experience of ingestion is in-between: remembering the last bite and looking forward to the next one.”

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100. “But many, perhaps most siblings share a private universe tropical with benevolence, betrayal, vendetta, reconciliation, and the use and abuse of power of which their parents know practically nothing.”

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