Top 160 Maria Semple Quotes (2025 Update)
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101. “For a quick trip around the bases, it means you blame yourself for everything, you avoid reality, you can’t trust people, you’re hungry to please. Which isn’t all bad: perfectionism makes the straight-A student; lack of trust begets self-sufficiency; low self-esteem can be a terrific motivator; if everyone were so gung-ho on reality, there’d be no art.”

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102. “Bee, don’t hate Dad. I hate him enough for the both of us. That being said, I may forgive him. Because I don’t know what Dad and I would be without the other.”

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103. “Let everyone else travel all over the world. What they’re searching for in Los Angeles and New York and everywhere else is something I already have right here in Seattle. I want it all to myself.”

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104. “The only place tourists go is the Antarctic Peninsula, which is like the Florida Keys of Antarctica.”

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105. “What kind of support group is this?” I exploded. “I’ll tell you who’s the victim here. It’s me, and the abusers are you, you church-basement sadists!” I stormed out and got ice cream and cried in my car. That was the high point.”

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106. “The best lack all conviction, while the worst are full of passionate intensity,’” Alonzo said wistfully. “Now college students won’t know Yeats said that because he’s the root of evil.”

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107. “Was it happiness I’d found in my long marriage? Or capitulation? Or is that all happiness is, capitulation?”

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108. “Mercedes Parents.”

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109. “Sitting at the desk was a woman in a raincoat with a foil-covered plate in her lap. I asked for Mr. Branch. This woman explained she was a friend of the administrator’s and had come to surprise her with dinner. She said everyone was in a meeting in the big theater downstairs. I said I, too, had come on personal business. She noticed the Madrona Hill ID clipped to my briefcase and said something to the effect of “Madrona Hill? Hi-ho, I’ll say that’s personal business!”

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110. “I’ll go nuts inside. He gets to keep creating, and I’m the one who’s still in pieces?”

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111. “21. Mr. Koenig reports that Ms. Griffin commenced approximately five minutes of hysterically expressing disappointment at her son’s choice of friends. 22.”

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112. “S Surpasses Excellence.”

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113. “All roads lead to raising the money to buy a new campus. The best way to achieve it is to pack the incoming kindergarten class with Mercedes Parents.”

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114. “You know how I said your subconscious is a deep-down part of you that sometimes has bad ideas?” I said to Timby. “This isn’t that. This is me, your mom, doing something I know full well is a bad idea.”

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115. “On the drive home, I started playing my new flute. Mom never lets me play in the car because she’s afraid someone might crash into us and my flute will impale me into the seat. I find that ridiculous, because how could that even happen?”

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116. “I need you to know how hard it is for me sometimes.” Mom had her hand on mine. “What’s hard?” “The banality of life,” she said. “But it won’t keep me from taking you to the South Pole.” “We’re not going to the South Pole!” “I know. It’s a hundred below zero at the South Pole. Only scientists go to the South Pole. I started reading one of the books.”

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117. “Bucky,” Lester said. “The other night I started to explain to someone your philosophy on Southern accents, but all I could remember was that it defied logic.” “Southern accents are hillbilly,” Bucky said with petulance. “Anyone with a proper education, I don’t care if he’s never stepped foot out of the South, doesn’t go around sounding like Jubilation T. Cornpone. If he does, it’s a put-on. And please, I’m in no mood to rehash the obvious.”

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118. “Today I will be my best self, the person I’m capable of being. Today will be different.”

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119. “I don’t know if it’s possible to feel everything all at once, so much that you think you’re going to burst.”

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120. “As Violet had put it, You can’t secretly abort your husband’s baby because you think he’s retarded and expect to stay happily married.”

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121. “The only thing you can blame Elgie for is he makes life look so damn simple: do what you love. In his case, that means working, spending.”

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122. “You spent ten years of your life and billions of dollars inventing something so people don’t have to live their own lives. Mom found a way of doing it for seventy-five cents an hour.”

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123. “I don’t mean to ruin the ending for you, sweet child, but life is one long headwind. To make any kind of impact requires self-will bordering on madness. The world will be hostile, it will be suspicious of your intent, it will misinterpret you, it will inject you with doubt, it will flatter you into self-sabotage. My God, I’m making it sound so glamorous and personal! What the world is, more than anything? It’s indifferent.”

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124. “The world will be hostile, it will be suspicious of your intent, it will misinterpret you, it will inject you with doubt, it will flatter you into self-sabotage. My God, I’m making it sound so glamorous and personal! What the world is, more than anything? It’s indifferent.”

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125. “Oh, didn’t I tell you?” she said. “I’m going to move to Wallingford and rent a house off campus. I already got a job working in the Choate dining hall.”

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126. “Attached please find a scan of an emergency room bill I suppose I should pay. One of the gnats at Galer Street claims I ran over her foot at pickup. I would laugh at the whole thing, but I’m too bored. See, that’s why I call the mothers there “gnats.” Because they’re annoying, but not so annoying that you actually want to spend valuable energy on them.”

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127. “But you have a vision. You put a frame around it. You sign your name anyway. That’s the risk. That’s the leap. That’s the madness: thinking anyone’s going to care.”

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128. “Bernadette pulled the car over, took off her seat belt, and turned around. “That’s right,” she told the girls. “You’re bored. And I’m going to let you in on a little secret about life. You think it’s boring now? Well, it only gets more boring. The sooner you learn it’s on you to make life interesting, the better off you’ll be.”

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129. “I need you to know how hard it is for me sometimes.’ Mom had her hand on mine. ‘What’s hard?’ ‘The banality of life,’ she said. ‘But it won’t keep me from taking you to the South Pole.”

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130. “Audrey Griffin’s eyes were wild, and she had a big smile as usual, and she was shaking a piece of paper at us. Her gray hair was coming out of its ponytail, and she was wearing clogs, and under her down vest you could see the pleats on her jeans bulging out. It was hard not to watch.”

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131. “But with every step, I felt my anger falling way. Underneath that anger: fear. In the middle of one of her self-help phases, Ivy had once proclaimed that all anger was fear. I’d long since wondered what, if anything, was underneath all fear.”

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132. “For the past twenty years I’ve been in training for overwintering at the South Pole! I knew I was up to something.”

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133. “Judging from the contents of her shopping cart – imported cheese, organic raspberries, fruit wash spray – she is the exact quality of parent we need at Galer Street. I saw her in the parking lot. She was driving a Lexus. Not a Mercedes, but close enough!”

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134. “In extreme cases, a person’s coping mechanisms can be so inadequate that the stressor causes a psychotic break.”

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135. “Bee exhibits extraordinary concentration when working alone; when working in a group, she is a quiet and confident leader.”

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136. “Upon arrival, I identified myself as Seattle PD. I attempted to pull Ms. Griffin off the teddy bear, which appeared to be causing her acute distress.”

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137. “An added bonus of having a drunk for a father is that in order to survive, I became freakishly attuned to subtle body language and inflections. Joe calls this heightened perception my “witchly powers.”

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138. “But once Violet saw the inherent sadness in one thing, she couldn’t stop.”

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139. “How do I break it to you that people aren’t predictable? That life is confounding and sadistic in its cruelty?”

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140. “You’ve traded vocabulary, lucidity, and memory for motherhood.”

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141. “20. Mr. Koenig reports that he observed a variety of drug paraphernalia, including, but not limited to, “bongs, bindles, rolling papers, prescription drug bottles, roach clips, one-hitters, pinchies, rigs, works, spoons, and an ‘epic vape.’” A visual scan of the room indicated no controlled substances other than “shake and seeds on the mini-fridge.”

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142. “TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 16 From: Bernadette Fox To: Manjula Kapoor.”

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143. “What’s that?” I asked Ryan. “Straight Gate,” he said. “It was a Catholic school for wayward girls built at the turn of the century.”

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144. “I’m trying. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn’t.”

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145. “We drove past the rail yards on Elliott Bay with the huge orange cranes that look like drinking ostriches standing sentry over thousands of stacked shipping containers. When I was little, I asked Mom what all those containers were. She said ostrich eggs filled with Barbie dolls. Even though I don’t play with Barbies anymore, it still gets me excited to think of that many Barbies. “I’m sorry I haven’t been around much.” It was Dad again. “You’re around.”

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146. “That’s where I really failed your mom,” he said. “She was an artist who had stopped creating. I should have done everything I could to get her back.”

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147. “I wished I’d never made the connection about Dad being a gigantic girl, because once you realize something like that, it’s hard to go back.”

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148. “When I said my dad worked at Microsoft, they openly mocked me. I had a PC and listened to music on my Zune. What is that thing? people would ask in the most offended way, like I had just taken a huge stinky poop and stuck earbuds into it.”

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149. “Sometimes Victory knocks on your window even though you never sent out an invitation.”

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150. “OUTDOORSY DAD: Bing’s better.”

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