Top 180 Mark Nepo Quotes (2024 Update)
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51. “The Pain of Becoming For the flower, it is fully open at each step of its blossoming. We do ourselves a great disservice by judging where we are in comparison to some final destination. This is one of the pains of aspiring to become something: the stage of development we are in is always seen against the imagined landscape of what we are striving for. So where we are – though closer all the time – is never quite enough.”

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52. “Grief can be a slow ache that never seems to stop rising, yet as we grieve, those we love mysteriously become more and more a part of who we are.”

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53. “Light is in both the broken bottle and the diamond.”

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54. “One of the most challenging ways is to slow down enough to relax our heart and feel what is nearest. It could be the sun reflecting off of broken glass in an alley. It could be the shine on a crow. It could be snow on a lamp post.”

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55. “My friends are the beings through whom God loves me.”

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56. “I’ve learned that loving your self requires a courage unlike any other. It requires us to believe in and stay loyal to something no one else can see that keeps us in the world – our own self worth.”

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57. “We are born with only one obligation – to be completely who we are.”

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58. “We work so hard to get somewhere, to realize a dream, to arrive at some destination, that we often forget that though some satisfaction may be waiting at the end of our endurance and effort, there is great and irreplaceable aliveness in the steps along the way.”

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59. “I looked a hundred times and all I saw was dust. The sun broke through and flecks of gold filled the air.”

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60. “The extraordinary is waiting quietly beneath the skin of all that is ordinary.”

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61. “Whatever difficulty you face, there are time-tried ways you can listen your way through. Because listening is the doorway to everything that matters. It enlivens the heart the way breathing enlivens the lungs. We listen to awaken our heart. We do this to stay vital and alive.”

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62. “We are broken open, or we willfully shed.”

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63. “Through the opened heart, the world comes rushing in, the way oceans fill the smallest hole along the shore. It is the quietest sort of miracle: by simply being who we are, the world will come to fill us, to cleanse us, to baptize us, again and again.”

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64. “If we devote ourselves to the life at hand, the rest will follow. For life, it seems, reveals itself through those willing to live. Anything else, no matter how beautiful, is just advertising.”

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65. “I have found that life is alive and we are requested to have a friendship with it, to have a conversation with life and that conversation is restorative and healing and always nearby.”

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66. “Listening reminds me how precious it is to be here at all. And so, listening is the first step to peace, both inner peace and the compassion that connects people.”

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67. “Our crucial task when in pain or despair is not to let the sour feelings spill into everything, so that we stain our sense of the world. Yet we must also take care not to so contain our feelings that they fester and infect our sense of ourselves. Somewhere between these two extremes waits the life of healthy expression, not personalizing everything and not painting the world with our troubles.”

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68. “Kindness is the antidote to everything. Just as water soothes fire, kindness calms how we burn each other from time to time. And under all the ways we burn and hurt, there’s the soft and lasting presence we were born with, waiting to blossom in the midst of any trouble.”

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69. “To listen also means to stay in relationship, the central challenge of our time, and this requires us to constantly minimize whatever stands between us and life.”

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70. “Intuitive listening requires us to still our minds until the beauty of things older than our minds can find us.”

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71. “If peace comes from seeing the whole, then misery stems from a loss of perspective.”

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72. “Wakefulness is not a destination but a song the human heart keeps singing, the way birds keep singing at the first sign of light.”

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73. “In truth, the more we lean into life, the more we authentically interact with the world, the brighter our flame.”

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74. “Perhaps the hardest thing I’ve learned, and still struggle with, is that I don’t have to be finished in order to be whole.”

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75. “A love astounds us or a pain consumes us and we forget that we glow on our own.”

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76. “Who’s to say the effort to be real isn’t the beginning of wings?”

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77. “I was a very driven person, wanting to help and to do good, hopefully to write and teach in a meaningful way – wanting to make change. And I discovered humbly that life was changing me.”

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78. “Everything in life opens and closes, sheds and renews. We are no different. Listening in its endless forms is the way we stay open, the way we stay in relationship, the way we refresh who we are and what we’re doing here.”

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79. “I laugh when I think of how many hours I have spent in my life weaving storylines that never came true until, like weeds, they covered my heart.”

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80. “Being human, we are constantly broken apart by experience. To reconcile our humanness means we are ever learning how to accept our suffering and to restore our Wholeness.”

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81. “Whatever our path, whatever the color or grain of our days, whatever riddles we must solve to stay alive, the secret of life somehow always has to do with the awakening and freeing of what has been asleep.”

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82. “The journey is made easier when we can accept that the process of living is designed for what matters to come through us tenderly.”

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83. “In the way that I experience life, the physical world is really just the tip of the iceberg of reality. Whether it’s trees or stones or water or animals or stars, everything has an ineffable interior quality.”

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84. “Our job is not to expose the mystery but to participate in it.”

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85. “Even when clouds grow thick, the sun still pours its light earthward.”

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86. “I would rather be fooled than not believe.”

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87. “The broken door lets in the light. The broken heart lets in the world.”

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88. “The greedy one gathered all the cherries, while the simple one tasted all the cherries in one.”

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89. “I think happiness is overrated, but joy is the key to the thousands of possible moods we can feel. And when we can rest in that joy, then peace is the moment of openness that holds all feeling.”

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90. “The fully engaged heart is the antibody for the infection of violence.”

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91. “As nature erodes the earth into magnificent forms, life through endless experience opens us further and further to the essence of what matters. Each time I’ve been opened further, the way I experience life and receive things has changed.”

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92. “When we don’t get what we want, there’s a legitimate grieving, and then the spiritual journey truly begins, because not getting what we want breaks our self-reference; and once that is broken, we are aware that we are a part of a larger whole. It changes everything.”

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93. “When we are forced to stop the noise around us and in us, we begin to hear everything that is not us, and this is the beginning of humility and the renewal of our soul’s energy; as only by listening to all that is larger than us can we discover and feel our place in the Universe.”

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94. “Love and grief enable us to feel how we’re all at heart the same. In love and grief, which is always very personal, the distinctions that separate us melt away.”

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95. “Live loud enough in your heart and there is no need to speak.”

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96. “The glassblower knows: while in the heat of beginning, any shape is possible. Once hardened, the only way to change is to break.”

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97. “Where love is deep much can be accomplished. – SHINICHI SUZUKI.”

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98. “In a world where the great technologies enable us to record, replay, cut and paste, zoom in, and delete, listening is the crucial commitment to keep the heart touchable.”

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99. “We travel so far only to land where we are. We imagine other lives, only to meet who we are. We seek out love in special ways, only to find everyone is special. Humbly, we can’t avoid this journey...”

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100. “I started out wanting to write great poems, then wanting to discover true poems. Now, I want to be the poem.”

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